My girlfriend ditches me and it's really getting under my skin

[Anonymous]

yesterday my girlfriend and I made plans since a week before. the thing is she gets a message on Saturday to go to a birthday party of her family but after that we were gonna go out so I said fine I told her to go. the thing is that instead she went to her grandmas house and it p*ssed me off because we already made plans and it wasn't the first time she had ditch me . The thing is we argued and I told her not to call me but I wasn't thinking and I feel bad for telling her that. I call her but she doesn't pick up and I don't know what to do I feel bad but I'm still angry

[sachin007]

You must not be a jerk to call her every time on her mistakes.

If she informed you about these things before then its understandable

You must behave with her in just friendly manner for some days

means don't call her much,take her out,

she will realize that you also have a heart that can be hurt.

Try this

its a risk-free action but really workable too.

Thnx

[Asker]

The thing is that I don't call her all the time but if there's something wrong I want to correct it so the relationship can go on smoothly and I would not mind if I see her every day or almost every day but I just see her once a week tops 2 and I would like a little time for us because I'm sick and tired of she changing the plans at the last minute

[sachin007]

Hii

so then you must clear the doubts with her.

Surprisingly take her outside and try to tell your problem in easy way

so that she may know your hurtings.

If then also she is not intrested in you, then hands crossed and give your decision to GOD!

We Hope for your love!

Thnx

[dragonfli786351]

you got mad because she went to her grandma's instead of hanging out with you. No offense but family is ALWAYS more important, and it's her grandmother. Grandmothers are always more important than anyone else. You might be out of luck., if you told me you never wanted to talk to me because I went to a family members birthay party and then my grandmothers I would dump you, sorry.

[Asker]

I understand that but the thing is that but I'm mad because she told me at the last second and it hurts because is not the first time and is that it just make me feel like I belong she didn't even wanted me to go with her and it feels like I don't matter

[dragonfli786351]

It could have been a family only thing. My parents are really cool with my boyfriend however there are still some things he's not invited too, and some things that he is. I'm not trying to say she didn't do anything wrong, obviously she shoud have told you earlier. Mmaybe your making yourself too avaiable too her and she is taking advantage of that. try doing your own thing, you don't have to not invite her just show her that you don't NEED her to be with you, but you want her to be with you.

[TabbyKat]

You have every right to be angry but at least she is a family person which is a very good trait to have. You just need to keep trying to talk to her and speak to her in a normal voice and explain that it made you mad that she ditched you but you also have to understand that family means everything and be happy she loves being around hers.

[Asker]

I am but I also want time for us because I only see her once a week max 2