If men are given space do they usually wonder why you haven’t been in contact and reach out?

[Anonymous]

I started seeing a guy almost 3 months ago, it’s a casual thing but we see each other on a regular basis. Haven’t seen him in 2 weeks, that’s the longest in 3 months we have gone without seeing each other. There were no issues between us but think I was coming on too strong and also he was going through stress. We last texted each other 1 week ago. If I give him space will he start to wonder where I am and reach out? or since he is the one that went through a hard time, should I reach out? Also how much space should I give him?

[Summeroflove]

It’s just sexual… you think he cares about you? Probably NOT

[Asker]

@summeroflove that wasn’t my question

[Summeroflove]

Asker. I can’t read minds. Maybe he thinks about you. Maybe not… Again if he hasn’t reached out to you. He probably doesn’t think much abkjt you unless he wants sex

[Asker]

@summeroflove yeah true..

[Summeroflove]

It’s why you really shouldn’t do that. Because many times one person ends up feeling for someone and the other doesn’t.

Sometimes it’s the girl sometimes the guy. It’s just gross and I feel like you know it’s wrong. So if you feel that way it means there’s hope to change

[Asker]

@summeroflove what do you mean there’s hope to change?
Initially I didn’t feel anything for him and I had my walls up. I tried to distance myself as much as possible. I should have continued to keep my walls up.

[Summeroflove]

Because sleeping around is disgusting

[Summeroflove]

Yeah you should have. You made a bad decision. We all have… But we have to repent and do right.

[Asker]

@summeroflove who is sleeping around? Certainly not me.

[Summeroflove]

People who have friends with velocity

[Summeroflove]

*benefits spell check

[Danny_dan92]

Some do, some don’t