Clarify what clingy means. If you mean like not respecting personal space or boundaries when the need for them have been clearly communicated then no one likes that. Everyone is different and if you care about them you need to be aware of non when your partner would like some space. You should also be aware that it doesn't mean they aren't into you. Not to compare you to a pet but it is what I'm doing only for the purpose of seeing it from another perspective. If you ever had a pet that you loved. Was cute and cuddly. The only problem was everytime you were home they are so excited to see you that there in your face or on your keyboard as you tried to type. If it's ever happened to you it can start to wear on your patients. You still love it but and might appreciate it more if it wasn't so extra all the time. Regardless the two of you should communicate logically about it and compromise on something that you are good with. This should be something you both agree on. Don't listen to pressure or what friends tell you they should do or how it should work. You have to decide. It's simple just break ask your self what's more important to you and is it soo th important that you are willing to step away or is it important but not important enough to lose them over.
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I wouldn't say you are clingy, however this is how he feels. Which you should listen to him. Now you need to sit and talk with him about your feeling, what you want and come to some arrangements that could work well for both of you. See what each of your expectations are with the relationship but also with your time together. Maybe plan some dates that include his friends and some woth your friends. Spend time together doing things you both enjoy. I hope this helps. Remember that open communication is the key.
No, it isn't strange for a man to spend his weekends with his lady, but you have to understand that DURING THE WEEK he & his friends are BUSY with WORK or SCHOOL or WHATEVER THEY NEED TO DO & the weekend is also their time to catch up & relax after the long week.
How about you ASK if he needs time with the boys?
If he's calling you clingy, there's a red flag right there. It means you're too much & need to back off before you push him away. Its normal to miss your partner, but you have to be able to accept that there is times you won't see them & that you will see them as soon as you're both able. It takes emotional & mental maturity, something you should figure out before you push him away.
I’m the exact same and my boyfriend loooovvveeesss having his own space. I’ve learned slowly to just start doing things you like by yourself (or with friends if you can’t manage it alone) and distract yourself with nice things to do. Maybe shopping? A nice meal? Girls night? A good book? It works wonders. It’s hard work to be okay with not seeing him all the time, but you’ll get through it.
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You need to diverge your attention to other things to distract yourself from him. He needs his time and you need yours. If he starts feeling smothered, it can destroy the relationship. You need to respect his acknowledging other interests. Spending time apart is just as imperative to a relationship as your time together.
You're more invested in him than he is you. His friends are important to him and he'd like to spend more time with them and perhaps less time with you.
Doesn't sound like you are being unreasonable. But there is a mismatch which presumably causes tension in the relationship.Do you feel like your boyfriend is out of you league? Is he more attractive than you? Does he have a lot of female friends? Do you notice that other girls are attracted to him? Any of these factors could cause you to be clingy (in my experience)
Look for other interesting things to do instead, and ask first if he's free to see you instead of wasting your time in case he's going out. It sounds like he's very protective of his own time
If I was your boyfriend I would not mind you clinging as much as you wanted to.
Give him some breathing room. Everyone has things on their lives besides a relationship.
I don't know he sounds kinda like a dick. That does not seem clingy at all to me. I would always want to spend time with my girlfriend
Yeah, he should have told you beforehand if he had plans with his friend. That was poor communication.
Get a hobby? Independence is very important in a relationship.
If i was him my hands would be around that waist 24/7.
Daaam girl you fine.- u
Just don’t overthink it and take things too seriously
Clingy girls are the best in my opinion. But it seems your man don't get that.
Well just do you make plans with friends have fun by yourself.
Find someone just as clingy for u
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Find other things to do.
Find something important to do.
Tbh, I wouldn't mind a clingy
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