I'm sorry but seems he's just not that into you.
I'm dating a busy guy too, I have no idea what's going on his work but he works till late night sometimes, but 9 out of 10, he's the one who initiates texts/calls first and he never goes a day wo text. We don't even text back and forth, but he'd still send me at least one text everyday.
Your guy can be extremly busy and type of guy who doesn't like to text nor texts everyday, yet, not replying back to your text is a bad sign.
I would just not text him and see if he works on it.
If he doesn't, you know you deserve better. If he does, means he's interested.
Either way let him work for the relationship not you.
If you keep trxting while he's been ignoring you few times, that will make it looking clingy.
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Regardless how busy someone is, it doesn't even take 60 seconds to text, "Hey, I'm super busy and can't talk but wanted to say hi and I hope you're doing well. Miss you." Or something similar, you know?
I don't think it necessarily means he's lost interest though. A lot of guys don't even think about stuff like this, it doesn't occur to them, even the good guys that truly care. For some, constant contact is a priority, for others, it's not.
If being ignored is bothering you, stop texting him. If he wants to talk to you or text you, he will.
Honestly though, if he's too busy for a relationship, he shouldn't be in one. You may have to make a difficult choice.
You're not being clingy/needy at all. He just doesn't see texting you as a priority, especially if you don't contact each other via phone or Skype. I would just move on. "Busy" or not, he would text you within a 24-hour period if he was interested. It sounds like you're not even dating, if you're sending text messages and he doesn't respond.
It could be that he is losing interest in you. But it could also be something else.
It depends on how stressful the job is. Does he feel that he has to manage both his job, which doesn't give him much time with you, and his relationship at the same time? It could be that he is juggling this in his mind, and he doesn't know what to do. Texting twice a week is okay, but I don't know how much is too much. He could also be preoccupied, but don't take his not answering your texts as a sign that he doesn't care about you. His distance could mean that something is bothering him.
"to let him know I'm thinking about him."
Just so you know, guys don't really need that. It's not clingy if you do it, but it's not necessary.
Most girls (and maybe this is you) are really only doing it, because they *expect* their guy to do the same for them.
If this is really why you're doing it, then yes that is needy. But honestly, not more needy than the average girl. I'd say you're fine. You should continue as you're doing, and don't give him a hard time over missed texts.
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He is drawing away from you, and yes, you aren't taking his hint, so he's probably thinking you are being clingy.
If you also stop responding to HIM, you will find out if he really has any interest in continuing to date you.He really could be busy, but I doubt he's unaware he hasn't answered your texts. If he was really interested, he'd find the time for some kind of contact.
Unfortunately I think that this guy is just not that into you. These are things that I do when I'm trying to pull away.
he doesn't seem interested my boyfriend owns a golf company and he travels every year January-April and I talk to him all day :/
He's busy!
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