The common misconception of today's society is that bad boys have to be badass, rough-and-tough, jackasses all the time to impress the ladies. Well, I'm here to tell you that it doesn't have to be that way. Guys just have to know when and where to show that ferocious side, and when and where to show the nimble, protective side.
First and foremost, if you really want to impress a special lady, don't be a try hard and try the stereotypical jackass routine; it's a big turnoff and it makes you come out as weak (which is counterintuitive, right?). What you want to do is come off as a trustable, friendly person who knows what he's doing. Might not sound as badass, but in the eyes of many, just knowing what you are doing makes you just the more attractive and, subsequently, badass.
Furthermore, once you have established that you're the type of person who is in control of your life, you have to establish that no one can knock you off the edge: hence, the ferocious side of being "bad". You make sure that no one can hurt you: you do this because you want that special girl to know that when she is with you she is protected, thus bringing me to my next point.
As the title might suggest, bad boys don't always have to be aggressive. They have to be protective too! Afterall, a relationship won't last if you don't care about your lady. Really, being a bad boy means being dominant and in control of your life. You don't have to be an ass or harm people for respect. The respect from being a bad boy comes from knowing that you are the king of your playpin and your woman is your queen. Thanks for taking the time to read this myTake!
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