Why is that some guys are turned off by strong women? Do they prefer women who are prim and proper?

[Anonymous]

I have a strong personality that doesn't seem to attract the guys I want to. I don't believe that I should tone down my personality but is this right?

[cavmanier]

Thats a pretty vague statement. I'd be yourself regardless but maybe consider working on improving your personality if you know you have annoying tendencies. I like a girl that is intelligent with opinions but someone that is very stubborn and has to be right constantly can be off putting regardless of sex.

[dakraziest]

Bad idea

Changing your personality for guys would make you even more unattractive just wait for a while m sure your prince charming is on his way to you he just didn't got here by now is because life is busy shaping him up carving him into the precious diamond that would look sexy with you

[martyfellow]

Most of us areally aren't so dumb. If you try to fake prim and proper, well see through the act prety fast.

Ad if you DO fool someone, how long can you keep it up, and how bad will the situation be when he finds out you were not the person he thought you were?

Would't it be easier to just be yourself? Not all guys are put off by a strong woman, not by a long shot.

[kheserthorpe]

Prim and proper is the opposite of overtly sexual.

The opposite of strong is submissive.

Some men prefer submissive women. Some like dominant women. Those who prefer more dominant ones tend to not like pursuing women.

[FaceInTheCrowd]

I try to avoid authoritative and dominant type females, they are such bullies =(

[Joshbgosh]

Pretty much.