I do try, but it often fails. As time goes by, I can go longer and longer with no contact. No contact does work and does make them wonder what you're doing and if you care about them still. They're then more likely to contact you first.
If a girl does that to me, she'll find herself single. I hate feeling like I'm being avoided, after a week and a half of no replies I'd probably assume we were done, I move on quickly.
me? absolutely not When I like a woman romantically my ultimate goal is to marry her so for me I am certain going in. though I am the kind of guy who wants a serious authentic genuine relationship.
if he's an honest guy he won't mind the nc..thats what I'm on rite now its good and bad cause you hate to be in the dark..just whatever he gives to you make sure you give back so he knows..good luck
Not at all, it's a very big turn off.. there are even podcasts about this. A woman rejecting physical contact with us.. that is just annoying, nothing else 🙄
umm this is a difficult question because what if he is fed up with the relationship and takes the month of silent has a implicit "we are over" message?
Odd question. Has this actually worked? I have never seen it work. If a girl pulls back and cuts contact, I just think she is not interested. Why would I try to contact someone who doesn't want to contact me?
Game playing never impresses me. If a girl avoids me for a week, I assume that she has lost interest and I start looking for someone else. "No contact" is the proper way to end a relationship.
I don't get the whole stupid game stuff if someone doesn't seem bothered I'd move on and same if I acted not bothered you can't blame him for not wanting to waste his time
A month? No, if I'm not invested then I move on. Even then, I'll still move on because I don't like to be stuck on one thing for too long. But that's just me
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I do try, but it often fails. As time goes by, I can go longer and longer with no contact. No contact does work and does make them wonder what you're doing and if you care about them still. They're then more likely to contact you first.
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Interesting lol. That's a good article.
I think it just shows them you’re not worth the time and effort because you play mind games with them and won’t just tell them what you want.
If a girl does that to me, she'll find herself single. I hate feeling like I'm being avoided, after a week and a half of no replies I'd probably assume we were done, I move on quickly.
me? absolutely not When I like a woman romantically my ultimate goal is to marry her so for me I am certain going in. though I am the kind of guy who wants a serious authentic genuine relationship.
if he's an honest guy he won't mind the nc..thats what I'm on rite now its good and bad cause you hate to be in the dark..just whatever he gives to you make sure you give back so he knows..good luck
so you think I should let him contact me first?
depends how did he get your number?
we dated for 7 months before this, he still has my number and we are talking daily as "friends" but I don't know if maybe I should stop the contact.
i mean did he ask or did you give it to him?
he asked for it like a while ago before we dated ... which would be like 8 or 9 months ago.
Really wouldn't suggest this unless you're in high school. This will usually backfire unless you find a guy who's really desperate.
Not at all, it's a very big turn off.. there are even podcasts about this. A woman rejecting physical contact with us.. that is just annoying, nothing else 🙄
umm this is a difficult question because what if he is fed up with the relationship and takes the month of silent has a implicit "we are over" message?
Odd question. Has this actually worked? I have never seen it work. If a girl pulls back and cuts contact, I just think she is not interested. Why would I try to contact someone who doesn't want to contact me?
If the guy has no game... Then sure, he'll sit in his room and miss you...
If the guy is not totally unpopular... He'll likely find other women to go out with and totally forget you...
Game playing never impresses me. If a girl avoids me for a week, I assume that she has lost interest and I start looking for someone else. "No contact" is the proper way to end a relationship.
I've 6ot a girl who's freezing me out currently, with no good/real
Or apparent reason.
Believe it or not, there are some guys who value female friends.
I can't tell you why a guy "crawls" back, I'm not really that type.
Personally, I think a month is a little extreame, a week or two, yea
If I got taken outta the loop for a month, friend/girlfriend.
I'd drop her so fast her head would spin like a top.
Thats just me
No, this is a game and I don't play games. I'll take that as you're not interested and like you or not, goodbye.
I don't get the whole stupid game stuff if someone doesn't seem bothered I'd move on and same if I acted not bothered you can't blame him for not wanting to waste his time
I think most people just appreciate honesty. Not replying or taking longer seems you aren't interested and is for high schoolers with crushes.
No, If a guy is obsessed maybe, But most guys will see it as a sign you aren't interested anymore and start looking for something new
A month? No, if I'm not invested then I move on. Even then, I'll still move on because I don't like to be stuck on one thing for too long. But that's just me
Heck no if a girl doesn’t contact me just make me think she doesn’t want to talk or have anything to do with me