My girlfriend caught me lying... :/

[Anonymous]

She was really upset/pissed off with me because I told her I drew a picture which really I didn't I googled it..and well she googled it and found out and was pissed off with me because I lied she "hates liars and she called me one" but this was the first lie I ever done to her and I never will again...but

the thing is she disappeared and didn't contact me for two days and well now she did after I send her a long romantic loving letter should of made her heart melt but I asked how it made her feel she said "Nothing really" so I said not even smile? she said "i kinda did" then I asked if we could do something like we use to she just said "I don’t know :\ I need to study "

Please can someone help what can I do to reassure that she loves me and melt for me all over..?

20 POINTS FOR TOP USEFUL ANSWER...i don't want to lose her or else I be in a world of depression... could another guy had flirted with her and such...? :/ I don't know does she still love me we talked about getting married and she was like "our babies are going to be so cute" her best friend agrees were meant to be.. and she told me she isn't mad at me anymore but my girlfriend was like you better not lie to me before then she just said ...bye...

is she still my girlfriend or no?

[12elizabeth]

Of course she's still your girlfriend she's just afraid that she'll keep catching more of these lies from you so she doesn't want it to happen again. This girl likes you and like me, hates and despises liars and I would also go for two days or more without talking to someone that lied to me (although this kinda thing seems very trivial to worry about so much) but I'd do it for any kinda lie big or small, I believe I should teach him a lesson( in this case the lesson was ignoring you for 2 days). She probably thought the letter was picked off from the internet too lol but from this she has all the right to doubt that you can\may lie to her again. You should make it up to her taking her out or ordering some flowers to be dropped by her house followed by a letter explaining to her what your true intentions were with this picture that you drew for her. I don't see why you'd draw another pic instead of drawing your own that truly expresses something you feel for her not just some random internet pic -_- But whatever pic it was just be candid next time and she'll start building trust for you again I'm sure, good luck <3

[wyndhamheart]

Well, that's a stupid thing to be mad at... but it looks like she's mad at you and is trying to "punish" you for what you did.

Apparently your letter isn't good enough, so either keep on playing her game and keep trying and eventually she'll think you'll have been "punished" enough... or just give her some space for a few more days.

She's testing you to see how much she can push you around. Relationships are give and take and sometimes you need to back off to have her come to you.

If she really leaves you over something as stupid as this, then it really is for the best. If you guys were considering marriage then they'll be a lot of more serious "fights" in the future. All and All you guys, specifically her, need to work on how to argue positively.

[lauren01234]

Honestly? Her getting mad about you lying about that is really dumb. Maybe you should tell her that you're not very good at drawing and that's why you googled it and that you're really sorry for not being honest about it. I think maybe you should give her a little more time to cool off because she seems pretty upset...and maybe after a few more days she'll realize how ridiculous she's being. And I would say that y'all are still together and that she's still your girlfriend because neither of you said it was over, right?

[Asker]

Yeah that's right

[lauren01234]

Well I think she's just overreacting then. Has she ever lied about anything? My best friend goes on and on and on about how much she hates liars and even stops talking to people when she finds out they've lied to her...she always gets over it and talks to them again though. And I've also caught her telling a bunch of lies too...which I always found to be funny since she preaches about how she hates liars and then tells lies herself.

[Asker]

well I don't think she ever has lie to me because I usually confirm it through her best friend

[And-Once-I-Was-Human]

i don't really see anything that would suggest that you aren't together anymore. you screwed up and she called you on it. even though it was just over a picture I think she's trying to make a point with it this time and let you know that she's not going to deal with you lying to her anymore. you said you won't so you've gotta try and stick to your word and do right from now on. let her chill her and things should blow over before too long.

[DeepBlue]

Step 1: Tell her you said the drawing was yours because you felt like you needed to impress her so you wouldn't lose her. Basically you did it out of love and/or insecurity.

Step 2: Tell her you will never lie to her again.

Step 3: Never lie to her again.

[BrutalBritt22]

B.A

(:

[DeepBlue]

I'm surprised at how many people (girls especially) are saying she overreacted. It's not cool to misrepresent yourself that way. Trust is fragile and no relationship can function without it.

[Cutie1994]

LOL...Ummm I guess its just in general idea that really bothered her the lie, but the whole thing she is over reacting and like you're saying you haven't lied to her before then she is acting spoiled. Everyone makes mistakes, and if you messed up this she should give you a second chance and then if you screw up then thast on you. Well, what I'm saying is just let her come around. Don't chase her around it's actually a bit stupid for her to be acting like this but yeah Good luck.

[Vermi]

Honestly, this is so petty.

I can understand her getting angry that you lied, but 2+ days worth sounds like a princess complex. I think you should just ignore her and let her come to you. She's holding a grudge over basically nothing and by her not appreciating the gestures shows this. By ignoring her shows her you're not going to tolerate any of her bullcrap.

[Anonymous]

Thats sort of overreacting over something so small LOL. Even though it's pretty small maybe she thinks you'll lie to her again. Reassure her you won't lie to her again. If she still doesn't forgive you just leave it. If she didn't break up with you directly she still is your girlfriend. Goodluck!