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We both cheated...now what?

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years and we currently live together. About four months ago I was out at a work function and was well past intoxicated...and I ended up making out with a work...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean "I feel responsible for you." Coming from a guy?!

This guy, well you can say he is my “lover/ friend” …. but anyways, me and him were talking he was like “you are a star, and I wanna see you when you shine….I want to stay in contact with you always, because I feel...

monmon

Xper 5 Age: 34

Hair extensions on short girls? yay or nay?

I have never had hair extensions before. My hair is abt 2 inches passed my shoulders right now & I'm close to being 5 ft tall haha. A bit shorter maybe, if not exactly 5 feet. Anyways, I was on google just trying to find...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my girlfriend always vent her frustrations out on me?

Lately my girlfriend has been very stressed, which I understand. She's had some difficulties with people pushing a lot of responsibilities onto her. So, instead of speaking up to her stressors she always seems to blow...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Long distance relationship: is it justifiable for me to feel guilty about flirting with other guys?

I'm in a long distance relationship until my boyfriend returns home in October. Problem is, we had only been dating for about three weeks prior to him leaving. I don't know why I agreed to be in another long distance...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When is it okay to start cuddling with a guy?

How long after meeting a guy is it okay to start cuddling? Does cuddling always lead to sex? because I really don't want it to in this case, but I like the closeness.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls "fake smile" sometimes?

So I like this girl. We talk and joke a lot although she seems a bit nervous when I'm talking to her one on one (she is a lot more at ease with everybody else). Sometimes when we pass each other on the hall I can feel she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are soccer legs attractive to guys?

I play soccer every day for 2 hours and go to the gym, I am skinny (not super skinny) and I have toned legs..when I wear shorts they tend to look big but there average soccer legs...is that a turn on or off?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

A girl calls you out the blue, does that mean she is interested?

A girl called me on Saturday and wanted me to go to a club with her and her friends. I've told her that I was staying in for the night. She also told me about her friend birthday next Saturday and told me that I should...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Nose compliments for her??

is complimenting a girl's nose affective, if so what are some good thinks to say about it?

jdog234

Xper 3 Age: 30

Other

Do girls/guys get nervous when talking to their crush over the phone?

I do. I start fumbling over words and pretend to be busy with something. Sometimes, I even pretend that I'm losing signal and hang up LOL!

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you weed out the bad guys from the good ones?

Every other time I think I found a good guy, he ends up proving me wrong.

ninthjewel

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

Can a guy love two women equally?

Has anyone experienced loving two girls at the same time and not being able to choose between them? Is it even possible?

FunnyBunny

Xper 5 Age: 35

Girls do you think tattoos look good on skinny arms?

i have very skinny arms and feel that a tattoo would maybe look daft on them, before you ask I would only get tattoos on the top parts of my arms. I'm asking girls to you think tattoos on very skinny arms look hot?

Anonymous

(36-45)

When girls dye their hair blonde?

Why don't they dye their eyebrows too? It looks so ridiculous with bleach blond hair and Black eyebrows

naturally

Xper 7 Age: 33

I wear granny panties?!

A friend stopped by my house one day and I had some folded laundry out on my bed. She walks in and starts giggling and says "Oh my god you have granny panties!" I was kind shocked. I never thought I wore granny panties....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Whats it mean when a guy calls you cute?

okay so why do guys use the word cute? Do they mean like a puppy, or what? I can't figure out if I'm suppose to take it as a compliment or is he just saying "you remind me of a little girl, you are so CUTE:)" Its driving...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

My girlfriend is moving (only an hour away), but I am scared of losing her?

I have been with my girlfriend for over 6 months. We get along very well and I enjoy being with her. The best part of our relationship is that we live within walking distance of each other. It makes seeing each other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A girl sends me good morning and good night texts?

a girl sends me good morning night and good night texts and adds take care Does she like me or she is just being nice? She is my friend and I don't want to date her. If she likes me how can I let her know that I am not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do I like shy girls?

i really like shy girls that are really pretty or cute, like there is often times an innocence about them, and I always feel like they're good girls. I'm also not looking for pre-marital sex, and very much look for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls always have a back up guy or two?

So if a girl dumps you out of no where, she is hurt really bad by what you did- does she have a back up guy in place to move on? What is she thinking or doing?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is Ariana Grande a good weight? is she too thin or too fat?

well we have similar body types and I was thinking about losing weight so is she a good weight (shes about 5 foot tall give or take an inch as am I and she's like 120ish pounds but she is very muscular which muscle weighs...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

My waiter asked me for my number?

My waiter at Red Lobster this past Saturday evening flirted with me, and I flirted with him. We were a table of girls, so he was generally talkative to us all. I asked him to take a picture of our table, and he said...

wjmorrow

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

She invited me over to her house to study, does that mean she likes me?

she invited me over to her house to study, does that mean she likes me?

SuRpRiZeD

Xper 6 Age: 33

Is dating a cop a bad idea?

I am interested in this guy who happens to be a cop. I think he's totally sweet and shy (although honestly I've only just met him). My brother and cousin (both guys) told me I shouldn't date a cop because they're a**h***s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Tall girls want tall guys, mid-height girls want tall guys, short girls want tall guys, where does this lead me?

Tall girls want tall guys for obvious reasons. Mid-height girls want tall guys because they don't wanna be taller than a guy with heels on and still be couple of inches shorter. Short girls want tall guys because they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Pale lips, do men find them hot or not?

i guess men would see pale lips as a turn off and wouldn't like kissing them , we look better with lipstick ,but not a bright one ofcourse ,but I always want to try the smokey eyes and pale lips make up

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My girlfriend is upset, she is rejecting my calls..not replying to my text..I don't know what I should do?

hi yesterday my girlfriend argued with me..the thing is she was a bit uset few days back..i sent her chocos and turtles wrapped in a bag..she siad why did I sent them.. I told her I was sorry that you got upset cus of me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Are all American girls hot?

okay so I know it might be a silly question but constantly when I see American girls on tv/youtube etc they are so damn attractive (yes not just physically) I'm Australian and don't have anything against Australian girls...

turbonergrodude92

Xper 6 Age: 34

Ex boyfriend gets married 7 months after our break up?

Just saw a Wedding Photo of my ex boyfriend and he's new wife on Facebook. 7 months after our break up. Married to some full on Asian chick who probably can't even speak English. WTF?! I treated him really well and...

Tiarra

Xper 6 Age: 46

Do I like him or do I like the attention?

He always keeps telling me how he's falling for me and how much he likes me (no overdoing it though). The thing is that I'm reluctant. I'm not THAT into him. But I do miss him when we don't talk and I do find him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you say when a girl asks you 'So what's on your mind'?

Is she trying to mess with me or is she telling the truth?

Anonymous

(36-45)

At what point do you regret leaving someone?

You dated a good guy for half a year or so. He really treated you great, but he made some mistakes in the relationship and ultimately caused it to end. He was well liked by family and friends and everyone saw how much you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Sharing a tent with a girl I like?

I have a close friend that I like. I think she likes me as well. We are planning on going camping next weekend with some other friends, I was thinking about offering to share a tent with her. What would she think if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Approaching the girl in the coffee shop?

Okay, so I go to my local cafe almost every morning for my morning cappuccino and there is a really cute girl that works in there... she serves me quite a lot and always strikes up a conversation. Is she interested or is...

turbonergrodude92

Xper 6 Age: 34

Relationships

What should I do about an overprotective older guy cousin?

My cousin is 18 and I am 16 an he is really protective of me. he is like an older brother to me. He always tells me can't date and I shouldn't and that guys are no good. I want to date but I don't want him to be mad at me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my ex act like he owns me? Guys explain!

He wants me to stay by his side but he doesn't want to stay by mine.At least that's how I see it he is a real sweetheart.it's just I don't trust him to the fullest.He gets mad when I tell him I talk to another guy he says...

Anonymous

(30-35)