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Why Nice Guys Should Keep Being Nice (Page 2)
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Im a nice girl, and I have been with a nice guy for almost a year and wouldn't want him any other way :)
Altho we flitered with each other and such. You have to make your romantic interest known :) I did that, he did that. And we also talked about sexual stuff
Do you need to be in a relationship in order to talk about sexual stuff?
@JustinX9 I do. Before him I considered myself asexual. Without a deep connection sex becomes completely uninteresting to me
Good for you
If you believe in God, then lets call it answered prayer. If you don’t, you are free to attribute it to the burrito I ate for lunch, and an uncomfortable pocket of gas escaping my body at just the right time. LOL! Now thats funny XD
Good for you! Don't let anyone tell you you're wrong :)
Thanks brah.
its not about being nice or not, its about giving them what they percieve as value fun exciting and all that
women aren't logical but emotional. they dont give a shit about a lot but their feelings.
True. Every woman values different things differenly. I'd rather wait for a girl who is excited about me as I am than change into someone I don't enjoy being though.
Thanks for the input though. =)
"What if a nice guy’s purpose in dating was not to get a girlfriend, but was to leave every girl he dated closer to finding the right guy?"
that's just sad for guys. but at least you are contributing to a noble cause for women. :/
Kinda sounds egotistic in my opinion. Like what if you just suck and she didn't need you at all. There's plenty of woman who find the right person without having a nice guy beforehand, if having anybody at all.
@Longjacketanx that is definitely a factor.
Sorry for being so optimistic with my revelation about past relationships. Glad to have nice fellows to remind me that I might just suck! Gee wiz, thanks guys! @Longjacketanx
Truth: girls don't friendzone nice guys because they're nice, they do it because being nice is the only quality the guy has to offer
Also, don't give up.
I wasn't aware the word nice carried all thise meanings.
The dictionary I use defines "nice" as:
": giving pleasure or joy : good and enjoyable
: attractive or of good quality
: kind, polite, and friendly"
How can you tell someone has nothing to offer just from knowing they have the characteristics above? Is being those things that encompass being "nice" mutually exclusive with having other good qualities? Please explain so I can avoid future miscommunications.
Because from what I've seen, MOST PEOPLE are "nice". It's just not a special trait. And if that trait is used to describe someone, it's usually because whoever is doing the describing can't think of anything especially unique about that someone.
Look through these comments and tell me that most people are "polite kind and friendly" HA! GOT EEM!
They seem nice enough to me. Any negative things they say are because you're an idiot.
What if the only thing he can offer is being nice, is that not a reason enough to give up?
@JustinX9 someone else, the RIGHT PERSON, will seem him for more than just being nice. Unless, yeah, he might be a square.
be nice cause you want to be = yes no problems thats all good
bend over backwards confusing niceness for a door mat = no way on hell is that good for any one
I can be nice but if a lady wants me to stay nice she gotta earn it : )
Doormat, no. When a woman disrespects me, I stop asking her out.
Not sure what I think about your last line. I guess it would depend on the context you mean it in.
I'll be nice, but I have a short fuse when it comes to abuse. Of course, that means the abusers just find a more clever way of pulling their trump cards.
Wrong, just wrong.
Your dating life is about your happiness, not theirs. If she chooses to be with you, then it's because you make her happy, which is the only thing she cares about.
Your whole post in unmanly; it sickens me to read this.
nice guys, just like nice guys, go for all types. and both get tricked by scumbags that want to use and take advantage of them. this is ridiculous!
Nice guys are the best type of guys. I wish there were more!
I really like this it's cute!! I'm you but a girl version😧😩 understand this all too well..
Date me then.. please hehe :)
@TheOneLol haha I'd love to :) nice guys are the best!
Hahah *gets on one knee* :P
@TheOne Lol darn you beat me to it :p!
She's super-excited.
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Being good is a good thing but you still have to make your own happiness a priodity
Priority*
Its important, but in Christianity the happiness of others is equal or greater in importance. Thanks though. =)
I'm not a Christian so that doesn't impact me whatsoever and I don't feel like many Christians live like that.
I didn't assume you were. Neither were many of the ones you met apparently.
It's not the ones I met, it's most of them in general.
Words.
I didn't mean that as in "word dude", I meant it as in "only words with no substantive argument."
Just wanted to clarify that.
Ok ignore reality
Stay a nice guy.
So guys like me can bang her later that night.
Dude, if she'd even entertain the idea of being with you, you can have her.
Any nice guys out there keep being a nice guy if you don't ever wan't to keep a girlfriend. Girls get bored of that shit quick af
When I was your age I spent more time asking advice and less time giving it.
When i was your age i wasn't a faggot
Nope, just nope. Nice guys finish last because women want a dude who is "forbidden" and nice guys are never forbidden.
The women you're talking about sound pretty shallow.
Yes, women are shallow.
That's not shallow at all. I don't even know what your definition of shallow is, but I never mentioned anything materialistic. I just mentioned personality. If the guy does things that are taboo or forbidden, women will get off on it.
Shallow doesn't have to do with material. Shallow has to do with being easily impressed by silly mind-games.
i understand man. some of us aren't just build of it. but i have come at peace with it. at 26 no woman will accept me being her first. its inciceivable today. so i'm just living my life.
I think it sounds like you might be depressed.
and i think you dont know what depression is and are nowhere near able to discern and diagnose it.
How about people stop thinking about being "nice" or being an "asshole" and just be themselves?
Being yourself is not enough
Patience is finite.
Who wants to be settled for anyway?
Everyone is settled-for, except for the <1% of good women. They get hitched at age 12 and stay that way for life.