My husband visits his family daily. Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

My husband visits his family on a daily basis. That's right, Monday through Friday.

Now it's the weekend and he is gone again. For hours a at time, it's 2:00. He won't be back until 7:00.

He does not want me with him when he sees his family.

I feel very alone in this marriage. Every single day after work he is there at his parents house and not here. He stays there for a couple hours at a time. Then the weekend comes and it's either Saturday, Sunday or both days that he is gone in excess of 5-6 hours.

I am considering divorce. I just don't think this is normal, is it?

He told me too bad, he won't change, his family will alway be his priority (has both parent's, both are working and healthy, also has a married sibling).

I feel very alone, am left with the house responsibilities. We both work full time. I do not feel important to him.

Is this normal? I have been told its not, but I also worry about divorcing and in the future in a new relationship and the guy doing the same thing, leaving for hours upon hours, never coming home FROM work, etc.

Please give me advice or words of wisdom.

[THE_Godfather]

I'm thinking it's not normal.

I must say this is coming from a guy who lost his father at a young age. I grew to despise that thing that gave birth to me.

I do recall my Father telling me when I was getting married that your wife is now your biggest priority even over your mother.

You have tried to talk o him about it & yet he refused to change or acknowledge how you feel.

I also chose my wife over that thing because I don't think she liked my wife. There are a lot of reasons. I remember she never even sent her a birthday card.

I wish he recognized your feelings. I really feel bad about your situation. The only thing that I can add is that you're still young. I'm not going to say it. but I know you will make the right decision.

Good Luck.

[Anonymous]

If I were you I would divorce him. I think that is too much

[carolinabella]

Was he like that before marriage ? Was he living with his parents ? I find it really disrepectful if he doesn't want you to be there when he sees them . I understand that's his family but spending time with them more than you is not fair. Talk to him or find a person that you trust from his family and tell them about it.

[Anonymous]

It Really is odd I'd try talk to hime again there has to be more issues there if he doesn't want to spend quality time with you!

I don't mean to pry but are you sexual together often?

If not id be really concerned

[Anonymous]

i find it odd. is there a way to talk to them and find out if he is actually there all the time, without creating suspicion? people are supposed to mix their spouses and families.

[Zodiac988]

I wish I lived next door to you ; )