Why men just stare at a woman and don't say anything? I get that a lot they stare at me, but don't say a word!

[Anonymous]

I get that a lot they stare at me, but don't say a word! What is that all about lol! Sometimes I think I'm jinx, for men just to stare me down and not say a word, its really creepy lol! But I try to ignore it, but the more I do ignore it, the more they stare me down even more, I don't get it lol!

[MrOracle]

It's because they find you attractive, but they are also intimidated by your looks. If a girl is very attractive/sexy, many guys will assume that she is always getting hit on by "better" guys: rich, good-looking, popular, socially-connected guys with big penises and bigger checkbooks. And even though that isn't usually the case, guys will imagine that the girl has all the options in the world as far as guys go, and so HE won't be able to compete with those (imagined) "better guys."

And since most guys fear rejection from a woman more than anything else, they tend not to approach women unless they are very sure they'll get a positive response, which is why they tend to pay a girl a lot of attention, hoping to get some positive feedback in return that will allow them to be confident in asking her out.

This isn't all guys. A small percentage has figured out that not only does rejection not kill you, but that actually ASKING girls is far more likely to get a "yes" than never asking, so they ask every attractive girl, and know that rejection is just part of that game. They also know that if they ask 5 girls that day, chances are that at least one of them is going to say "yes", so why should they care about the "no's"?

[Asker]

Wow its rarity for me, for guys to easliy approach me, now when I was a teen guys were approaching me all the time, knowing I haven't fully matured yet! But when I turned 18 and grew up to be 26 years old! Man oh man! I had guys to pay for my gas, when I ask them not too lol! Bought me a pretty short when I told this boy, its alright I got it lol! Had a white guy, me being a black creole woman, I was shock as hell! He come to my window, saying look how you got me hard LMAO! I am so serious lol!

[Asker]

I asked any other woman about this, have they ever gotten this reaction from men they said no lol! I am like what the hell lol! But that guy literally had white pants and the dude thing was wet and sticking up, and I was like what the hell lol! Talking about look how hard you got me! And all I did was walk to my car, from coming back from the clothing store and the dude, met me at my car, at my window lol! I was shocked as hell! But yeah I get stares like that even more so now, than ever lol!

[MrOracle]

Well, you are fully grown so I imagine you have sexy, womanly curves, and some guys just can't get enough of them. You should be happy that so many guys find you attractive.

[Asker]

True! I was wondering why no approach and just starring all the time! I figure the ones they approach easily, they are more comfortable and not as intimidated I guess lol!

[Anonymous]

oh that's harsh lol, sometimes I'm just trying to get her attention and seeing if she finds me as appealing as I do of her.

[Asker]

Iol I'm not trying to be harsh lol! So you are saying they trying to get my attention, wow, that could be possible! But you see I can't read people minds, and guys staring at me its like I'm wondering if I have something wrong on me or I have something on me lol, the way they stare so hard lol!

[AmberChick]

They may have a wife or girlfriend so they're just looking but not necessarily doing anything about it. I wondered about that too until I got a boyfriend lol

[Asker]

That's thing some men can tell or even know I have a boyfriend and still do it lol! I am not kidding lol! Read what I told MrOracle, you wouldn't believe the stuff I have gotten lol!