How do I distance myself from my boyfriend and stop being so dependent on him?

[Anonymous]

I’m young and I’ve been seeing this guy for not long but I’m very much into him and he’s very much into me. I quickly caught feelings and now I feel like my whole world revolves around him I’ve seen him every single day since I’ve known him and it’s like at the start he was a different person doing the most for me and actually wanting to see me and now he makes out that seeing me is like a chore. He gets mad when I make comments like “why wouldn’t you see me tomorrow?” Or something or if I say somethint that he has done that upsets me he gets really pissed off and tells me I need to change my attitude and to be honest I think me being clingy is pushing him away. How do I stop being so dependent on him? I know you’ll say go out with friends but i need emotional answers I need to distance myself how do I do it?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a red flag, he should want to spend time with you, if he feels like its a chore, then it means you don't like doing the same activities, and he has to take time out of stuff he likes doing in order to spend time with you.

If you don't have the same hobbies and interests and feel comforted when around eachother, it won't work.

[Shamalien]

Don’t make comments like “why wouldn’t you see me tomorrow” just have some respect for his space