How do I stop being so obsessed over someone?

[Fwcheerios]

In this case, I’m talking about my boyfriend. I am deeply obsessed and in love with this man and it scares me. On scale of 100, I definitely feel like our relationship is 60/40 when it comes to how much we love each other.. and for it to work it should be 50/50. I don’t want him to think that I’m too clingy or crazy for him. I need tips to stop being so obsessed. Or tips to make him equally obsessed with me.

[jennifer_bloom]

I deal with my romantic desires by pretending that God is my husband so I pour those feelings to God instead of to a man

[Straight2thepoint]

To tell someone- (give them spaces ) it sounds like a stretched comment.
To say- ( meet other people ) is only said by single friends with stupid intentions.
Nothing ull hear is good enough. But this will help.

He might be ur first or u have daddy issues, that are in need to be resolved or just trust issues. But its ok. Just know that u may hurt urself (heartbreak). Ull be ok. Someone will love that side of u. Might be him or someone after.

[Waldoe]

this is something you cannot control... feelings do not follow any Logic... I hope you have a long and happy relationship... also he may feel exactly the same way that you do, but he is a guy, so he can't express it lie a girl does... and he never will

[chris_987]

I don't think you have anything else going for yourself, that's why your obsessed about him. If you looked at him as someone you appreciate rather than someone you need then you'd be better off

[vald9inches]

I used to believe that 50/50 relationships exist but i think no relationship is ever that perfect. Just be happy that he loves you and possibly dial down yourself. You dont want love to turn to obsession because that always ends badly for everyone.

[fred_durst]

you need to distract your mind from him
get as busy as possible at work , or school/college , that will solve the problem

[Anonymous]

You just need to find new interests outside of your relationship. Or seek out a therapist.

[Slim57]

Tell me about it. That's me in relationships also