Why do I feel guilty about making out with my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I come from a conservative family so we never really talked about making out and the alike. But now that I have a girlfriend I feel guilty about doing anything with her. All I do at the very most is feel her boobs or ass with all our clothes on. I feel like I'm taking advantage of her Because all she ever does is play with my hair, neck, back, or chest, so feeling all those "forbidden" places in her seems unfair. Why do I feel so guilty? Does anyone have any advice on how to feel better about kissing my girlfriend?

[trololololo]

Has she ever ever said anything about being uncomfortable? Or given you a feeling that she isnt? If you are very worried then maybe you should ask her.

If she seems to be enjoying it then you've got nothing to worry about. Especially at your age most girls should be strong enough to stop you when they want. Or would you say that she is a very shy, insecure girl, that often gets used and pushed around?

And as for the why-is-she-not-touching-me, well if you think about it, a lot of girls aren't into squeezing asses as much as the guys, so all she has left is your croch:P now that's a whole another level, which from what you said you have not reached either.

I think you've got nothing to worry about.

From what I think, the only thing that's stopping you from enjoying it is the guilt. And the best way to overcome that would be to talk to her in my opinion. Communication is key to everything ;) Also, try to turn your thoughts off as much as possible - only focus on your senses of touch, hearing, taste, maybe smell. Take each feeling in one at a time and magnify it.

Another way to make yourself feel better could be to go research online what other people your age are doing. (This is in no way meant to encourage you to go further, but it may ease your mind) Look at this surveys results (turns out I can't include links... so you just have to add the www tests.student.com/survey.php?sid=3 )

[Anonymous]

That's the problem, for those of us who got raised by conservative families. They basically train their kids, boys especially, that sex is 'dirty' and shameful. They leave out vital things like, "Sex is a part of life, human nature." Or "Honestly, girls love sex just as much as guys do."

[Anonymous]

You feel guilty because you're succumbing to desire. You come from a conservative family, so such actions are almost forbidden. I come from a traditional family, so I know what you mean. Don't worry about it. You'll feel better with practice and time.

[Anonymous]

Next time make sure you're alone somewhere you're both comfortable and sure you won't be interrupted. Make sure both your phones are off. Then take her top off and explore her boobs with your hands and your mouth. See what gets her excited. Just take your time and have fun. At some point, she'll get turned on enough that she'll want to take your shirt off and probably will want to get her hand into your pants. Enjoy!