Trust her actions(body language) and not her words. Is this statement true?

[Anonymous]

What women say they want is different from what they actually want. In other words, trust her actions(body language) and not her words.

Yes or No?

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

That's true with people in general.

We change our minds about this or that more rapidly with experience and philosophiying ( that a word? lol is now :P) about our morals, preferences, ethics, our reality, life perspective etc etc.

One minute you may think you like something - experience it - then realize it wasn't what you really wanted.

Don't just single this idea out to women - it's something you should adhere to for all people.

Men are just as wishy washy sometimes; it's all apart of self analysis.

Finding genuine people who bite as they bark is rare lol

That's gender neutral.

Some women tend to be more passive aggressive sometimes - saying things are okay when they really aren't - which would frustrate the hell out of any person - so watching body language would help with that situation.

Other than that - I say you should just hold everyone accountable to the whole words vs actions thing.

Their actions reflect their character - and that will give you the intell you need to choose to associate or not.

[harveykinkle]

Yeah trust actions.

Although, you may interpret body language wrong and it may backfire.

[sef0181]

Depends on the woman. But more than likely you need to take both into account. If her body language doesn't match what she's saying, really surprise her by asking in a really nice voice what's on her mind :)

If they match, on the other hand, that's what she means haha

For example: she says "I don't mind." body says "I'm angry!", ask, silly!

She says "I'm having lots of fun!" Body says "I'm really bored" Ask, although she might be lying to please you

she says "I'm angry." Body says "I'm angry" = She's angry!

[Anonymous]

I really hope a man respects what I say, instead of assuming that I don't know what I want or am lying or something.

Sometimes I might want one thing emotionally, but rationally I want something else. And I prefer to use my brain.

Sometimes you can misread someone's body language. You might read into her body language that she wants something, and are wrong. (This is particularly risky if you're talking about things like sex---like if she says no, but you think her body language is saying yes.).

[gummybear888]

only the ones who like head games. I hate head games. depends on the individual but I hte wasting my time.

[slipslender]

not necessarily.

[swiftsaver602]

Not sure why you got down-voted...I agree