What are the signs of a girl, when she's falling for a guy?

Question

what signs does she show when she's falling for him? body language, actions, behavior ?

ArtistBboy · Accepted Answer

Behavior:

A) Could become insecure / timid / etc

- Most times I've encountered women who are insecure, they ask a lot of questions or the woman becomes multiplicities of complex. She may grow jealous around other females you talk to, or might try to be your center of attention, she may have a lack of confidence and throw her eyes to the ground (but in most cases, someone who "falls for another" will usually be dating that other mate.. not necessarily as a bystander or as a friend).

B) Body language (Verbal or Nonverbal)

- Subconcious twitches / stuttering over words / rapid eye movement (e.g. looking at your left eye, then the other very quickly), wants to hold you forever, consistently has to be close to you.

C) Actions:

- May try to avoid "interrupting your fun" (which may appear distant); yet, at other times, she may call you a lot or otherwise try to contact you. She might make you "gifts" as she thinks about you through her day (drawings / origami / etc).

etc

There's huge lists and thousands of books which explain all the little details about how to tell if someone is interested in you (or "falling for you" / etc).. My opinion is that you shouldn't worry about identifying if she likes you; just try to discover a bit about her, and when you think you could date that type of girl (aka, you have "validated who she is"), at that point you should make a move and let your new intentions be known in the form of actions or invites... Meaning, maybe you should invite her to the movies, or start holding her hand.. Subtle things to communicate that you are interested (without saying anything verbally).. This helps her warm up to you, this will help you judge if she feels the same way about you.

~ ArtistBBoy

MakeLoveNotWar · Accepted Answer

Wish I knew all of this before. Can someone tell me what it means if you glance at her and she quickly looks away? Does that mean she was staring and you and when she glances away she was pretending that she wasn't?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

From a pretty shy girl: Body language is usually... very subtle, in fact some may even think I was avoiding them haha. A sure fire way to know if I liked someone was through my eyes. I will give my absolute focus on that person and maybe the other can see or not but I smile with my eyes. Sometimes I would laugh not because I always thought the jokes were funny but because I found the way they try adorable and cute. You find, the girl not really minding too much when the guy has done something stupid. You can see when the girl looks like she wants to say something but never really does. How she's around when you are upset, might say a few words but in them are a lot of feelings that are usually not conveyed all the way. There are some who would make random moves to try and touch you when possible, girls like me think about it but fail to attempt to.  It's a feeling you must feel and it's something some can just tell. Try and pay attention to the little details.    Of course if a shy girl isn't your thing then, oh wells. Shy girls can come with a lot of baggage... then again, anyone can come with a lot of baggage. Sorry, went a little off tangent.

learningthegame16 · Accepted Answer

Body language can vary from girl to girl but if she has fallen for a guy, her body won't be in a defensive position when he's around (she won't have crossed arms, have a tense stance, etc).

The look in her eyes will also say a lot. She doesn't have to be actually smiling but when she looks at the guy, her eyes will look happy when ever she sees him. They'll also look softer in their expression when she looks at him.

If you're not sure what this expression looks like, I suggest hanging out with a friend who is in a relationship with someone they adore and just watch how they look at one another. That will show you what to look for.

I think these are the two main ways you can tell if a girl has fallen for you. Some people have already mentioned that her making physical contact could be a sign, but that's highly subjective. Some people aren't very touchy while others are.

Good luck.

teamderek13 · Accepted Answer

I'm 100% focused on him when he's talking and absolutely carefree and relaxed when I'm around him. Laugh A LOT. Joke and tease. Use any excuse to touch him. Play it up when I'm cold so he'll give me his jacket. etc...usually it's pretty obvious when a girl likes a guy...it's the guys that are confusing... :/

SkyBlossom · Answer

One thing that might not have been mentioned...some girls are needy, desperate, overly sensitive, clingy, etc. they will give those signs no matter what. So I think it depends on the girl.

Some girls are sometimes a little more reserved and freeze up around the guy they are developing feelings for, so it really means you need to take the time to pick up on things and notice the ques.

LuckyLady · Answer

She will laugh at all of your jokes, even if they're not that funny. She'll find excuses to touch you...brush against you "accidentally", touch your arm, play hit you. You'll probably catch her looking at you a lot...then when she's caught she'll blush and start staring at her feet. She will want to find excuses to be around you. She might stumble over her words or get tounge-tied from nervousness. There are more things, but those are the most obvious I think.

MrsJones7 · Answer

she will take everything seriously and get hurt if you are not considerate of her feelings.. She will have your back when you are in an argument with someone she knows.She will invite you to places that she goes to with her friends. She will hit you up randomly about things happening in her life. Such as ''the job interview was so wack!'' as if you asked her to let you know. she might send you good morning / good night msgs... you will know when this happens though. She will be drawn to you.

pinmeup · Answer

Well, this could vary since every person is different.

If she's insecure, she may actually draw away from you for fear of getting hurt.

Or if she's not so afraid, it could be the way she looks at you. A certain sparkle in her eye. Or always wanting to be around you.

RubyRedRox · Answer

Well I "unwittingly" run into them, I smile like a fool, I blush like a cherry, I let them talk more than I do for fear of saying something completely stupid, I cannot make direct eye contact, I tend to like everything they do, and I become extra nice to them.

Skyler123 · Answer

My answer is based off of how I do when I'm falling for a guy. I usually want to be around them more often. I'll contact them more frequently. I'm usually drawn to them meaning I try to make as much physical contact as possible. If we're not a couple just yet I'll get as close to them as possible without making direct contact. I'll playfully tease them. I also look a guy in the eyes a lot too if I really like them.There's also a look I give him too.

rachel05 · Answer

if she laughs a lot when he thinks its not that funny.. when she always smiles at him.. when she loves to look at him a lot.. if she tries to talk to the guy a lot.. if she's asking questions about him personally.. she's tryign to get to know him better.. hope I helped

Skygirljenn · Answer

She will take things you say seriously and get hurt easily, if she wasn't falling for you, she wouldn't give a crap about anything. Look for those signs.  Also look for a lot of contact and wanting to hang out with you a lot (as the other girls said).  If she brings you to meet he family that is a good sign.

ilessthanthreeyou · Answer

I don't know about other girls but I tend to play with my necklace when I'm around the guy I like ^-^ I also use my hips a lot more than normally, like shifting my weight around A LOT more :) She might use her arms a lot, if it's a habit for her to cross them she might cross them and realize that she's doing it and put them by her side and stuff like that

Olivia9 · Answer

She teases him and uses excuses to be close to him or touch him. Like stealing someone's and running away or something stupid. Trying to start conversations with you about deep stuff or goes out of her way to relate to you in some way or another.

Anonymous · Answer

She may get really nervous around you

Want to see you all the time

Talks to you when she gets a chance calls/text/fb

Giggles

Holds eye contact, then shyly looks away

She'll listen attentively to everything you say and remember little things

Might start buying things

And at the end prob end up telling you she likes ya :)

Anonymous · Answer

Every women is different when she begins falling for a guy. She may begin to constantly fidget or she may begin to stare at you dreamly or begin to get very needy and want to be around the guy she is falling for.

mikuletako · Answer

She always find the guy when he is nowhere to be found. Always stare at him when he is not seeing you. always thinking of him. shy to talk to him. Always smiling face. A day is not enough for girl to talk too much. I hope it helps you. LOL :")
#basedonmyexperience.

dx021 · Answer

um she acts a bit more submissive... she thinks the guy can do no wrong, that he's the greatest thing she has ever impaled herself upon

AmberChick · Answer

She looks at him a lot, seems like she's trying to hard, blushes, pupils dilate, smiles more or looks down and is noticeably more nervous

emilyjanemiller · Answer

playing with their hair, saying 'err' 'umm' a lot, text you a lot, blush etc

Anonymous · Answer

When a girl falls for a guy she usually stumbles and lands on her face

Anonymous · Answer

touches him, smiles a lot,

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