The top lies I hear from some men

[iamyourneighbor]

These are lies I have heard based on girl friend's experiences and lies I have heard from some men in my real life and some men on this website and others. I'm not saying all men lie and say these things but some do.

1. I only have sex with girls who I'm in love with or enotionally involved with!

2. You are the only girl for me!

3. She means nothing to me/I don't even know her!

4. My ex was crazy!

5. She's just a friend!

6. I came home from work late!

7. I want more than just sex from you!

8. I'm a nice guy!

9. I would never lie to you!

10. She came on to me first!

11. I love you/I'm in love with you/I'm starting to fall in love with you!

12. I Will do better next time!

13. I'll take you out I promise!

[sdistotallyme]

I don't like liars myself and I'm honest about 95% of the time. It comes with my personality, upbringing and spiritual beliefs. However I will throw in some white lies occasionally (e. g. no your butt doesn't look big... you look hot sweetie) because I know how emotional/fragile a woman's self esteem can me.

With that said I actually wish I DID NOT have a conscience. Yes, I will say that again. I wish I had no moral regrets about lying to women!!! Why? Because I've seen too many dbag guys lie through their teeth and tell women what they want to hear and get sexually rewarded for it. I've even seen several long term relationships start with some deceit on the guys end. The guy blows himself up to be funnier, better and more successful than he really is. The girl sleeps with a few times and finds out later to her dismay that he is not all that he's cracked up to be. However at that point the guy already has his FOOT IN THE DOOR. He can drag her along for a while because at an emotional level she thinks she can change him.

Meanwhile genuine nice guy like myself gets shut down from the get go. Sorry girls, but so many of you would rather live in a fantasy land of lies a slick guy concocted than have a genuine nice guy be honest with you. That's on you.

[LittleSally]

That's why I say trust your instincts. Rely on your intuition. If something tells you they're lying - they are.

[Tromba]

Most of these I've never said. The ones I have were true. Lying is for the weak and fearful or people who need to lie to get what they want. I will lie to spare someone's feelings or if they are trying to abuse me in some way and the truth would be giving them a weapon but other than that no.

[KittyBox]

I like how it's usually the females acting like the victims, Women are guilty to do the exact same things that were listed above. My conclusion, if you're a woman reading this, in attempt to belittle us in any way shape or form based on what "some guy said", Go fuck yourself. :)

[StannisBaratheon]

It's not our fault. Im guilty of saying I loved my girlfriend earlier then I did because she wanted sex when we loved eachother soo. I dont lie unless it makes her feel better. E. g. She's just a freind is a lie I say a lot because what should I say? Ohh I think she's cute and I sext her? In general women view wanting sex without love as a bad thing so to get it we must say we love u even if we dont mean it. Also Its girls fault that some men lie. If women expect men to tell them that she's slim when she's cleary obese this sets up the idea she prefers to not know the truth in general. So we say things like your the only girl to make her feel good.

[iamyourneighbor]

No one can make you lie
It's very immature to blame someone else for your lying

[Scrambledagain]

Yeah some are used sometimes. Not general though. The main one I hear from the guys all the time is "Yes baby, one more drink and I will be home"😂

[AlphaMale1]

Geez amyourneighbor... buy a dildo. They don't lie!

[AlphaMale1]

Unlike your comment to me, mine was not intended to be insulting. It is what a lot of women do these days.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Man, I feel sorry for young boys who are gonna grow up to deal with this kind of thing.

Poor little lads don't know what they've got coming.

[YusiBear]

By the way, Thank you for using "some men"!
I appreciate it!

[Rioooo]

lol i got all of them... but i am sure he didn't lie to me...

[iamyourneighbor]

Well I'm talking about lies some men make
I did not say all men make these lies

[Strider90]

You can't get more naive right?
The only lie I see here that is ALWAYS a lie is number 5, She is just a friend. A man has no female friends.
Everything else is more or less bullshit.

[iamyourneighbor]

Do you know every lie a guy has made?

[Strider90]

Do you know?

[iamyourneighbor]

No and I never claimed that all men say these lies I said some men. So you can't say what you don't know is bullshit just because you don't want to believe that some men have lied about these things

[Unit1]

The "lies" you listed are simple sentences. Basically a lie can be everything. And I mean it: EVERYTHING!

You could toss in a dictionary and call it lies. Would make no difference using other words and whatsoever.

[SIGguy]

Their are women guilty of this, too. The one I received was,"He's just a friend." But let it be water under the bridge, they're not hurting you, anymore.

[amphet11]

If you believe number 1 that's your fault for being so naive

[amphet11]

o and i agree with strider90 men don't have female friends, only potential sex or potential girlfriends

[iamyourneighbor]

I think men have potential gfs or sex buddies too. This take has nothing to do with me. Who said I believed it? I never did

[amphet11]

It wasn't directed at you, it was directed at certain women, if it's first on your list of lies you hear from men, i wouldn't assume you believed it. Yeah, female friendship means near nothing to us, you are either sex, or love and sex. Number one is so obvious that any man who says it is stupid to believe the women will believe him, and if the women does believe him, then she is worse, super ignorant (i mean it will be true for some men, but not for like 99% of men).

[iamyourneighbor]

Number 1 is a repeating sentence I have heard on girlsaskguys from men

[amphet11]

lol, hardly any men are demisexual, why would it be a question from men, is it a man asking other men if they can only have sex with women they love?

[iamyourneighbor]

No it's women questions about God knows what and some men on this website are saying they don't have sex with a girl unless they are in love with her or emotionally attached. And no the women are not asking men that question but for some reason some men on here are writing that on here. It's not my job to figure out why

[amphet11]

mmm fuck if i know, a guy has to have really low test, or have reasons that are religious or some form of strict standard (as in they want to sleep with random girls because they are still sexually attracted to them, but they are strictly religious or have some strict moral code that makes them shy away from hedonism) to not sleep with a random decent looking girl if given the chance.

[PT1911]

Sounds more like lies you hear from boys and not men :)

[Drast]

When said, I think all of them are probably lies except for 7.

[iamyourneighbor]

Some men do lie about wanting more than just sex it's called a manipulative douchebag

[Drast]

Very rarely does a man only want sex from a woman. The other things he wants might not be morally correct either, but wants more nonetheless

[iamyourneighbor]

Ok it might be rare to you but some men actually do use women for sex.

[iamyourneighbor]

Why do find it hard to believe that some men approach women only to get sex? some men say anything to get laid

[Drast]

No I believe it. I have approached women looking just for sex. But I've never lied or seen another man lie about what he wanted, only heard about it from other women.

[iamyourneighbor]

I'm not saying that I'm saying some men lie and say they are not only with her for sex when they obviously are.

[SuitAndTie]

There's just as much chance as all of these being true.

[Riggers]

Seems like every other girl, You are only attracted to assholes and thus have this stupid concept of men.

But, Thats none of my business.

[iamyourneighbor]

You do not know the men I have dated. Talk to me when you actually get a girl to like you
But that's none of my buisiness

[Riggers]

Well, If this take is anything to go by, It sounds like you have only dated the cheating douchebag type, So, Talk to m when you actually get a non asshole guy to like you
But that's none of my business.

[iamyourneighbor]

I'm not the one trying to be a know it all. I see you skipped a couple of English classes but that's none of my buisiness
☕️🐸

[iamyourneighbor]

I don't date assholes. You do not know me.
But if you look in the mirror you might see an asshole

[Riggers]

Lol, I am an asshole, I fuckin know i am. I'm more then happy to admit im an utter cunt, So dont try and deny that you have dated them just to seem like a better person or some shit, I get it, You dated them because they were hot, you didn't care that they were cunts, and only after they showed they were cunts for too long, and there looks were no longer enough you ditched them, and then the same thing kept happening, Because you, like all other girls, Only date hot cunts xD

Just admit it haha.

[iamyourneighbor]

This conversation had taken a very childish turn

[Riggers]

Coming from the one who made the snidey little '' i see you skipped a couple of English classes '' remark... Hypocrites... Hypocrites everywhere...

[TheAngryBanana]

I hear women say some varations of these lies too, weird : )

[Jaden69]

it's the same vice-versa with girls. I always find that generalizing one gender for common things done by all genders is dumb.

I don't know tho

[iamyourneighbor]

I said its some men not all men
I wish you would learn to read first instead of making incorrect assumptions

[Jaden69]

"1. I only have sex with girls who I'm in love with or enotionally involved with!"

I wish you would learn to spell before making a mytake.

[iamyourneighbor]

You have no logical argument. You try to change the subject to talk about my spelling which I know I made but I did not discover it until after. grow a pair

[genuinlysensitive]

Yea some guys are real jerks.

[Luvme66]

Seems like you hate men...

[iamyourneighbor]

I don't hate men in not sure why you think that after reading my first paragraph

[iamyourneighbor]

*im not sure

[Luvme66]

I read the entire take but it seems like you have had lots of bad experiences.

[iamyourneighbor]

If you actually read it you would know that these are based on things men have said on this website, women I know that have told me these lies men have said and done I have heard. These are not all my experiences. So using your logic a girl who has good experiences with men loves every guy she sees?

[Luvme66]

I didn't mean it that way... I meant that guys always speak their mind and when we lie you women can tell the difference easily! So why write a take?

[iamyourneighbor]

*some I have heard

[iamyourneighbor]

Because I get points for it and I want women to feel better because I want women to know they are not alone.

[Luvme66]

This "and I want women to feel better because I want women to know they are not alone."

was an artificial reason though

Anyways bye

[iamyourneighbor]

Typical you whine and complain about something I never did and when you lose the argument you say bye. Why am I not surprised? Bye