Polls: Girl's Behavior

I need to know what’s y’all favorite go to for self care out of these categories. What makes you feel good?

So I started seeing this guy nearly 2 months ago we are young and dont have a lot of money so most of the time we just chill in his car I noticed that it seemed like he was more into me on the journeys that I didn't wear a seatbelt compared to the journeys when I was wearing it for reference usually I dont wear it about 85% of the time im in his car I know its bad but its not the point of this

When I mentioned this to my friend she told me that her boyfriend is the same with her its making me wonder weather they both might find it attractive? He doesn't wear his at all I kinda like the bad boy vibes it gives but it doesn't really make a difference to me

So I am wondering

GUYS do you think its attractive if a girl doesn't wear her seatbelt

GIRLS do you think its attractive if a guy doesn't wear his seatbelt

For a single person that has a positive reputation?

I liked to dress my small brother who is 7 years smaller than me. He initially didn't like it when my mother first made him wear my old frock at 8 years old. He even hit me that day because I laughed at him but it didn't hurt me much. So, I didn't hit him back but I blackmailed him using his pictures, to dress him up again as revenge for hitting me but slowly I stated loving the power I have over him. I used to tell him that I will never reveal his secret but he had to do a lot of favors for me and sometimes I made him dance in my dresses. I dressed him till he was 13 . He was not afraid of me blackmailing him after some time. In fact, he started to enjoy wearing dresses himself. I too love to make him look like a girl. Is it normal for a girl to like to see brother in female dresses and is it normal for a boy to like wearing female dresses?

And by the way...

It's not okay to fault him for having and expressing feelings, or being vulnerable, or deeply caring about something, or being disappointed, or being afraid. He's human, just like you. And shunning him for it is a shitty thing to do. It hurts him just as much as you hurt, when you're not supported, and treated like shit. There is no difference in the pain.

So why do some of you not like it, why do some of you lose attraction to him?
I'll answer what you will never say. Because you think he must be stronger than you. Why? Because you feel weak, yourself, and because if he's not strong, all the time, then you can't be weak and vulnerable. That's the real truth. It's not about his masculinity.

"I have been mocked and have had my emotions used against me by both men and women. Vulnerability is only good when exercised properly depending on who you are with. Do it the wrong way, you get punished."

So next time, instead of telling him, or implying 'man up', maybe you should 'woman up.' Get stronger, so you're not reliant on him to always be the only emotionally strong one.

If you don't, and you teach guys that being vulnerable to you is only going to backfire and cause problems, they're going to stay closed off, not trust you (or any of us), and feel that the greatest gift that women used to offer guys - compassion, support, tenderness... doesn't exist anymore. And that will be on you. On those of you who reject men for showing any sign of vulnerability. You want this?

And this?

He's also these...

I'm giving y'all anon on this one. Speak your mind. But be constructive. I'm getting fed up with all the rage and toxicity.

as a guy, do you prefer:

sexy girls: tan skin, curves, bombshell beauty who is confident, independent, sexy and feminine, self assured and carries herself well, wears darker colours and wears a lot of makeup, is seducing, sexual

or

cute girls: paler skin, smaller, bubbly personality, maybe a bit childish or silly, innocent, shy, wears less makeup, maybe likes cat ears or dressing up in pastel colours, wears skirts all the time etc etc.

I'll answer later on if you are correct.

Thank you ladies 🙂

I'm just curious if I'm the minority or not.

Its peoples main insult or kibe with me it brings me a huge paranoia begins to piss me

off im just a little tanned.

Guys, Do You:

• Lose respect for her
• Think she's low-value
• Get turned off
• Feel emasculated
• Get the upper hand
• Consider it easy to manipulate her
• Think she's a loser
• Think she's pathetic
• Think she has low self-esteem
• Or dislike it...

... when a girl reaches out, asks you out, takes initiative, is clear and communicative, shows interest in a relationship or date with you, or getting to know you?

The poll is simple. Yes or no.

Hint: They don't believe you. You'll have to be very convincing. Why is it important/beneficial, in today's climate and society?
(Hint: #metoo, sexual harassment fears, gender equality...)

I know you have something to say about this. I know you've said it before, it's old news to you, but please say it one more time, this time addressing these bullet points, if you can.
49 upvotes on this mytake, the highest number of all topics I've ever written about.
The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships

Look at all those poll results.
Girls, want to know how to ask a guy out?

I may write another mytake about it, from a different angle. I tried encouraging and supporting. Next time will be something different.



Success!
"I asked! I asked him today and he put my # in his phone and we have been texting so we can grab food soon. I thought I would update, especially since a lot of you were happily shocked a woman wanted to ask a guy for a change. Was nervous but couldn’t have done it without your help & encouragement! 😊"
How Do I Ask A Guy Out As A Female (never done this)?

So an altercation I had in work (starbucks) a few weeks back a customer and former college person came in , We had some brief history over me chatting to her ex, I told her she coudnt have a chair we argued for around 30 seconds before I grabbed her hair as she turned she stomped my foot and pushed a creampie/cake in to my face. For me this is never a fight but its all making me paranoid now!

• Today's Males Don't Value Traditional Women

Sure there are likely good men out there who want to be the sole provider and leader of his household and wife. But most males I come across even just in daily life are debauch and severely lacking in morals but full of pride and entitlement. They speak it. I am not simply inferring. I have to overhear the nonsense.

I have been told to get with the times and start fornicating and cheating. My dream of becoming a housewife mother is ridiculed by such males despite my never asking their opinion. Of course the advice to be a manwhore and fornicate as much as possible is never ridiculed, its revered.

• Job Searching Makes me feel Useless

I am college-educated. Yet still can't find a job that is appropriate. I am not educated in a lucrative field like nursing or technology. So I feel pretty useless when I see how unqualified I am for many jobs. I also am not a man so physical labor is not a path for me. My realistic options are retail (it doesn't require as much physical effort as cooking), which I am in now and blessed to get enough hours to survive off of, or stripping/exotic dancing (if worse comes to worse, this is one of the choices i can make).

Even secretary jobs dont seem to be interested in calling me.

My real skills and ability lies in being a mother and wife and taking care of the home. Of course, these skills are not valued by most men of today (such men only value whoredom and being a man-child stuck in adolescence as LONG AS THEY POSSIBLE CAN BE),. In the job market, appropriate cleaning and cooking jobs tend to go to immigrants and/or are very underpaid. Since I support myself and have nobody to lean on, I need a decent paying job.

So my point is... I feel useless. And I don't like that.

I am not trolling*

So I am getting a lot of intense mocking STILL after the altercation I had in Starbucks a couple of weeks ago. Long story short a girl came in I knew from college whos ex I was seeing, asked for a chair randomaly so I told her to get lost.

We argued for literally only 30 seconds or so over her being jealous and she mocked my tan and refereed to be as a "Dorito". So I grabbed her hair for a couple of seconds like I grabbed it from behind and she like stood on my foot and spun and pushed a cream pie/cake in my face. But that was it, wasn't a punch or knockout or long fight.

I am getting consant cream, pieface, pudding jokes, my mother coudnt stop laughing hwen she picked me up. Since mocked over dinner the other night with desert. Am I right to be annoyed, and not see this as any kind of fight just a small altercation?