What's your Unpopular opinion about Men?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

[Rosexøxø]

Really difficult to say cause if I say something about skill that a few ladies would disagree on, the men would probably agree, most likely. If I say something that seems kind of contradicting to their toughness it would probably be agreeable by a few ladies, even if some to most men would want to disagree. So kind of difficult to come up with an unpopular opinion. I’d have to say something I thought secretly maybe, or an unexpressed kind of talent or aspect of men, or some kind of conspiracy theory type thing. Not really sure. I could probably make it rare that as a female I somehow say I’m not attracted to the male gender but even then, there’d be a group who felt similarly. I’ll have to think on this one 🤔 what could I say that hasn’t already been said. Some things I agree pretty much agree with whether women or men say it. 🤔

[Rosexøxø]

Okay I will share two theories I had a bit of a while back.

One: I thought psychologically speaking, all men could be gay because they have high views of other men, usually admire other male figures in society, for the most part prefer male friendships and not only have a bit of an understanding with other men that may sometimes feel easier than with women, but I felt like their sex drives and stamina were probably closer related than a female’s. Like if they say then couldn’t depend on a lady but could depend on a friend and make sex jokes with their bros and all then all these things could point them in that direction. The trust admiration. Etc. I used to believe many men found someone sexually “creative” and willing to try new stuff and general horniness to be a turn on, so if they encountered a “friend” who was turned on or something by natural causes or just accident, they could get excited cause they have an idea of what their male peer gets excited about and sexual excitement was “exciting.” Cause not every lady seemed into all the stuff that some guys would be into. The sexual fetishes they’d develop.

Cause they have to like ladies in some tangible and credible way but if they hate or complain or she reminds him of his “bxtch mom” then why would he ever actually like her? Unless he just saw her as a cum dumpster. 🤷‍♀️ This was my opinion before. I’d say it’s 50/50 now cause I have met a few men who seem to like women enough for my liking lol but I suppose deep down that may be something I always think about.

[Rosexøxø]

And two: I think men are really good at making quick decisions without getting to emotionally involved or overthinking all of the details. I think women can still develop/fine tune and work on such an act, but for the most part guys seem to be better at that. Sometimes it seems impulsive and if it backfires, it kinda was like 70% and 30% was just like bad probably outcome, but if it goes well, it was kind of well timed, and efficient. I would play a certain game with fighting involved, and got to a point I was comfortable with transitions. There were no guns, but I was the equivalent of Clint East wood in the good the bad and the ugly, Sundance kid in butch Cassidy and the Sundance kid, and another one handed shooter who was trained by his friend Joe Cartwright from the Bonanza. Who is also included into the comparison.

[Rosexøxø]

So I was pretty trigger happy, but it was precise, and yet a FEW times I would encounter a couple of guy players who were faster than me at making a decision in a battle that really worked in their favor, and I had regretted my choice. Luckily it was a learning experience. All I’m saying is I could respect the quickness guys make a decision and it goes well. I’m talking about. SPLIT SECOND decisions.

Like half a second, not even a full second. I think if I could’ve paused or slowed down the fight by like 3 to 5 seconds, I would’ve been able to consider the best option for me and taking them down. And when things got so fast in those one on ones and sometimes 3v1 too tbh (which was a lot of fun for me), all guys 😂, trying to take me out lmao. I realized that a second, just a SECOND of negative emotion, could deeply affect the product quality of your set of choices in the exchange. I found it a religious practice keeping my emotions in a fluent positive flow. There’s no room for self doubt in such maneuvers. But what I most enjoyed about such experiences is that this game allowed me to see reaction timings in real time for guys and ladies also. Some ladies I never seen so fast. I know I went up against a few mastered veterans and pay to wins for sure. So it gave me the chance to experience that live without the pain as within a real fight. I used to laugh from being so ticklish at how fast people think in that game I played. I loved also when a team could get in sync with me and see an opponent team also in sync, and the game play just go by fast. Those were the best sessions out of everything by far. But in conclusion. Men are quite talented at making fast decisions. Some are dumb lol but a lot of them I can respect and appreciate. For sure 😂

[MzAsh]

Honestly, I don’t mind the so called “beta” traits. A man who listens, regulates his emotions, doesn’t treat cooperation like castration. Thats the definition of maturity in my book.

It’s wild how quick some guys are to call that unattractive, when those are the exact traits that make a man worth building a life with.

[sawno]

I don't consider that beta myself, the lack of that is stereotypical toxic wannabe alpha's who think force is a way to obtain respect.

[Rosexøxø]

It’s probably competitive sabotage at finding a mate. I think on some level guys know those beta traits is what attracts mates. They’re not dumb to think a lady would want the “horns of a bull” treatment, like they give to their friends, but some young lads and the not so bright ones may fall for this. Cause there’s quite a few who literally use the “alpha” approach with women and sometimes you can also sense their inexperience or insecurities masked under it. Example: a young but tall for his age gym goer who may seem self absorbed, or shallow and think that this behavior is attractive to the lady. Or he at least hopes so, and if things go poop, then he thinks she’s messed up maybe, and has a hard time dealing. Then possibly pushes further into the behavior and ideology. While a portion of his likeminded peers of the same demographic will learn and eventually figure out force, and selfishness, isn’t going to win her heart, interest, or respect. No *well minded* lady would take a lad serious like that.

[Rosexøxø]

I don't know if I made it clear, but basically guys may try to shame males from being nice to ladies, so that they lose a chance with her.

The smart guys pass the natural selection, and the ones who fall for it… they don’t pass lol 😂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

And what is that natural selection what are it's attributes?

[Rosexøxø]

Attribute? Intelligence 😂 in wild nature, usually the weaker and ones who make poor decisions don’t last very long.

The young guys who are learning and maybe also, had once believed women liked the “harsh treatment” and being rough or overly cocky. Plain rude etc. calloused guys. If they have a mind to learn and passion for women and I don't know maybe some good guys in their life. Mentors. Peers. They’ll learn how they should be social with women. Not play for play or being a robot. But understanding the social etiquette with women vs the social etiquette with men.

I feel like socializing for humans is the equivalent of birds and plumage or cattle and horns. If they are well groomed in socializing and fair treatment, they have the better chance and upper hand to “reproduce” or bond with a life long partner. The guys who don’t pick the cues up and come out the gate hard headed have lower chances to pair up with a lady. It may not be a 0% chance (I’m not sure of the chances), but it’ll definitely be low.

[Rosexøxø]

Feel free to disagree with me… 👐

That’s just my theory on it the whole matter. I think ash made a good claim.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

This alpha beta theta omega crap is only good in Mathematics and physics

Also in my opinion even if a woman gets listening still the guys will be ditched as there is no fun.

The real thing is the balance of power between a man and a woman
Who has more control whose word is the last word.

But also it should feel like power that one's opinion took precedence over the other with little challenge or it wouldn't feel like a win or something missing.

Also there are some things that men can do better and if they don't do it they will be ditched The woman wouldn't take responsibility or ownership even in partnership.

It's just how it is, relationships are like see saw you know someone has to go down to put someone on top of you stay in balance there is no thrill then it becomes a plank between legs🤣.

[Rosexøxø]

I agree I’m not a fan of these labels, but it is a creative way to further categorize and break things down into visual/ conceivable concepts. Understanding people and the different levels of potential for humans and human interaction. I disagree with the power. If someone needs that for stimulation then they are not taking care of themselves to begin with or healthy. No one should force that on others or make the other person the only source for happiness. It just wouldn’t be the healthiest optimal outcome.

If people just view the world and relationships through a lens of power dynamics they will be unsatisfied in the beauty of simplistic bonded relationships. They will only be satisfied if they can somehow force the theme of power onto that or those relationships and have the appearances of power reflect off of it/them. That’s not a happy idea. Id never recommend that and I just really don’t think it’s the norm. It’s possible that selfish or narcissistic people would want that. Even non-narcissists who are just spoiled or lack being considerate. Either way narcissism and selfishness is not meant for relationships. It’s better suited for a word of some kind of dynamic exchange or interaction. It’s calloused and transactional in its own way. Instead of gold digging its power pushing/diving/expressing. Etc etc.

I’m less of a fan of that than the actual words alpha beta defining terms for men and women in their social circles and links.

[Rosexøxø]

And one thing I must note for myself is there is a difference between a striving for the upper hand in a power dynamic struggle and then trying to establish respect and self regard within a relationship. I can’t speak for all women, but for myself I have never tried to control anyone or the outcomes between us. It is just simply ensuring they don’t control me and the intentions are fair. Simple.

That is all

[BCRanger10]

These days? That all things considered, men are more intelligent, more virtuous, more honorable, do make and have made better contributions to society, and just generally better than the silly little princesses complaining about them would have us think.

[NathanDavis]

same...

Aaron Rodgers... overrated AF, lmao...

[Simslover92]

That a lot of men are actually emotionally deep but society trains them to bury it so well that they even start to believe that it's not there.

[Rosexøxø]

Yeah this is a good one. I like this one 💯💯

[Simslover92]

Thanks!

[andreasderjuengere]

Perhaps... ''most men who believe they are men, are not''?

[Sevenpointfive]

always bet on the white one. it's a sure bet!

[Rosexøxø]

What the… fuh…. 😐 😶

[Sevenpointfive]

@Rosexøxø

[Rosexøxø]

lol you’re silly 🤪 😂

[Rosexøxø]

What film is that I want to see it now lmao

[Sevenpointfive]

@Rosexøxø the joke is from a wesley snipes movie. i'm not even sure i saw it, but the quote is hilarious! the gif is from the movie 'Beerfest'. that's a funny one.

[Rosexøxø]

I’m gonna check it out. Thanks 😂💯

[Shiprex]

Taller men aren't better at protecting than shorter men.

[msc545]

My unpopular opinion is that too many men are simps when it comes to women.

[HelpfulGirlll]

@msc545 my opinion layered is unpopular among people who share your opinion: simping isn't correlated with testosterone level

[msc545]

@HelpfulGirlll I am unsure how testosterone levels would have anything to do with it at all really. Is the common argument in favor of it being too low or too high or? This is the first I have heard of this.

[DrPepper12]

They rarely know when to stop with the tattoos.