Why are some women so flaky? So hot and cold?

[Yeahhbro]

I have run into a lot of flaky women you know? Like they seem interested one day and the other day they are not even talking to you or they are ignoring you completely.

For instance there was this girl that seemed like she liked me, but next day she was completely ignoring me and then walked away with this guy and left me in the "cold" if you know what I mean. I was like wtf?

I went for a couple of dates with this girl and about a week ago, I sent her a couple of messages but she never answered back.

Some girl give me their number and when I call them, they don't answer either.

There was this girl who would sent me crap and messages on Facebook all the time, she doesn't do it any more.

I swear I haven't done anything, I am a pretty respectful guy and if I offend somebody I say sorry right away.

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sorry I meant to say I haven't done anything wrong!

[kriskiss]

Let me tell you something I use to be you years ago. Then I read two books that literally changed my mind and one is called mode one: let the woman know what you're thinking. It basically talks about how if you meet an attractive women and wanna hook up and have sex with her then tell her regardless of her reaction/possible rejection. Not only will you feel better about yourself many times it works because women love men with guts/balls. plus once they know what you want they can't manipulate you at all. all women I mean all women know men want sex plain and simple so its rare that most men put all their intentions on the line. But pick up that bool online or at a store its a true eye opener and easy to understand.

And the second book which is by far far the most interesting book which describes the girl you described above(referred to in the book as a coquette) is a truly life changing book. if you wanna get laid which you do like all guys I honestly you insist you buy both of these books because they are eye openers. The second book is called the "The art of seduction by robert greene" and is a award winning author. If you want success with women as we all do pick up both books or you will continue to come across women like this your whole life. I asked you to pick up both books because the first I mentioned works better if your out at a bar and know you will never see her again and gotta put it on the line. The second book applies to when you will be spending a good amount of time with a women. I have both books for years and have read each at least 5 times especially the art of seduction. I will include the links to the books. But I promise you man these books will seriously change your life and will not only built your self confidence and help you in all parts of your life(not just with women) I guarantee you'll never have a problem finding another date or getting laid again. But if you do not buy either book you will be frustrated and wil likely lack luck with women. Below are the links good luck buddy :

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Good luck buddy I read these books years ago and the women I get know as before reading them is almost comical and has built my confidence which women love even though I am no Brad Pitt. Believe it or not looks have very little to do with it as is touched upon in at least one of the boos. But please buy these books you can get em used if you got to or at any bookstore if pre ordered or ebay wherever...lemme know how your success goes. take care.

[Yeahhbro]

i will look into them thanks!

[dx021]

*nods robert greene definitely helped me turn my life around as well

[kriskiss]

yup pick it up its addicting I cantt put it down its so fascinating no joke it will change your whole perspective on life if you allow it to.

[shyguy89]

girls aren't meant to be understood..im just as confused as you are man..i get told I'm being friendzoned then out of nowhere I getting all this attention when I start ignoring her I'm so confused..at times like this I think its just better to not even ask because girls don't even understand themselves...

[SilkSatin]

Good insight lol

[shyguy89]

thanks I been told by so many women I don't know why I do what I do I realize we can't blame you only try to understand..try

[dx021]

honestly, when you drop the perspective that people are good, decent and consistent, and understand that women are attracted to mystery, drama and a man with an edge, all tings women do make perfect sense

[shyguy89]

a wise one told me you figure them out they change...

[SilkSatin]

Just give her the same treatment, she will wonder why your advances have stopped and give you her attention...you can take it from there. In answer to your question, as shy guy said, some women really don't understand themselves, as people don't on a whole. We all are constantly growing and it's our experiences that help us the next time round lol but don't take it personal and blame yourself OK : ) or are you possibly hypersensitive and impatient?

[mormollio]

Maybe they're busy

Maybe they were having a sh*tty day and didn't feel like talking

Maybe her phone/computer was broken

Maybe she work to do and didn't have the time to send you crap

meh idk.

I'm just venting on you because I get annoyed when guys get moody (thinking I hate them or they're annoying) over me being "flaky" when I actually had sh*t to do/ something was up to where I wanted to be alone. :/

[Yeahhbro]

i don't think it is like that at all, plus what is up with being a little sh*t? no body likes to be disrespected, which some of them habe been.