How do I stop tripping out about my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm always freaking out when he doesn't talk to me or when he does something I don't like. How do I not do this? I don't have any friends, I don't have a job, I don't go to school. All I do is sit at my house in my thoughts. You know how that goes. How do I stop? I start work Monday. So it should get better but right now I'm just freaking out on him. I hate it when he doesn't talk to me and my mind just jumps to conclusions. He has cheated on me before. So it makes me worry a lot more then I should. I just need something to get my mind off what he could be doing. He never worries about what I'm doing.(That I know of.) And I never do anything for him to worry about. So he looks more calm then I do. Any ideas? Girls what do you do? Guys what should I do? 'Cause let's be honest no guy likes a bitchy, obsessive girlfriend. Help Please!

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Things will get better when you start work Monday. You'll have more things to do and talk about and you won't be so likely to sit around and obsess over him. Maybe you'll even meet a new guy to date so you can dump the old one because he cheated on you anyway and shouldn't have gotten a 2nd chance to begin with.

Also try to go back to school. Do something to better yourself instead of sitting around thinking about a guy. Chasing a guy never got anyone rich but chasing money will always make you better and introduce you to new guys.

[GodsGift2Every1]

I think you should talk to him, and if he's not treating you right, it's time to move on.

[MOZZY10]

It is natural for a man to run away from that which chases him. He hasn't left you, which means he does't want to. If you show signs of weakness in your personality in front of him, he'll react to you accordingly. Stay firm at all times. Don't behave as though your relationship with this man is temporary . . Remeber your stuck with him for 60 years.

[Love2Ball]

Thats why when someone cheats on you.. you chuck their ass.