Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Why girls don't respect you and see you as boyfriend material! (Page 2)
Ask to an AI Persona
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
Laura
Have questions about GirlsAskGuys? I'm here to help!
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
109Opinion
So in a nutshell, don't be a sweet caring guy who's just honest about his feelings
You rather some play it cool, play games, don't give it up, don't be to easy kinda guy that probably does the same with tons of women
Yea exactly, your the problem these days with women
P. s. Women want sex just as much as men, don't act like you don't and it's guys that are the horny dogs
Please accept my respect.
Wow. Look at all the hate.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Avn2nT16FASeriously though, good take. I would make one suggestion. Sometimes ordering people not to be bitter and/or angry is counterproductive. Being only human, a certain amount of bitterness might, in certain circumstances be inevitable for some people. I have found that by simply telling them, "Don't be angry. Don't be bitter," you can come off as sounding insensitive to their hurt. Sometimes anger and bitterness just comes with the territory and you either have to ride it out or channel it to other things.
Oh, who is that woman blowing kisses at the bottom? It seems like she's familiar but I can't put my finger on who she is.
I thought it was Serena Gomez. Great response by the way!
Point #1 applies on me :/ (I think. Maybe, maybe not) whatever...
Good Take! You made good points :)
I am a guy and I agree completely with this take. COMPLETELY! Word To Word!!!
"We know if you are playing around."
Yes! This! This is why I hate A LOT of girls to be honest. (not literally 'hate' but I didn't have an appropriate word right now) You know we are playing around but still you stay with us in hopes of changing us and end up crying alone that we all are same and we used you.
This is why guys :
1) don't put in enough effort
2) have the most disgusting ideas about women
3) give up way too easy and are weak
And this is why all these nice guys, good guys, bad guys, jerks, rich boy, alphas, betas, friendzoned, forever alone, player, slut, whore, bitch, texting rules, dating rules, time rules, friends with benefits, NSA, PUA, ONS, body size, race*, religion*, feminism* and other misconceptions started.
( * = in relationship)
I agree with you. Like seriously me as an girl needs to do some soul searching and figure out my priorities. Especially before I judge a guy I need to know what I'm looking for and what's best for me.
Thanks @sky_is_the_limit01
Thank you for this wonderful insight into the heart of a woman. I feel like some of these are your own personal desires, and may not be healthy if fully explored, but a wise man will take them all to heart, I think.
For example, the part about your boss never letting you get an edge in, and it turning you on. Many of us guys do not want a woman who we have to constantly put in her place, or argue with, or contend with. We just want someone we can love and adore.
I personally want things, and things that turn me on, that would probably make you queasy- and that said, I know are not good for me. I "crush" on things that I know would not bring me happiness, though they do turn me on in a very real way. Just saying. You and your boss, if you ever got together, would probably not be very happy in the long run.
But thank you for this take, I appreciate it.
you forgot watch too much porn and thinks too much with his dick
And no fucking social skills with different types of people.
Come on... did you really want me to add that? ? I was so nice in my take and I'm getting snowballed by the guys.
👆 @_@😎
Let those degenerates dish it out.
Porn is normal guys are visual, so take that up with God when you see him, unless your going to hell
Thinks too much of his dick, your kidding right? Average women think they deserve the best hottest guys out there just because they got boobs and an ass
Whatever you say about guys, women by nature are always more intense About it
Go to your porno. It will satisfy u for life.
How's about this then. Guys don't respect girls because...
All you care about is make up
All you look for in a guy is money and looks
You spend hours on stupid shit like your makeup and crap
You expect us to be there for you night and day, girl go get your own life
You expect us to give up our friends for you
You treat us like we are your followers and expect us to worship the ground you walk on
You would prefer a loaded bank account than a man cause all he is is your ATM.
Generalisations, easy aren't they? Sounds to me like you got some serious issues in judging characters, work on that shit and stop being a sexist. Not all guys are like that and the fact you want a guy to do all that shit shows u as a needy little bitch Hun so y don't u go find a real man cause damn if your guys do all that shit for you then they might have your respect but no respect from anyone else on the world cause all they are is a door mat to some needy bitch
"All women look for in a guy is money and looks "
"You treat us like we are your followers and expect us to worship the ground you walk on"
I don't know much about the rest tho.
Sadly i feel like these are true for a lot of fit and good looking women, who can afford to behave this way, simply, cause they look good, some may not do it, but i think they are the minority.
So the hard part is, finding a woman who wants a man, not just his money and a model looking sex partner.
Basicly if you don't look like the average film star and have enough money to just casually fly to Dubai next week, you as a man who looks good but not ripped like some stars (at least i feel this way for now) have low chance of finding a normal girl.
Use your aggressive feelings, boy!
I don't believe the things I said guys haha, girls aren't like that in just doing what she did and picking up on the actions of the minority and putting it across the whole gender just like she has done. I mean do any of you know a guy like the things she said? Cause I don't but I do know a few guys that do the things she said and I can tell you other than their girlfriend they are pretty much alone because she controls their entire life and she doesn't respect him at all so this take is utter shit
And her last paragraph lmfao 'don't punish women cause you had a bad experience with a few' this girl is such a hypocrite isn't that what she has based her emigre take around? Calling over guys because of a few bad experiences? Grow up and use your own advise, don't preach what you can't do
Followed all the rules...
Still single 😝😝😝
Haha another great take a good follow up to your one about the ladies!!!
I strongly agree that men should treat ladies with kindness and respect
And the way they want the women in there family to be treated 😊
You are only 19 lovie. Don't worry. You have so many years ahead of you.
haha thanks!
But i have been talking to an amazing girl recently, but i dont think it will work :(
Whether you believe it or not. your take is not a brutal as you might think. It's actually really what most guys believe in the first place. A lot of the 'mytakes' on here seem like sabotage at times with just pissed off women. I kind of liked yours it was honest, kind and helpful but the trouble I have to admit is that I struggle with approach and shyness. The running away easily thing I'm not sure what that is aimed at exactly but take that into consideration.
Sometimes I do believe that a lot of it is horseshit at times cause it's usually what you guys see is what you want, which is why guys self deprecate and give up. That stuff only works during youth where a girl knows a guy long enough to give him a chance after that when people get old it's al about possessions and assets and survival.
I do agree with the first 2. A little effort goes a long way and it's said that that needs to be said to some guys. If they are super lazy and want everything to fall in their lap/me do everything, they yeah I'm probably going to end it. We both need to put in effort.
If a guy has appalling views and is disrespectful, I'm out. Kindness goes a long way, and I find that really attractive. Having a positive, kind person/partner in your life is great. I guess the 3rd one is applicable as well; but when I see a guy throw a fit and leave over something simple, I consider him immature. I will hear and see his point of view if he gives me the same chance with mine. I know I'm not always right, but I am on some things (through experience, knowledge on the subject etc.)
"Don't punish every woman because you had a bad experience with a few." - I agree with, and don't judge every guy to be like my abusive ex.
It never occurred to you that you should question your own worth before having the arrogance to impose your little wish list on men, did it?
"If your woman is strong, that is ok. She chose to be with you. Don't just leave her. Mind you she will do extremely fine without you anyway."
--> Then I guess he was as important to her as a fucking desk lamp...
nah but you sound like a beautiful and genuine person really...
I'm glad most women in real life think FAR differently that you do. Your sense of entitlement reeks to high heavens.
No need for all these offensive pictures, just saying "tough loving" guys isn't going to work since most of us are aware of our own problems (the ones you mentioned, and more than that) and yes, we put effort to fix it. So don't blame us for not succeeding in dating, at least we don't blame women for rejecting us.
I initially thought many American women are messed-up feminists, but wow, Aussies like you are beating the rest of the competition. That's OK, as long as you stay half a world away from the great red-white-blue country called the US of A!
Maybe this speaks for women in Australia but here in the United States of America, women prefer the wealthy, "beta" men these days in our generation. They actually prefer to date these weak guys, just because they were born in a pile of money.
I can't agree with you on that one.
You'd be suprised how many guys insult women when with the lads it's banter and most likEly he won't do it in front of you.
Many guys dont go for the intimidating types to be honest they seem more stuck up. But anyway the others are generally true although id love all these qualities in my wife too
Agreed, there's nothing great about intimidating women.
Another good take!! But its not fair that you put so many points in the guy version and so less in the women's version... that is disappointing...
You should remake the womens version with equal points...
Who agrees with me people? Upvote if you agree?
my points were equal on both sides...
No! There were less points in the women's version
You claim to be for equality, but you always talk about how guys are supposed to ask you out, you never try to ask guys out. Guess it's only equality if it benefits you?
The world needs more smart women like you.
Had you bothered to read, I made a take about why men don't ask women out too. Your point is invalid.
Yes sir, hits the nail right on the head. I unfortunately used to be that guy that fit this role when I was younger and had to learn the hard way why women didn’t respect or take an interest in me. Guys, if the shoe fits here please stop doing these behaviors. It’s making you look foolish and ridiculous. A REAL women is not ever going to find these behaviors acceptable. Take a look at yourself and make the effort to change.
2. "If she's bitchy you have to be the bigger person because women can't be held responsible for their own actions, just men". Also, you sound like a moron to even be bothered with the guys who catcall. They're sexy huh? Oh, if only they weren't such douchebags you could have your cake and eat it too~ Everyone else is always the problem because they don't meet your standards, huh~?
Lol I liked your take tbh. But realistically these lists are pretty dumb (not yours - just in general).
Relationships aren't objective, each one is unique. I have dated girls that have ended the relationship for one reason and dated others that started the relationship for that very same reason (if that makes sense.. lol).
The point is these types of lists, while they sound like there perfect on how to be the ideal boyfriend, the real reality is there's no manual on how to make a relationship work.
But for all the lads out there, my personal tip is: To attract a girl dont show too much interest. To keep a girl, show plenty.
All that stuff about being on the phone too much and catcalling is pretty obvious - like seriously LOL.
Good take, but some of this goes both ways. Like being on your phone during a date. Women do that just as much if not more than guys. Some of them expect men to put in all the effort because it's chivalrous or because it "sweeps them off their feet". Most of us are already doing what we can. It's more so the women who should put in more effort.
Translation: "I want alpha males"
Basically you the male aren't allowed to be human. To be human is to have weaknesses but female simply won't allow it. That's why I tell men to use escorts and stay single. Woman's true nature is sociopathy. They don't care about you, only what you can do for them.
I damn well care for boyfriends. I give them nothing but my heart and attention. I buy them gifts, I arrange dates, I'm totally loyal and honest, I trust them, I let them do whatever they want. I dated them because I liked them and eventually fell in love with them and all their little habits, whether good or bad. I've dated guys who were jobless and not the most attractive. They had nothing but themselves to offer me and I was perfectly okay with that so I find it offensive that you assume all women don't actually love/care of their boyfriends, but only what they can provide. Women probably care too much most of the time which is why they get hurt so much and jealous.