When I told him that this made me think he liked me he said he doesn't feel the same, but hugged me and brought me soup because it's the responsibility of a good friend. He never acknowledge the staring.
I'm not crazy, I see him looking at my from the corner of my eye and sometimes catch him when I turn my head, he then looks away. WHY does he do that!? He's not sexually attracted to me apparently, as I am "not his type" (he usually goes for blondes) so why does he keep looking at me? It's annoying!
He has a friends with benefits and he said they are going to try to develop their r/s. I'm tired of guys doing this to me, seeing me as the emotional support, but not sexually so that they date me. I'm black, he's white, and his mom's a racist, could that matter? but the girl he's screwing is Asian. I am trying to move on here, but he keeps staring at me and looking away when I catch him. Before I told him how I felt, when I would catch him staring, he would give me a smile. I know he cares for me a lot, but not romantically I guess, so why stare?
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Obviously he likes you as a friend, so HE isn't racist, but if his mother and/or other people close to him are, it's possible that he resists dating you for that reason. That really sucks to have to say it, but it's possible, yes.
I think the fact that he looks at you the way he does means that you ARE sexually attractive to him, because that's what that behavior almost always means. Black women often have a different shape than white women, and he might find that fascinating and arousing, as many men do. Plus, if he's already with someone, even as a FWB, and he's your friend, maybe he just doesn't want to screw up all those relationships by complicating things.
I totally get your frustration, but we all deal with things like this, where we like someone and they don't like as back in the same way. It sucks, but the only thing you can do is move on and look for another guy. The world is full of guys who would love to be dating you.