All Questions

De canceled our date....do I wait for him to contact me?

I met this guy on a dating site. We messaged for about a week before he asked me to meet up for coffee. We hit it off right away. We talked for nearly 3 hours. He took me back to my car and we exchanged numbers....

nemesis1013

Xper 5 Age: 43

Break Up & Divorce

Girls: if you had a boyfriend with a dangerous job and he got hurt would you stay with him?

if you had a boyfriend with a dangerous job and he got hurt would you stay with him even if he wasn't able to have sex with you anymore ? I know a guy who got hurt well on the job and his wife left him to me that makes us...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Living at home and having a curfew at 23

Its embarrassing...Its especially difficult when I'm starting to date someone and I have to explain why I'm rushing home. I've ended relationships because my mom would act weird and be upset about me staying out late and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does she hate me or like me? Sooooo confused.

Hello cyberspace, I'm trying to figure out if this girls likes me, or hates me. Here is what's going on. So there is this girl that I work with who is throwing some kind of signal at me but I don't know what.. She...

MisterTwister

Xper 5 Age: 38

What is the difference between a jerk and emotionally abusive?

i know emotionally abusive guys are jerks but not all jerks are actually emotionally abusive. where do you draw the line? what's the difference? i had a guy. he was very manipulative. even about small things he would be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl looks down when you look at her?

This happened to me before many times, I would look at a girl and smile at her and she will smile and look down after. What does that mean? When I look at her, this girl looks down.

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

If you've never had a boyfriend are you most probably ugly?

let's say a shy 22 year old girl has never had a boyfriend, she has had some guys approach her, but not really the most physically appealing ones (any guy below decent). would you assume she's probably an uggo?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do exotic women have deeper voices?

have you ever notice women from south America, caribbean, africa, and other exotic places have deeper voices? why is that?

nubianstar

Xper 3 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

I recently broke up with my boyfriend - he didn't care?

Hey all .. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of four months. I really didn't know what else to do. I really truly loved him and he always said that he loves me as well and that he would do anything for me to make me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Help! How do I break up with an overly attached boyfriend of two years?

I love him, but I don't want to be with him forever. He is annoying, always wants to be with me 24/7. He gets mad when I go on Tumblr or text other people - Heaven forbid I text another guy. He says he doesn't care if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, do you ask platonic guy friends to spend the night with you?

Do you ever ask regular guy friends to spend the night, on the same bed spooning, and ask them to spend the night again if you're not trying to hook up with them? There is a girl that I've been friends with for a while...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Are all athletes womanizers?

I've seen on TV famous athletes partying like crazy (after winning medals) having all those women surrounding them. Are all athletes womanizers? Can't they fight the temptations? Aren't there any athletes who dislike...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guys says he wants to give it a go?

When a guy says he wants to give it a go and we are both not seeing other people is that a good thing? Would he still be actively looking to date other girls if h wanted to give us a go? Just confused by this statement....

Gypsie79

Xper 3 Age: 46

Other

Why do girls not like guys who do drugs?

They're so quick to judge that I use adderall to study or that I occasionally smoke weed, but it's perfectly fine for them to get drunk and act slutty and stupid and vomit all over someone's carpet. Okay maybe they don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My crush is in a complicated relationship - what to do?

I was really afraid this could happen, even though the relationship is complicated, like he mentioned. Should I stop communicating a lot because of my very low chances or should I chat like nothing happened?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I become a player?

Lets just say being the nice guy/good guy isn't working out all that well and my friend you could say he is sorta "the player type" and has all the luck

joshma27

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why do we go back to people who hurt us?

So I ended up going back to my ex who hurt me. It was a really bad idea and yes I regret it. I've learned now that I deserve way better. My question is to girls or guys: why do you or why do you think people go back to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Is this coworker of mine is just being super nice or does he likes me?

I have been working together in the same team for almost two years with this male coworker. He is a very helpful and nice guy. So there's a few incidents which make me feel like he's interested in me but I'm not sure...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How often does your significant other go out without you?

What are the rules you two have set? Do you go out at night without your SO often? I am wondering this, because I get nervous about my girlfriend being out without me, and someone else swooping in and influencing her...

ManWhoDropsTheBall

Xper 6 Age: 38

When a guy uses your name a lot while texting..?

Is it a.sign of interest? I heard that when a guy does this, it is a good.sign. My crush does this often with me and it's especially evident while texting. He'll use my name, nickname and Ms. (my last name). Ex: if my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

White guys wouldn't date Mexican girls?

why are you white guys so picky? I never get checked out by you guys .im half Mexican , and I've never seen a white guy check me out ! on the other hand , with Asians ,black etc guys always seem to be hitting on me...

Deeb211

Xper 5 Age: 32

What do women like for polygamy?

I am a polygamist. I have 2 wife who stay with me in one house. we share everything. Food, Cloth, in Bed also. I want to know what women likes or hope such as husband like me?

almaz

Xper 5 Age: 43

Flirting

What does it mean if guy opens the door for you?

Car door! Is he just being nice to me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What does it mean when a guy says he wants to see where it goes?

There is this guy I have been dating for a month and a bit. I wanted to get a bit of an idea of where I stood with him. Found out he was not seeing anyone else and that he thinks I am a sweetheart and has a ball when he...

Tiarra

Xper 6 Age: 46

Women have it so much easier when it comes to dating: agree or disagree?

I'm starting to believe women especially today have it easier then men when it comes to dating. They don't have to worry about rejection, they don't have to worry about their job, don't have to worry about penis size,...

anonymousbastard

Xper 3 Age: 41

Will my second date outfit be too casual?

Hey Guys, Yesterday I went out on a first date (blind date). The guy liked me and asked me out on a second date. He wants to eat/watch a movie at his place. I have a feeling that he is short on cash so I am hoping...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think of bright red / hot pink fingernail polish?

I hate this! Makes a girl look trashy even if everything else is tip-top. What do you think though?

cjwright79

Guru Age: 47

Are girls attracted to guys that surf?

I surf all the time and never had girl come up to me at the beach. I was wondering girls if you saw a surfer at the beach would you be attracted to him?

jojobrooks

Xper 5 Age: 36

Family & Friends

It been 3 years and still haven't met his parents...........yet?

Me and my boyfriend been together for three years now and I haven’t even met his parents yet. I don’t know if they even know about us dating or what. I’m not to press the issue or anything but sometimes he makes me wonder...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is sharing straws intimate or just friendly for you?

Would you share a straw with someone whom you have a romantic interest in or kindred like or is this just something you would do on the regular with people in general?

LOVEART

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why are most guys such players and jerks in high school?

They just wanna get with you, and dump you without even being bf/gf. They just want a hookup. And yes theyre immature, but this is just stupid. I've never had a boyfriend because I know the intentions of the stupid guys...

veronica12

Xper 5 Age: 30

Other

Is it a turnoff if a guy doesn't drive?

I'm in my 20's and don't drive not gonna get into why I don't. But is it a turnoff if a guy doesn't drive? I know there are some pro's and cons. Like not having to put gas, paying insurance, and car maintenance. Cons...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anyone else like the smell of nail polish?

I really like the smell of nail polish, I mean I REALLY like it lol. I know its pretty bad for your health but I still do it. Am I weird for liking the smell of it or does anyone else like it? :)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

He hasn't texted in 10 days...?

Obviously this screams not interested but let me explain... Well basically, I went on a date with this guy and got on extremely well with him. I really got the impression he was interested too so I wasn't surpized when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I so approachable and why are people so nice to me?

does anybody get paranoid when strangers are nice to you or when random older people strike up conversations with you? When I'm out in the city, hobos are really friendly to me and they open doors for me and stuff. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I buy my best friend a bra?

She already told me her size she trust me and I trust her I don't like her! But I want to buy her one because the bra looked cool and do you girls care if us guys ask you about your bras?! Thanks

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy stays up all night talking to you.?

Okay so they're this guy that I've liked for a while and lately we've been talking a lot (basically all day and all night) and we've been getting really close and I feel something they're but I'm just sure. But the real...

zeeaust22

Xper 5 Age: 31

Is it Acceptable for my Girlfriend to Stay the Night at a Guy Friend's House?

My girlfriend (20 years old, dating for 3 years) is staying the night at her friend James's house. It makes me feel very uneasy that she is staying the night at a 16 year old kid's house. They usually stay awake until 2...

Anonymous

(30-35)