Do guys like competitive girls?

[darcy19]

Do guys like girls who are competitive... whether in sports or games?

[kholland65]

Doesn't matter either way to be honest. As long as it doesn't cross the line into either extreme. If you get so competitive that you are swearing and getting angry, that's not good.

I had a friend who's Girlfriend would literally yell and argue with people over stupid board games we would play. He'd always have to take her into the other room and calm her down.

However the opposite is just as bad. I hate the girls who act like its uncool to be good at anything or to try. You know the ones in high school gym class who just stood in the corner playing with their hair and complaining about breaking nails all the while bitching about how ____ is stupid and it doesn't matter who wins.

Simply put I like a girl who puts effort into what she is doing but not to the point of being obsessed and abusive to those she is competing with. Putting effort into simple things like a game, tells me your not lazy and will put effort into other things like our relationship. Not to mention games are just more fun if both parties are actually trying. If you have a don't care attitude about everything, nothing is going to be fun.

[OpenClose]

Sports and games are where competition is fun and awesome!

Don't hold back. If you can whoop our ass in a game, whoop our asses. This isn't the 50's anymore. lol!

However, there are cases where competitive IS bad. For instance, I know girls who treat me like a boy, or "not a real man" because THEY are stronger than ME. That's treating men like you're stuck in the 50's.

When a guy wants to date a girl, he wants to see eye-to-eye. He wants to avoid the constant need to prove himself and compete with others. If he has to keep competing with his girlfriend in order for her to take him seriously, he probably won't open up and just be himself, but constantly put on a front to keep you impressed. The relationship only goes downhill from there.

[Popnlock]

Yea I'm a competitive person so yea... But I think that eventually that leads to trash talk and calling people noobs

[Charlie101]

Definitely.

It's no fun playing against a girl (or anyone for that matter) who isn't like into something as much as you, if that makes sense lol.

[Theguyoverthere]

If they want to be, sure.

Personally, I get more joy goofing off in a sport, but that's just me.

[bassist58]

Yes, I wish I could find a girl who loves golf as much as I do!

[Premonition]

Hell Yes, but mostly if they are good sports about it, because I'm a good sport as well.

[Anonymous]

Competitiveness doesn't strike me as especially feminine. I find extreme competitiveness unattractive. A little is fine. I don't like sports though.

[Lj237]

as long as they aren't overly aggressive then yes

[Racez]

That will be a plus.

[ElijahK3]

I find it attractive