I accidentally lied to my girlfriend sort of?

[Anonymous]

For some back story, me and my girlfriend a couple months ago were arguing over the same issue that is now resolved. While arguing I confided in a friend who is a girl, we stopped really talking I wanna say for a year and half but we ranted to each other when we needed too, ( this friend girl is engaged so there was nothing sketchy at all), except I lied about it for some reason, not for any malicious intent just that I guess I was afraid how my girlfriend would react, I came clean because I hate lying and it just eats me up, so we talked about it and worked it out and that issues is over.

While we were talking about, my girlfriend asked if me and this girl has flirted before ( like as an before I was in my current relationship) I said yeah like 1-2 years ago or so, she asked if had send nudes before and I said no.

About a week after that event I remembered me and this girl actually did send nudes, but I had just forget which seems like a lie, it’s just me and this girl didn’t talk for so long and I’m not a creep that remembers every oast thing about a girl. I have mental disabilities and apart of it is memory problems, like it’s just not something I remember, so for the sake advice please take my word.

Anyways I was gonna fess up to my girlfriend because it felt like it was right, but before I did I talked to my mum and she said not too, it doesn’t impact my current relationship and there’s no need to bring up the past and I asked my friend for a second opinion and they said the same.

I like to think I’m an honest person and I’ve definitely matured so much in the past couple years and I have great relationship. This has just been on my mind even thought it’s been a couple months

( I don't know if it’s clear in the post but I didn’t cheat or anything like that)

[Anonymous]

It's good akita that you're committed to honesty in your relationship and that you're seeking advice on how to handle this situation. It sounds like you're in a difficult spot, as you want to be honest with your girlfriend but you're not sure whether it's necessary to bring up this past incident.

Ultimately, the decision of whether to tell your girlfriend about the nude photos is up to you. However, it's important to consider the potential impact that this information could have on your relationship. If you do decide to tell her, be honest and transparent about why you didn't remember at the time and why you're telling her now. It's possible that she may be upset or hurt by the news, but if you approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, you may be able to work through it together.

On the other hand, if you choose not to tell your girlfriend about the nude photos, it's important to be honest with yourself about why you're making that decision. Are you doing it to protect her feelings or to avoid potential conflict? If so, it's important to consider whether withholding the truth is ultimately the best course of action for your relationship.

In any case, it's important to continue being honest and transparent in your relationship moving forward. Trust and communication are key components of a healthy relationship, so make sure that you're doing everything you can to maintain those values.

[In_Trance]

So what are you actually asking here?

[Asker]

Should I tell her the truth or just leave it in the past

[In_Trance]

The final decision is yours. I guess the other thing I can add, is if the roles were reversed, would you want her to tell you?