6 Common Controversial Statements about Men you may not agree with!

[ThatJarHead]

Alright, as many people know I post a new topic here about once a day. I have been slacking on that because I have been doing marriage stuff. Dates and Taxes and what not. Yeah, taxes suck. Anyways, here is this topic. Not really a topic, more of a list. So my setup will be the typical I use. I have my intro here then my list then I will talk about it a little. Do enjoy delicious reader! I'm not sure why you're delicious... Oh well. I'm too lazy to change it XD

1: All Men Are Horny 24/7!

Well I disagree with this one. Mostly because, well, we aren't.

2: All Men are Protective!

For the most part I agree with this. I am protective over my property, my wife, and my dog. Some men would rather talk their way out of a fist fight though. I know I will.

3: All it takes to please a Man is Food and Sex!

This is true and false at the same time. Every man likes food, Everyman likes sex. But that's not all we need to keep us happy. A real relationship is what we crave!

4: All Men are Immature!

No. Not all. But most. I mean lets be honest here other guys reading, we have all made the dick joke or the obvious your mama joke.

5: All men are lazy!

This is quite the opposite really. Women are more prone to laziness.

6: A man can't be small and still good in bed!

Well here's an intimate detail about me. I'm very under average. 4.4" actually. My wife has proven and said time and time again that I'm good in bed. Both lusting after it when she wants it, and taking dominant role to enjoy it. So size really doesn't matter. In reality you don't need to penetrate the womb to please your woman. Any woman who says size matters isn't worth your trouble. Besides, clitoral stimulation can happen with any size penis. On top of that the "G-Spot" is only about 2.5 to 3.5 inches. So again, if a girl says size matters? Leave that self righteous bitch in the dust. She doesn't deserve you.

Alright, I was gonna write more but I honestly got writers block. So how I see sexism in this day and age is yes it was men one day. Now if a man takes a topless photo of a woman he's a pig. When women stand and gawk at men it's perfectly ok. That's just my opinion. If have one leave one below.

[oddwaffle]

1/ hmm... I tried to go for 5min not thinking about sex and realized the stupidity of such action. Okay, it's a joke since we wouldn't be able to function if we spend all the time thinking about naughty things.

2/ agree. However, not all men do the same thing given the same problem.

3/ agree. Or I would just hire a sexy maid. However, these are the most important things. Keep his belt filled and his balls drained. Really hard to escape from a woman who can do that.

4/ I personally thing all men are immature. The difference between a man and a boy is the price of their toys.

5/ agree. Workaholics do exist and you don't want to marry men who only care about work and success.

6/ I have no opinion on this.

[ThatJarHead]

I like you! You are someone I can get along with!

[Taywallee16]

Size really doesn't matter. It's kind of like boobs on a girl. Bigger isn't always better. It's a preference thing.

[magicmanX]

@Taywallee16.. larger boobs and larger penis are preferable to a point. No guy dreams of a girl with A cups, and no girl dreams of a guy with a 4 inch penis. Don't you agree?

[Taywallee16]

@magicmanX no not really. Some guys find big boobs a turn off and some women are extremely tight or shallow to the point a bigger penis would hurt more than feel pleasurable. You may not think guys don't dream of girls with A cups or that girls would be satisfied with a 4 inch penis because media says bigger is better. Not everybody is attracted to the same look. So some guys may find A cups desirable and some women may find a 4 inch penis is the perfect fit. Everyone is different.

[magicmanX]

@Taywallee16.. not true. All guys like big boobs. We don't like overly or freakishly big boobs. I've never heard of any guys that seek out girls with an A cup.

Extremely tight or shallow vaginas are very rare. Your very few women would need a small guy. Most vaginas can accommodate a 6 inch pen us very well.

[magicmanX]

Penis*. Vaginas stretch to accomadate.

[ThatJarHead]

@magicmanX I think you're very wrong friend. I think that large breasts are extremely unattractive. Anything over a C is too much for me.

[udolipixie]

2: All Men are Protective!
I disagree with this going by rape, domestic violence, sexual harassment, sexual assault, and murder male on female statistics. Plus the rape apolgizing/excusing/minimizing I see quite prevalent in males.

6: A man can't be small and still good in bed!
Not for me. For other gals perhaps.

"Leave that self righteous bitch in the dust. She doesn't deserve you."
Your wording suggests you are the self righteous one. Whoa just couldn't go different folks different strokes huh..0.0
You do not know others sexuality. For some gals they may need the visual stimuli for arousal and the physical sensation to orgasm.

"Besides, clitoral stimulation can happen with any size penis."
I am questioning your knowledge of female anatomy as going by studies I've the penis generally doesn't stimulate the clit.

"On top of that the "G-Spot" is only about 2.5 to 3.5 inches"
Here I question your knowledge of general hetero sex as going by studies I've seen the penis doesn't generally hit the g-spot and vaginal intercourse is generally non orgasmic.

If your premise is that since the g-spot is a small way it then it doesn't srem you are factoring in sensation. A d*ck can fit in an above average vagina and an average vagina however likely the average vagina will present more sensation than a 'loose' vagina.

"So size really doesn't matter. "
For some gals it doesn't. For some gals it does matter. In my opinion it doesn't make a gal a self-righteous bitch for size to matter. Then again my mindset is to each their own and insults are warranted when one is forcing their sexual preferences/criteria on an unwilling person. Plus I find it off that it seems society wise guys tout size doesn't matter when it comes to female sexual enjoyment as they are not female and there is vaginal tightening exercises/surgery/products so there seems to be an inequality there to me.

[ThatJarHead]

It seems as though you went out of your way just to discredit and disprove all of my statements. I said "clitoral stimulation can helped with any size penis" exactly for the reason you stated. And the "G-Spot" is only about 2.5 to 3.5 inches in. I question your knowledge of the mammal species. And no. Size does not matter. Asking for larger size or a "preference" is selfish. The point that was made that you failed to see which every other girl here noticed is I was saying "If she leaves you because you have a small penis the fuck her" besides girls don't get a preference. They don't get to pick and choose. If you think you have the right to say "I want a bigger dick"? You don't deserve sex at all. A man with what he has. There is no changing with surgical enhancements. "Having a penis preference" is both really stupid from a scientific stance, and body shaming. You're female right? You should how body shaming feels. Don't be hypocritical. If you want a big dick for you? Go buy one.

[ThatJarHead]

The typos in my comment thoug o-0

[ThatJarHead]

Though* I hate touch screens with a passion -_-"

[udolipixie]

Different views. I don't see it as going out of my way to state what I thought was common knowledge ie penis generally doesn't stimulate the clit and vaginal intercourse generally isn't female orgasmic. If you feel discredited and disproven that is on you not me.

[udolipixie]

I said "clitoral stimulation can helped with any size penis" exactly for the reason you stated.

Actually you said:
"Besides, clitoral stimulation can happen with any size penis."

My statement was that the penis generally doesn't stimulate the clit. Exactly what do you think is my reason that you made your erroneous claim?

[ThatJarHead]

What I meant to say in my first comment near the end is "A man is born which what he's born with. Girls don't get to be picky about the size of it. There's he can go. Saying you won't be with a man because he drew the short straw? That's not fair! Have you ever heard of guy saying 'I won't be with you because your vagina/ass/tits are too small/large? No! It doesn't happen. Men are just happy to get physical with a partner! Women should be too! Because society is largely turning from women have all the problems to men do. There is all kinds of excersizes and shit that women can do to get tighter etc. There's none of that for men. There's pills and such but they don't work. Without surgical enhancing there's no getting bigger which is why women don't have the right to have an opinion." Frankly? I don't care about physical satisfaction. For me or her. If you can't be satisfied? Well too bad. I've met many a girl who hasn't been able to get their man off but never one who hasn't gotten off

[udolipixie]

2. And the "G-Spot" is only about 2.5 to 3.5 inches in. I question your knowledge of the mammal species.
Why? Nowhere did I state the g-spot wasn't 2.5 to 3.5 inches. I did state the penis doesn't generally hit the g-spot and vaginal intercourse is generally non orgasmic. So claiming oh the g-spot is only a few inches in so size doesn't matter is off to me since the g-spot isn't generally involved. Plus such a premise doesn't factor in sensation.

I am beginning to question your reading comprehension.

[ThatJarHead]

I'm bringing your whole post into spell check, lady. If you don't have anything constructive I've to say? Kindly fuck off.

[ThatJarHead]

We are done talking now.

[udolipixie]

in your opinion size doesn't matter and wanting a larger size is selfish.

I am not an assumptive person so I can not see a point you did not state. Nowhere in your post did you say:If she leaves you because you have a small penis the fuck her"

Yes gals do get a preference as they do get to pick and choose who they have sex with. Are you really trying to say if a gal wants a partner she desires sexually then she doesn't deserve sex? Or is it gals do not deserve sex if you dislike what they desire?

Do explain how "Having a penis preference" is "really stupid from a scientific stance"?

[ThatJarHead]

No a girl DOES NOT get to have a preference! Would you like men going around saying "Your vagina isn't tight enough to cut off my cocks circulation therefore I have no interest in you" no you wouldn't. It's the same thing. Did you know that 50% of male suicides is because of penis size? Or sexual preference? Simply because of people like you. Don't post on someone's topic if you only negative things to say. You don't have to agree with me. But you don't have to be an ass hole about stating either.

[udolipixie]

I know what body shaming is. It seems you do not.

A gal having size criteria/preference is not body shaming. body shaming would be gals telling guys that they are inferior, leaders, insert whatever negative for not having larger dicks.

A gal not wanting to date or f*ck a guy because of his d*ck size is not body shaming.

The only shaming I see is being done by you ala you dictating what matters to female sexuality and shaming gals who disagree.

[udolipixie]

Body shaming going by the definitions I've seen is abuse of a person due to perceived physical flaw.

What definition are you using to seemingly get that a gal not wanting a small/average d*ck is body shaming? Is your view that a gal not dating or f*cking a guy she doesn't want is abuse or shaming him? 0.0

[udolipixie]

*lesser not leaders
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[ThatJarHead]

Not shaming people who disagree. Just shaming you. Because you come over to my post and start shit? Really? You couldn't say "I have a differing opinion but I get what you're trying to say"? You have come over and start insulting me? Why don't you explain to the rest of the class if you're so smart why you think girls should get a preference? Then I will retort and say "YOU HAVE A LOOSE VAGINA SO YOU aren't ATTRACTIVE!!" If you were born as a male. You had a below average penis. Every day at high school in the locker room you were ridiculed for having a small penis. Every girl to ever see you without clothes laughed at you. And there wasn't a thing you can do. They call you horrible awful things for something you don't have a choice in. Same thing with gingers. I don't discriminate. You're a bitch. I do not like. I think you're a rotten person. I have no wish in this or next to ever speak with face to face. That's how you state an opinion! ,, l,

[udolipixie]

What negative things am I saying?

You are the one insulting others for their preferences and trying to dictate sexuality.

I am saying different strokes for different folks and neither is better or worse.

[Battooot]

Sorry take owner but u lost ur credibility to me in what I read. Let me tell u something. Some girls r born with smaller or tighter vaginas and some others r born with bigger ones. Sexual pleasure in a relationship is important. It will simply be hard for a girl with bigger vagina to enjoy sex with a guy with a small dick. That doesn't mean the girl is a dick if she didn't accept you. Now yes some girls can take their sexual preference too far but there r some guys like that too. In general u want to find a girl who could be compatible with u. For example Asians girls r generally known to have a tight vagina, if they have sex with a super hung black guy, they r gonna die and cannot live with that. But hey, guess what, u would be a perfect match for her and she'l probly enjoy sex with u way more than that hung guy. So its really all about finding ur compatible partner bro.

[stegocanop]

Wow, that's a lot of downvotes you have here. I guess this website is just full of people who are either ignorant or in denial, and the take owner was downright bitter and childish. I fully agree with what you say, men saying what women should and shouldn't like, and what matters and doesn't matter for them always amuse me, they're speaking as if they have a vagina.

[stegocanop]

And @ThatJarHead, it's time to grow up. Not everybody is going to like you, not everybody is going to like me either, but this is life for you. No reason to throw a temper tantrum and insult everyone who disagrees with you because of it. You don't get to speak for all women, especially considering that you're not a woman, and neither do you get to speak for all guys. Contrary to what you believe ("Men are just happy to get physical"), I've met plenty of men who wouldn't get with a girl if they didn't like the whole package. I've even met a guy who rejected a girl because he didn't like her toes! Bottom line is, women DO get to pick, and so do men. It's okay to have a preference, you can't force someone to date a person they're not attracted to. Yes, it's not fair that some people may rule you out for something out of your control (I can even empathise with you on that, I have no tits and no ass, and much taller that an average guy would prefer). But nothing in the world is fair.

[Azara]

i dont ascribe to any of these male stereotypes in the first place.., but interestingly while trying to exonerate men you aeem compelled to insult women.

You can clearly see how inappropriate it is to arbitrarily claim all men are lazy ,. but have great ease claiming women are more prone to looniness... did you notice your psychological proclivity simultaneously towards and against derogatory truisms depending on gender?

A woman can take a topless photo because its legal for men to walk around triples. if you want to equal;ooze reactions equalize the law.

women are quite protective of their children the earth human rights against violence invasion genocide... ... they dont come close to the rate of violent acts-- especially towards women. so i would argue historically women have been more protective of life., men of things. (including hunan and animal slaves)

[AleDeEurope]

Nice take, though I disagree when you say most men are immature. Just because we know how to have fun, and find the fun part about things, doesn't mean we're immature. I think not knowing how to deal with certain situations makes you more immature than laughing at a fart joke.

[ThatJarHead]

It was just a statement sir. I'm a guy. You're a guy. Yes laughing at a fart joke is immature. That's why I said "Mostly" most guys have a immature attitude in general situations and a mature one when needed. Others are immature all around.

[Crazyced]

Also depends what kind of maturity. Social maturity vs financial maturity for example.

[ThatJarHead]

@Crazyced I see. If I could edit I would clarify.

[IslandGent]

I think this is one of the most realest topics spoken about in internet history about us men in general. Preach!

[ThatJarHead]

Thanks man"

[IslandGent]

For sure, I am so serious though. Every girl needs to read this, dude.

[Elis678]

That's right, size is irrilevant, since the organ for female orgasms is on the outside. However, penis don't really stimulate the clit and don't stimulate the inside clit (that you called g-spot). So yeah, better you learn how to use the tongue. Usually, male with smaller dicks make women cum more cause they they don't focus on in and out and learn manual and oral techniques.

Woman a lazier than men? In what planet? lol

[Riggers]

''5: All men are lazy!
This is quite the opposite really. Women are more prone to laziness.''

Oh shit bro... You've opened the fucking hurt locker now, Do you not know this site is about 95% angry men hating feminists? xD

[ThatJarHead]

Yes I do. I largely agree with the feminist movement. I don't agree with the fact that it turned from equal rights propaganda to "Women are human master race we are the best and we will rule the world!"

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

Who in the world believes only men are lazy? Lol!

[ThatJarHead]

You'd be surprised how much stupid shit people believe :/

[Azara]

who arbitrarily believes women are 'more' prone to laziness?

[AnOrdinaryGirl45]

@Azara Did I say more anywhere? 😐😕

[Godlyboy1]

I don't know about the last one cuz i never had the problem but i agree with all the rest many woman believe that sexism works one way but it goes both ways

[Bysshe]

The g_spot might only be 3.5" in but in some positions you can't get balls deep, and if you're only just reaching the G-spot you're not going to be stimulating it with the whole stroke, just touching it briefly.

[Crazyced]

I don't think talking thing through and being protective are mutually exclusive.

[ThatJarHead]

I never said they were. You mis understand me. I said most guys would rather talk their way out of a fist fight rather than get charged with assault.

[Crazyced]

It was ambiguous. Your sentence read 'I am protective (without saying how)' followed by 'some men would rather'. But it's all good.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Man, one of the most fresh, well written my takes I've ever read.

[xxcchhllaauu]

hey I like this one feeling better thanks guy. maybe I can make these dark thoughts into good ones

[Lindajackie]

I liked this very funny

[TatyanaTheEmpress]

Nice take, I agree, mostly ;)

[TenderFantasy]

I liked it : - )!

[pinkbubble]

Nice one ^^