Guys, if you saw the girl you like "go home" with another guy, would you lose interest?

[Anonymous]

...Because you would think she was slutty? Even if didn't know for sure? Just generally, how would you feel about her and would it have any effect on your feelings for her?

It happened to me. However, I didn't hook up with the other guy, we just walked home together. But it did look like that to everyone else.

[BlueJay]

I wouldn't think she was slutty, there's nothing abnormal about hooking up with somebody else. It would effect my feelings for her though, simply because I'd assume she wasn't interested in me and that I needed to get over her. I think I'd be less likely to pursue her if I felt like she was showing a great deal of interest in other guys rather than me.

If she was going home with other guys and also giving me reason to feel that she was interested in me, however, then I'd feel like she was playing games and trying to string me along, and that would make me completely disinterested in continuing anything.

[Asker]

Oh no... Well, I have been acting kind of interested (but I'm far more). He gave us long looks when we went home...He probably thinks I'm playing games now. Oh well, nothing I can do about that now.. :(

[BlueJay]

Well you did say you didn't hook up with the other guy, so just make sure he knows that as well and it shouldn't be an issue. There is such a thing as giving up too easily, after all!

[Asker]

I don't know how to say that in a smooth and "un-awkwardly" way, but I'll try. Thanks!

[ben890]

Oh if I just saw her walking with some guy, it wouldn't change how I feel about her and it definitely wouldn't make me think she's "slutty." I will admit, I get discouraged easily, so if there was some sign that they were actually together or that she liked him, I would probably subconsciously try to move on. But walking together doesn't insinuate either of those things :P

[Raiden]

If I saw the girl that I like ""GOES HOME" with another guy? and do what? play chess? lol...thats it, many guys may not give up, but to me, her value will become 0% (I completely lose interest in her).

[Asker]

Of course that's what he thinks, that why I asked if it would make me look slutty. We walked home together, and nothing else, but there's no way I can prove that now! That's life

[Raiden]

You walked home together or you walked into his/your home together? cos walking and talking don't mean your f**kin, it means he is trying, but if they see the both of you behaving like you going to shag then ye people will say all he had to do was walk her once, then other guys will start getting excited to want some. So that's not life, if nothing happened then nothing did and don't act like something did happen, don;t take it seriously and don;t walk with guys home if that's the sutuation.

[aMuse]

Until we are talking regularly, she's expressed interest, we are dating and such she can do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. Just because I think she is cute and interesting, doesn't mean she's reciprocating the same vibe.

[shyguy89]

just depends on how much he liked you and if he knows you.if he knows you then maybe, but if he dosen't know you then you my friend have be prejudged, and that's life you know:)

[Brando]

It wouldn't be because I thought she was slutty, just that she was interested in someone else so there's no reason to pursue it anymore.

[DanielGrant]

Well I'd not think she is slutty but I may get dissapointed she's with another guy. :(

[cyrus7]

simply put yes

it would confirm that she doesn't like me

[Operations]

Very likely.

[Asker]

Beacuse? She was slutty or because you'ld think she wasn't interested?

[Operations]

Not interested.