- Lose respect for her
- Think she's low-value
- Get turned off
- Feel emasculated
- Get the upper hand
- Consider it easy to manipulate her
- Think she's a loser
- Think she's pathetic
- Think she has low self-esteem
- Or dislike it...
The poll is simple. Yes or no.
Hint: They don't believe you. You'll have to be very convincing. Why is it important/beneficial, in today's climate and society?
(Hint: #metoo, sexual harassment fears, gender equality...)
I know you have something to say about this. I know you've said it before, it's old news to you, but please say it one more time, this time addressing these bullet points, if you can.
49 upvotes on this mytake, the highest number of all topics I've ever written about.
The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships
Look at all those poll results.
Girls, want to know how to ask a guy out?
I may write another mytake about it, from a different angle. I tried encouraging and supporting. Next time will be something different.
"I asked! I asked him today and he put my # in his phone and we have been texting so we can grab food soon. I thought I would update, especially since a lot of you were happily shocked a woman wanted to ask a guy for a change. Was nervous but couldn’t have done it without your help & encouragement! 😊"
How Do I Ask A Guy Out As A Female (never done this)?
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Imagine trying to find the door to Heaven in a hallway full of mostly doors to Hell.
Then the door to Heaven just swings on open for you, saving you from countless Hells.
How can a man not be happy when a woman finally shows initiative? How can he not feel like a stud when a woman is so into him that she pursues him?
This is 2021, not 1950.. you ladies need to catchup & stop buying into this old fashioned bullshit. NOBODY likes that shit anymore, it's corny & hint.. the 50's were built on liiieees.
I have a girlfriend now so I am fine but for the love of God ladies don't make the rest of these guys play guessing games when you could just make it easy for them.
Thanks for mho.
I loved it! It was exactly the kind of strong, impactful wording I was hoping for. 🙏
You did encourage us to be convincing so I tried my best to convey how I personally feel.