Don't Keep Initiating contact with Him. Okay? (Page 3)

[meatballs21]

HAI GUISE I FOUND A QUOTE MEME ON MAH FACEBOOK SO I FIGGER ID POSTS IT

Don't give try to give advice you aren't qualified to give. Make him do all the chasing, all the time, and he'll figure you aren't that interested in him.

[AlwaysInHell]

This can potentially be horrible advice because some guys just aren't big into text. I had a guy who hardly texted me, but treats me like a damn platinum queen in person! I'd have lost a great relationship if I listened to this. The guy did text me when it was needed tho.

[Anonymous]

What happens if he has the same mindset about you? And you both play this stupid game of chicken until you die?

[myTake Owner]

surely if I was text you often I expect you to repay me the favour. That is why a lot of girls contemplate on texting in the first place because girls love to chat... that isn't a guy thing and that is known but effort needs to be equal

[Grace_Rdz]

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[abundantlyrich]

Lol u mean keep it short like:

Haha ok lol

Yeah lol

Ok haha lol

Only airheads say that

[abundantlyrich]

Playing mind games won't get the girl anywhere

[Maxemeister]

For once I actually agree. For both boys and girls, if u want to keep them interested, let them make move #1

[karahiri]

i think there is some truth to this. for -some- guys, this can motivate them to be more proactive and show interest.

[giggleswilmington]

and reciprocate it with what will be understood as a lack of interest and he's moving on

[Kirah]

Yeah I agree with the previous commenter, intentionally ignoring someone will just make them think you're not interested.

[chriss]

it depends on the guy i would never behave like that. we all have different personalities

[myTake Owner]

very good

[takumii]

"He takes a girl for granted when she's constantly there" True.

But he also shows middle finger to the girl who is never there.

[myTake Owner]

maybe the girl who is never there was fed up

[takumii]

OR
maybe the it was the one that read your take and never showed enough interest in the guy.

[myTake Owner]

nope my take didn't say anything about not showing interest. try again

[takumii]

"Don't text him." "keep it to a minimum." "Leave and don't look back!"
What I have learnt from the experience living on EARTH, those are signs of not showing interest.
So someone else needs to try again.. like.. you!

[myTake Owner]

"I'm not saying you shouldn't text him at all" how you take that is none of my business. :)

[takumii]

That is not showing interest at all.. Anyone would text back ! I don't know what you are trying to prove.

[Suhmer]

"my experience from living on EARTH" HAHAHA omg :')

[WeeGeeTheSecond]

My god... people like you are the reason the dating world is hell

[asiag299]

exactly -_-

[DivaPrincess]

Not for nothing but if I had kept on texting more than a few guys I would still be talking/texting to myself. Just sayin, just sayin.

[PTE2015]

So obviously each situation is different, and you have to make a judgement call based on each person.

[DivaPrincess]

@PTE2015 if a guy isn't answering my texts it is time to move on. Judgement based on the person is not needed unless the person died or was abducted by aliens. If he doesn't respond he simply isn't into you. Just sayin.

[Anonymous]

So you're going to make us think you're not interested and then wonder why we don't pursue you. Good logic...

[desidoll]

I always do this because I don't want him to see me as despo. It doesn't mean I am not interested.

[nightskycat]

@desidoll If you do it for a long enough time, then the guy just starts thinking your not interested.

[desidoll]

@nightskycat: I'll try to initiate the contact after this then!

[lonerider]

@desidoll What you think and what he sees are two different things

[Anonymous]

This goes to both girls and guys, why did you write it just to girls? And you shouldn't keep it to a minimum, if you both keep it to a minimum things aren't going to go very well, you need to both find a balance

[myTake Owner]

yes balance is good. not one sided

[Mysterio421]

What the hell is this? This is just a mind game. Just text him.

[Deft_maiden]

A) Here is testament to why take to have to be long to appear credible!
B) couldn't agree more

[Deft_maiden]

Takes don't have to be long**

[Anonymous]

I question most of the answers in this thread that the guys gave because the guys in my real life told me a different story, including my dad, my brother my ex and my significant other.

[Opinion Owner]

my brother, my ex

[Opinion Owner]

Anyway, I think balance is the greatest virtue and that includes texting. All relationships should always be in win-win situations.

[Anonymous]

this. if a guy doesn't text you back he isn't an idiot. he knows you're alive and waiting for a response. you just need to wait until he misses your company and texts you back.

[Azara]

i dont think she's only talking about texting back. i think she's saying leave everything up to the guy and wait.

[Opinion Owner]

hmmm oh alright sorry i read this when i was tired. also ^^^ downvoters need to jerk off.

[art_of_sin]

I agree with you in some aspects, though not all guys are willing to take the initiative.

[Anonymous]

Women come up with any excuse in the book to justify doing nothing. If you're texting literally every single time and doesn't text first then that's when you have a problem.

[myTake Owner]

that's. exactly my point. some women don't get that being the intiator every point of the conversation is not a good scene

[HighlanderTheOne]

You just got the Suicide License. You can use it whenever you want.