My boyfriend and I have been together just over a month, and I've known him for about 2 1/2 months. He started a new job which is very, very demanding of his time about a week after we became official. Since then he's been more distant, we haven't seen each other in over two weeks and I find it really hard to stay in contact with him without feeling like I'm annoying him. We were used to talking every day, we saw each other often while we were dating (though not excessively), he was so loving and affectionate and we knew we would be in this for the long haul, that was very clear from early on. He is very apologetic about being so busy now, although he doesn't seem like his normal self, and I've tried to be understanding and supportive. I suggested I just back off for a while and let him get on with work, as I know this is only going to be temporary for the next couple of months. My question is, could it be that he's already losing interest in me or am I just imagining it? He doesn't seem to want to make plans or bothered about seeing me, although I know how busy he is, he works late into the night and constantly on the go. Am I taking this too personally when it isn't even really about me? How do I know he still cares? I feel like we haven't been together long enough to handle this amount of time apart but I don't want to back down over something like this. What should I do, if anything?
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