I can't have a serious conversation with my boyfriend and I'm tired of trying to talk what can I do?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for almost 3 months ups and downs but when I try to have a serious conversation he starts joking around and laughing and it makes me cry b.c I'm so frustrated and I'm tired of it frankly it's like he doesn't want to talk about anything serious ever except when he's about to loose me then he gets all intimate with conversation and apologizes and says ho amazing I am. Help tired and sad.

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i told him I want to be with you just me and you but its like you don't understand how much I care for you and how much I try to make you happy it's unnacceptable and I'm terribly hurt and he said your right I'm sorry no more bullsh*t.

[hope555]

My first boyfriend was exactly like that. It was super frustrating. Then I dated my next boyfriend and realized it makes a huge difference when you can actually communicate with your partner. This may be hard to hear. But, I personally am glad I left my first boyfriend, because I cannot spend the rest of my life with someone that just won't communicate. I would say talk to your boyfriend about it first...see if he works on it. If he doesn't , then it might be a legitimate reason to breakup.

[Cynthia12]

Just talk to him. Tell him you need to have more serious conversations or this relationship won't work.

[thenomad]

If it has been ups and down after three months, just drop him honestly. CLEARLY not soul mates so what are you fighting to hold on to? Communication is key in any relationship, you don't have that and you won't with him.

[Racez]

Have a straight face when he tries to entertain you, and talk it out with him.

[thenomad]

Yeah, so once again. You are sprinting in a circle. I love running as much as the next person but not for a a bad reason.

[antonlikesmlb]

Break up obviously.