Few of you get involved in the dirty underbelly politics of this site with good reason. Most people in it are constantly stressed and annoyed that everyone else in it is a deranged psychopath giving extremely and even damaging advice to unsuspecting GaGers looking for useful bits of info on dating and relationships. Yet, I cannot stand by while a club of GaGers who I believe to be extremely dangerous to the populace mindset continue to spread bad potentially psychotic perspectives to newbies.
I will make no mention of who the two women are either in this Take or in comments, but suffice it to say we've been at odds for quite a while.
I have often been the target of criticism and controversy, much more before than now. This is not unusual for a guy on this site to come off very rudely and loudly and then calm down. Yet, as I've continued to refine my writing and contributions to this site, they've consistently been there trolling. And, when I finally made the move towards blocking one of them, I started to get messages from both girls and guys that these two individuals are not only calling me a rapist, but also personally and viciously attacking anyone who dared to give me a compliment. If this Take suddenly took an unexpectedly shocking term, good. That's how I felt.
This is where things beging to go from catty to psychotic, but we're not quite there. Despite being slandered in one of the most vicious ways and being the object of a malicious defaming campaign, I still offered to make peace and have an honest conversation about where we've got to such a contentious place. One of them outright refused, and the other even when there were no more points to address, and had been provided evidence that contradicted her original point of view. Even after an apology that something I said as a joke could be taken out of context, they still chose to hate me. They simply wanted to hate me, and herein lies the real problem.
When someone is so happy and identified with pain and hatred, they will cling to it even contrary to reality. It becomes irrelevant whether they have any reason to hate, they simply want to do it. I can't venture to guess at what originated the hate, but it's almost always pain. Where these women's respective pain came from only they really know.
I feel sorry for them on the one hand, but concerned for the community much more than that. They have a recruitment process that involves a Skype group, a kik group, and tend to favor females though they also have certain males that follow them and you can identify them by their unprovoked rudeness to certain popular males on this site. All of this information has been told to me mainly by girls who either they attempted to provoke, corrupt into thinking I'm some demonic person, or weren't aware were friends with me and would tell me everything that was said about me.
They tend to go after all outspoken males. I have no idea what they look like physically, but I can't imagine it's not a very pretty site. If you're new and they start messaging you telling you who to stay away from don't listen. Look at what people like I and other people they attempt to "tell you about" are really saying before forming a judgement. This is not a personal crusade, but I know for sure other outspoken guys on here who they attempt to slander and just like the male rights crusade, I have no problems calling them out about it. The best option, though, is simply to stay out of GaG politics and focus on just getting and giving information, but if you are a part of it then heed this Take for as long as it last, which potentially could be a very short amount of time.

***** The title of this Take is a play on the film "Single White Female" It has nothing to do with the fact that these two girls are probably white.
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I disagree with your opinions on many things, but on this I very much agree. There is a cadre of highly commited (read: crazy) feminists on this site who make it their business to brand any guy who writes openly of sexual realities as a rapist or misogynist. I, myself, have been atttacked by these very people for even the most innocuous of opinions regarding sexual matters.
Unlike you, though, I immediately blocked these trolls, given that they violated my policy on rational discourse: abide by acknowledged facts or I'm done with you. It's a shame it has to come to this, but such self-appointed thought police should not be allowed to exert a chilling effect on the free and open exchange of opinion that is the *sole* reason this site is worthwhile.
exactly. and if these people exist they need to be the vast minority. the fact that one of these girls can literally freeze any of our accounts and yet like you said violate general policy of rational discourse
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