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* A nice guy will ask or make sure a girl is single and if she says she has a boyfriend he will restrict his emotions even if he still wants to f*** her. A bad boy is not going to care if a woman says she is married, he will do his best to have his urges satisfied and leave it up to the relationship between the girl and her borefriend/husband to see if he gets it.
*If a nice guy wants to express something they will consider how everyone will react to them and think about it being appropriate or not and if it will offend anybody. A bad boy will say whatever he feels and let the world have their reaction to him
*A nice guy will be too empathetic towards women, he will put himself too much in their shoes and forgoe his own urges to accommodate a woman, a bad boy will go for what he wants
* A nice guy will treat a woman like a divine goddess who is doing them a huge favor by spending time with them and will shower the woman with gifts and pay for her. A bad boy only sees a naughty little girl that needs a spanking, he looks past all the bullsh*t and makeup and knows that every woman was once a little bratty girl and one day will be an old woman. he sees himself as the prize and holds the attitude that being with them is the best possible thing the woman can do
*A nice guy will start planning a wedding the first moment any decently looking woman shows any kind of attention to them. A bad boy, and this is important, lets the woman have fantasies about him and doesn't put any weight into a relationship until he f***ed her.
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i think it is because the Bad-Boy is more Extroverted, more social, has a lot of friends, both guys and girls
I don't feel that way at all. Maybe just find different women. Women who believe this are emotionally unstable and this attitude will only come back to bite them in the butt. And as for being rejected, well take it as a good sign you just missed a girl who could have caused you tons of drama in life. The right one will come. Maybe try different places where these types of girls will be.
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This isn't true for all women, I hate bad boys and always look for the nice caring good guys :) unfortunately I always seem to attract the guys who seem nice then they aren't lol :) I find nice guys sexier as you know they aren't going to cheat on you :)
I'm not attracted to bad boys but I think it's the idea that you have to "chase" him to keep him interested and you are never sure where you stand with him.
Also I think it may make you respect him more.
The nice guy is often too predictable and a push over. Yeah, nice guys can be assertive, but most of the time they'll let you walk all over them. You can predict their next move so easily.
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The problem is with nice guy/bad boy comparisons is that you can't expect all men to fall in one box or another. There just aren't two boxes to check as to what kind of man you are, or what women like.
Simply put, many bad boys have confidence or pick out girls that are insecure and exploit those insecurities. These girls often know what they are doing too, so it isn't like they don't like part of the rush of a wild man. They exploit each other, it isn't just the "bad boy" picking on the poor innocent girl.
For "nice guys", I believe a number of them are reasonably good people as advertised. Their problem is, that as a group, they honestly care too much about what women think about them. Women hate men who seek the approval. It kills their attraction triggers and sends these guys into the friend-zone.
For a subset of "nice guys" they honestly don't have some very "nice" opinions of girls (taking it out on some girls because a nasty one spited them a long time ago) or are too lazy to actually keep trying. Men need to experience a lot of rejection before they find a girl. If you stop and quit the game early, your results will reflect that.
Of course, there are exceptions to every rule, but the number one reason why bad boys get with girls is that THEY SIMPLY DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT THE GIRL THINKS ABOUT THEM.
There's nothing more powerful in attracting women than a man who doesn't give a damn. The player types master this. Even nice guys can too. As soon as you don't care any longer about what a girl may or may not think about you, you build attraction in her for you. She needs to know what if she says "no" to you, you really don't care that much because you're already on your way to asking out another girl. This is the fundamental difference between any man who is good with girls (nice or not) and one who isn't.Men and women want different things in life, most men will happily go after a girl simply because she looks good or smells nice, women are after the emotional high also but one that is only partially supplied by looks. Just because women can get a guy does not mean they can get a guy that makes them feel good.
Im telling you now that you can go and have some really ugly woman, GO they would LOVE to be with you, but you won't because they don't make you FEEL GOOD, which is the same thing women feel with guys that can't turn them onwhat I have observed is girls usually like bad boys but its only more of sexual they have mostly settled down marriage mind you with gud guys
girls generally always seem to want a guy that is a challenge
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