All Questions

Should I be cooking and cleaning for my boyfriend?

I'm single right now, but in a way I feel like it'd kind of be like my job. I like cooking already, but I wouldn't want him to take it for granted or expect it. And I like a clean house, so cleaning isn't a big deal. This...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Would you date a male model? Do you think it's weird what are your initial thoughts

So I was really needing money otherwise I wouldn't been doing it, because I really hate it I always refused offers like that but like I said I was short with money. It's kind of embarrassing, because when girls find out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend broke up with me, why hasn't he changed his status on fb?

My boyfriend broke up with me on Tuesday saying " sometimes he is happy with me and sometimes he just want to be alone" said he was concerned that after a month he wasn't in love with me. He still hasn't changed his...

ltmcneill

Xper 6 Age: 41

Ice skating on the first date?

Do you think it would be a good idea to go ice skating as a first date? She loves Hockey and I think it would be a great way to get to know each other in a laid back enviroment. If we go what would I wear? Thank you all...

randomdude33

Xper 5 Age: 36

Should I insist with this guy or should I back off?

Okay, so we've known each other for several years now. It was a time when we hung out everyday (we were 13-14) and we were flirting all the time (well... kind of, we didn't really know what we were doing back then)....

anaturaldisaster

Xper 5 Age: 33

Are some people too shy to engage in PDA?

I've just realized I'm too shy to engage in PDA (Public Display of Affection). I realized this yesterday when I took my crush home and she started being affectionate in public on the train. I didn't know what to do in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are some girls too shy to dress a little revealing and sexy?

Are there girls out there who are too shy to dress sexy and somewhat revealing? I'm not talking about trashy or slutty, just a little revealing but doesn't give too much away, yet catches all the guys' attention.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Do you think Doctors get too much credit in Society?

I was having a debate with my father, he's very old fashioned and thinks that being a doctor is the be all and end all of the universe, and that they basically know everything. I was taking the stance that the Scientists...

Dantemustdie

Xper 3 Age: 34

Are quiet girls not attractive?

What do you think about quite girls are they attractive or not because it seems like guys usually go for the loud girls.

lovingmyself

Xper 3 Age: 36

He treats me like an object instead of something he loves... help!

Well, here's the deal, this guy had a crush on me once back then (he admit this when I asked him whether or not he has any kind of feelings to me), and after he told me that I'm sure that his feelings grow even more,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

''She means nothing to me..''

my boyfriend says a girl doesn't 'mean anything to him' so when I asked him to cut her out of his life he refused and got angry does this mean she really does mean something to him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend still talks to a girl he slept with-- should I be worried?

my boyfriend slept with a girl about 3 years ago, but every week or so she phones him and they talk for one or 2 minutes just to have a 'catch up' he didn't tell me about this, and when I confronted him he lied and told...

PrincessBubble

Xper 6 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Why is he being so hostile towards me?

Hey. I was in a serious relationship for two years. We broke up. A year later, I ask to reconnect and we do. We act like a couple. We did not see this coming. We said we'd take things slowly and have separate lives. I got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies, do you prefer soft hands or calluses?

Ladies, I work in an office, thus I have soft hands(no calluses), however I recently started lifting weights and now I do have calluses and hard skin on my hands. Do you prefer a man with soft hands, or hands with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Men: What does it mean when you use the word "love" ?

A man I am seeing started, about a week ago, to use the word "love" when referring to me. ie: "hey love", "ok love", "how are you love" ...and other such phrases. Now I know he is super selective about his vocabulary and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend had sex with his ex when we broke up and we have been back together for 2 months now he tells me...?

I love my boyfriend very much and he says he loves me and is in love with me and wants a future with me marriage , kids everything.Last night he told me when we broke up in the afternoon that night he had sex with his ex...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He texted me instantly after the first date?

So after our date ended he instantly texted me saying he had a good time and that we should hang out again. Not even 5 min from when the date ended. Do guys usually behave like this?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Is natural blond hair ugly?

I don't know if this is true, but I think fake blondes are much more preferable than natural ones. What do you think about it? When fake blond enters the room all eyes follow her. But when natural blond comes in, no one...

belby

Xper 6 Age: 33

Is dating once a week normal in the beginning?

There is this guy I have been seeing for about a month and a half. Is dating once a week the norm when a guy works full time and is a Gym nut? We mainly see each other on weekends. Never during the week. I get texts...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Boyfriend takes me out, then throws it in my face?

So I am dating this guy for about 4 months now. We were together for a year and we broke up for 3 months. Now we are back on but taking things slow. We have recently had talks about money and how I had a financial goal of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should the saying "ladies first" be phased out?

we're all equal right? so women should not be getting special things like that. woman specific chivalry stands in the way of feminism and equality, it should be abolished.

Anonymous

(30-35)

I thought we were dating, but he apparently doesn't... is this just friends with benefits?

So it's a strange story, but I started hanging out with a guy who I had flirted with from across the street (I would be at the bus stop after work, and he works across the street) for over a year, and things progressed...

ZombieWhisperer

Xper 5 Age: 33

Guy friend always talks about other girls?

Ok, so me and my guy friend are pretty close. We've known each other for a months now. We literally talk about everything. One of the main things being about girls..bleh so every time me and my guy friend talk, he always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When she adjusts my clothes, is she trying to get my attention or not?

Is she flirting or just too comfortable with me as a friend? I was minding my own business and this girl, who I've been getting signals from but I'm not totally sure, came up from behind and fixed my collar and then kept...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys really prefer the ugly outgoing girl over the shy pretty girl?

I have been seeing a lot of guys with this preference for ugly trashy girls that are outgoing over the beautiful shy girl that's kind and pure.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do all the wrong girls like me!?

It seems that all the girls that every time there is a girl who likes me that they are the wrong ones. It's always some girl I just wanna be friends with or a girl I just plain do not like. I feel bad because I know they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, if a man has a hairy ass is it a turn off?

I know most of us guys don't really like hairy asses in girls, but I wonder if girls think the same for guys.

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long does it take you to miss someone?

I recently told a crush of a year and some that I like him and I believe we should stop talking for a short while due to some circumstances, such as; Distance, he is currently going through a break up, I feel like he...

supsupsupsup

Xper 6 Age: 33

Flirting

Guy at the bank says he likes my hat?

Bank teller, told me he liked my hat. Was he flirting by saying that?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How many girls like guys who are handy?

Do you care if your guy knows how to fix a car or build a deck? My girlfriend seems to think it's hot. When I'm doing something like that, my girlfriend always snaps a picture without me knowing it. She's taken...

carguydc

Xper 6 Age: 44

Is it bad when boyfriend's friend says I have a fat ass?

So, the other day I was at my boyfriends house and his older guy neighbor probably in his mid 20's left him a message on his phone saying " ...eyy and there some chic with a fat ass walking into your pool area" my...

riahhxox

Xper 5 Age: 31

What to do when a guy touches/pulls your hair or pokes you/tickles you?

Self explanatory. Many guys at my school try touching my hair and tickling me/poking me (and other girls). Were all 16 so yep very immature.Were not talking about a guy I'm dating, just any guy that I sorta get along...

veronica12

Xper 5 Age: 30

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend bought me an expensive present that I don't like. What do I do?

For my birthday, my boyfriend bought me this gift certificate to a spa. He sent it in an email so he hasn't seen my reaction yet. Now we are both on tight budgets, and I told him before not to spend much money on me (like...

sciencegirl

Xper 5 Age: 38

What does it mean when a guy put xoxo at the end of a text?

I have been flirting with my neighbor for a year. He is sweet and adorable. We finally hung out the other night. Watched some baseball, had some food and wine. We get along amazing. I walked him home as he had a candle...

Yank1218

Xper 5 Age: 70