All Questions

Is it normal to have doubts entering a new relationship?

I've only had one boyfriend for 5 years and we broke up. Anyways, I was dating someone for 5 months and I really like him. He makes me laugh, we're so compatible, and he's handsome and he has his stuff together...he likes...

hunnybunny81105

Xper 5 Age: 37

Educated Men ATTRACTIVE?

Hi, I was wondering if an educated man is attractive . I am 23 and I've been accepted into a masters program for business administration. with a professional accounting designation (Licence) All paid by myself. and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a GUY shakes your hand and does not let go?

He offered to shake my hand then I shaked it then. for fun I squeezed his hand as a joke, THEN HE SQUEEZED MY HAND. I thought were done, but when I tried to let go he still held my hand?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like it if you ask them for advice (business talk)?

So I have a little crush on this guy - because I am hugely attracted by his personality. Yeah it may sound unbelievable, but I am like 'in love' with his intellect, the way he thinks, and his way of analyzing and then...

Nickyfancy

Xper 4 Age: 43

Dating

What should I do if two guys ask me out on the same day?

It's no date or anything, but they are both friends (of mine) who want to hang out with me and I don't know what to do... I dnt wanna hang with both same day nor at the same time. Things are gonna get awkward if I hang...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I tell him I'm falling in love with him?

We've been friends for a year and are now in a complicated relationship for a month and a half. Basically we have acknowledged were doing couple things but it's not labeled yet. I really feel like I'm falling in love with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Too late to give ex boyfriend space?

Long story short me an my ex were together almost a year. He broke up with me a month ago. He said we could be friends and still talk and stuff if I wanted but our relationship was over. In the first month I contacted...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would it be weird to get a perm as a dude?

Okay, let me explain a little bit. One, I'm African-American, so having the array of long haired and medium haired styles that's in the magazines is a little uh...difficult to say the least. I'm not really a braids or...

MikkieMouse1

Xper 5 Age: 33

My boyfriend lives an hour away. Do you think it will work or could work?

alright so my boyfriend lives an hour away from me...he has his license and its only during the school year that we won't see each other as often Because in the summer he works and lives where I live,so do you think it...

lovestruck2121

Xper 5 Age: 31

What does it mean when an oblivious girl notices little things?

This one girl who I used to have a thing with used to never notice the little things when we liked each other. But now it seems like see notices everything, but if anything we are friends right now. Does this behavior...

GiemontD

Xper 5 Age: 33

Can I convince my boyfriend to wear a suit to my sister's wedding?

My sister is getting married next month. My boyfriend is coming and it is the first time he will be meeting my parents. He is very uncomfortable with the whole situation. Because of his discomfort, he said it would be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls like to go on walks at the park?

I wanna take this girl out just to get to know her so movies isn't really a option since we can't really talk. She doesn't like to go out to dinners (idk why) so I was thinking about just going for a late night walk to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some girls fake snort while laughing?

Have you noticed this? Some girls will fake snort when laughing. I have a friend and she does this sometimes. Her fake snort vexes me. She has earned the nick names Piggly and Snortie. This question is akin to another...

GuyAdviceFromGuy

Editor Age: 41

My boyfriend is ashamed to be seen with me?

we've been together for 9 months and he's always been reluctant to hold my hand when we are out in public. sometimes to the extreme that he wouldn't even talk to me when he's with his friends, or lie to other people that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do boys hate it when girls are drunk?

Like stupid drunk..like absolutely wasted, does that annoy boys?

Girlyy11

Xper 5 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Guy friend offers to teach you how to drive a stick shift?

What does he mean? I'm sick of guessing, he knows I find cars boring.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why do some men like "bitchy" women?

I'm not saying its a bad or good thing, I'm just curious. what about a bitchy girl is appealing to many guys? I think we have all seen this so lets not pretend its only a small minority of guys who like this type of girl....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls lie about their height so much?

It's so weird girls say guys lie about height , but girls themselves lie so much ! Like there's this one girl who's about 5'1 who add 3 inches to that and then adds her heel height and says 5'6 ! It's ridiculous !

Anonymous

(36-45)

GUYS: are shy girls cute?

Sometimes people tell me guys don't talk to me because I'm shy, and a guy wants an outgoing girl to talk to them. Is this true? Or do you guys like shy girls, too? If I were a guy, I'd think shy girls were cute, but...

chriiistelkelly

Xper 3 Age: 31

He says he misses me but rarely calls and texts back?!!

I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month now. When we're together the time spent is amazing! We have the stupidest kinds of fun and he definitely shows affection. He tells me he misses me and how he loves my...

jerseygirl26

Xper 5 Age: 41

What does it mean when a guy winks at you?

You sometimes see guys wink at a girl. I was just wondering what that means. I'm not the only one that has asked that question. But no one seems to know.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Drunk calls/texts from your best guy friend?

Hey, If your guy friend calls you/ texts you while he's drunk and says that he misses you (3 times) and that he needs you by his side, what does it mean? Do guys speak the truth when they're drunk or they just need any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my teacher hitting on me?

So basically, I go to very small private school. Most of the students there are weird looking. And I was the new girl. One day I was walking down the hall and There were 3 teachers standing there I asked if someone could...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How would you react to flowers from an ex?

You two dated for 6 months and you dumped him. There has been no contact between you two for 2 months. On your birthday he sends flowers and simply says "Happy Birthday". What do you do? How do you react? Do you throw the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I change my username?

Question is either too long or too short. ETC.

yagurlnira768

Xper 4 Age: 31

Dating

Why doesn't my ex flaunt her new boyfriend anymore?

Let me first say I still have feeling for my ex so that's why I care. I broke up with my ex because she was immature. After a month she has a newboyfriend and basicly flaunted it to my face. She said she wanted to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He stares and our eyes always meet, why?

This happens a lot. I've noticed this in middle school. He still does it and every time, I can't help but stare back into his eyes. Sounds romantic but we don't talk at all. Maybe (hopefully) he likes me? I'd look away...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex girlfriend acts as if I don't exist.

Long story short I dated this girl for 2 months, I was her first boyfriend and she dumped me for being too clingy. I took the break-up well at first but a few days later asked if I can see her and practically begged for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys in general seem to not like Mediterranean women as much as whiter girls?

so I'm Mediterranean, and I have olive skin, dark brown hair and big dark brown eyes. and the thing is, that I have noticed that when I walk down the street, I get looks and checked out by mexican,spanish,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The silent treatment and how it sometimes backfires?

My friends all think I've become too attached to my best guy friend who I have a crush on. He has a girlfriend back home (4 hous away) and we spend all kinds of time together. Usually we talk for hours every night until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is dignity attractive?

Girls are always trying to act "cute" to attract a guy's attention, but what about the opposite? If she makes a mistake and rather than giggling it off, just brushes it cooly aside? Or if she's tragically clumsy but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

No contact rule, what if he's waiting for ME to contact HIM?

So my boyfriend and I broke up almost a month ago and he hasn't tried to contact me at all.. like AT ALL. He had said when we were breaking up and he was getting his things that he still loved me so much and that this was...

kkandbb

Xper 7 Age: 35

What makes someone superficial?

What exactly makes someone superficial? Like what are some characteristics or traits?

kushman_204

Xper 6 Age: 33

Should I be worried that my boyfriend is shallow?

Me and my boyfriend have a normal relationship. when we first started dating I thought the world of him but since its been a year I've been noticing a few things. On one of our dates he stared at a girl who walked by and...

abchuh

Xper 5 Age: 35

What's it mean when a guy says he's scared of you?

A guy told me I make him nervous. I asked why and he said "just trust me, I think it's a good thing. you just scare me...there's a reason but don't know how to tell you now" and then he left. Um what?

Anonymous

(36-45)