We don't have to be slut-shamed while having as much sex as we like. It's tougher for women to be sexually promiscuous, because they seem less trustworthy and easy. It's sucks, I know.
2. We don't have to worry about taking care of kids
We're not the nurturing gender, so we don't have to worry about "waaa waaa" all day all night.
3. We have much more freedom than women
No babies, no worries!
4. We're male!
We have muscles, we're predominant
5. The world is our urinal
We can pee wherever we like without any embarrassment.
6. We're guys
Want non-dramatic and tension free convos, be friends with a guy, we're better than girls in the conversation area. Being friends with girls means drama drama drama and more drama.
So guy, what you do like about yourself the most?
So girls, what would you like most of you were a guy?
"We're males!" He says twice. I'd just like being able to walk around shirtless + pee anywhere if I was a guy.
But I must counter some of the things you said. 1. Women get slut shamed but guys get shamed for being players by women, we're just better at hiding it. 2. Not every female wants kids, sometimes the way they're more nurturing is for animals rather than babies. 3. See #2. 4. Girls can have muscles too. 5. Lol it's not like we're "embarrassed" to pee in public, I've done it before and I don't care. It's more of the squatting that causes problems for girls to pee outside. and 6. Guys may have less tension in conversation but girls also connect easier and listen better to girls. Not all girls are drama.
I don't know, I'm independent. I put "males" and guys" the same thing because it's for a reason. Relax! If there was an adjustment section like normal questions then I will explain why did I put that.
We think hoes ain't loyal and trashy. There are some women out there that would accept sexual promiscuity in men. We're not too worry about finding a woman. Another thing, women love masculinity and hotness in guys right? The more the guy gets laid, the more women will flock to him, the more he does it repeatedly, the better chance he'll find a girl to stay with.
• Complains about "drama drama drama" from GIRLS' conversational skills • Proceeds to write 8 -- count 'em, EIGHT -- unanswered responses to 1 post from a girl
— "We can be sexually promiscuous" So can women. What society dictates you to do ≠ what you can or can't do.
— "We don't have to be slut-shamed while having as much sex as we like." I'm sure no man in the world has ever been criticised of being promiscuous. Might be correct for the majority, but you're talking about being "a guy", not "the average guy".
— "We don't have to worry about taking care of kids. We're not the nurturing gender, so we don't have to worry about "waaa waaa" all day all night." Since when does nurturing have a gender? Are you going to let your partner do everything for you when you have children? What a load of sexist bullshit.
— "We have much more freedom than women. No babies, no worries!" This is basically restating the second point. You clearly haven't had children yet. Although you shouldn't expect to ever have children, because why would a woman date you knowing that if she has children, she'll be the one looking after them all day long?
— "We're male!" "I love being a guy because I'm a guy!" No logic, no explanation, nothing.
— "We have muscles, we're predominant" Women also have muscles. And "predominant" is way too ambiguous to really mean anything.
— "The world is our urinal" Or you could just go to a fucking toilet.
— "We can pee wherever we like without any embarrassment." Since when does your sex or gender dictate what you get embarrassed by? I'm sure many guys get embarrassed when they use "the world" as "[their] urinal". That is too personal to be a reason to "love being a guy".
— "We're guys" Here we go again with the restating! Have you actually thought about this list? Did you want to have six points before you decided what they'd be about?
— "Want non-dramatic and tension free convos, be friends with a guy, we're better than girls in the conversation area." Then how come I have non-dramatic and tension free convos with girls all the time?
— "Being friends with girls means drama drama drama and more drama." You clearly aren't friends with many girls, then. That group is a loud minority. It's the one you get to see in films and on tv and such, but many girls really aren't like this at all. Besides, many men are dramatic too. You probably can't understand that, as you think you're representative for every man on the planet, but shocker, it's true.
Girls can't be sexually promiscuous because no guy will accept them. Think in the long run. In the short run, can be great but what happens if her "marriage clock" runs out and she needs a partner to marry asap. No guy will accept the girl in long term because she's trashy and easy. A girl's goal is to get married and no one will want to marry her because of her promiscuity. So that runs into place.
We're definitely guys, we have muscles and stuff. Girls nowadays are trying to level up to men, l by applying to male type jobs like firefighter, police officer and/or paramedics. A woman is weak in the particular area because she doesn't have strength, whereas we guys have strength (muscles) and can be successful at any type of job we choose.
We have the freedom to do what we choose, girls are nurturers by nature. We have limited nurturing experience as fathers. Kids are annoying as hell sure we were one but let's get to the point. We have the freedom to choose to stay or leave and that's makes us great.
We're guys, yes you can say again because it's another point that I was making. Drama is annoying, who likes drama? We guys aren't emotional creatures so we don't have to share emotional and stuff. We can relax and have fun being guys!
First of all, you cannot possibly put all girls into the same sack. It's really disrespectful. A girl can be promiscuous BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO. Not because no one wants her. Most of you would bang a wall If you got the chance, so that's something you should take into consideration. Secondly, what does strength have to do with a job? I don't want to be a firefighter, and that does not mean I am weak. I am smart, independent, and don't need muscles to be predominant (I can't even believe you think like that). Um, babies are a combo of BOY/GIRL, so yeah, you kind of are in the mix while having one. And a girl can just as well decide she doesn't want it, so that's not something just you are capable of doing. If I don't want a baby, I'm not getting a baby and you can or cannot be okay with it. There is so many things wrong with your thinking that I don't even know how to continue. Oh yeah, I am the LEAST dramatic person you're going to meet. I am rational and so are my friends
So basically, If you still believe what you say is normal I would NOT consider having a girlfriend, getting a family or even trying to make friends, because that is bound to go wrong. Things such as respect for woman, babies (which are miracles, not annoying problems), EQUALITY and such mean nothing to you and that's ok, but don't even try to defend your opinion because you are SO wrong it is just pathetic.
@smartie95 want me to capitalize shit because you can read lower case. Ok, you may be the least dramatic person but how about girl friendships. YOU MAKING FRIENDS WITH OTHER GIRLS. Because I am a guy, you can be less dramatic, guys necessarily put less drama except if it's in a relationship. GIRLS LOVE DRAMA! But I've seen girl friendships gone sour because of overdramatize situations and one girl cried because of that situation. It's sucks to be friends with girls. YOU GIRLS ARE EMOTIONAL CREATURES!
That's very, very debatable that you're calling yourself "smart"
The sitauation maybe pathetic here because of your stupidity. Call yourself smart, PFFT! you maybe independent but smart? don't make me laugh.
Are you serious? I have not misunderstood a word, I have told you things as they are and you have serious problem you should look into. SO CALM DOWN and shut up because I am number one in my class, and studying something you probably wouldn't even be able to understand yourself. So don't make ME laugh, I don't give a fuck about your muscles and seriously, when you are miserable and alone because no woman will ever be able to stand you remember that everybody here told you you were an asshole and you didn't listen. Forget it, good luck with your life
@smartie95 omg, this girl is so stupid. I am a player, I can approach women with ease. I minupalate women. Good luck finding a husband because just remember no one likes a slut!
I AM NOT A SLUT, sooooooooo you are wrong there. As far as I'm concerned I DON'T GET PAID and neither does anyone on here just for having sex. WE. DON'T. GET. PAID, so we can do WHAT THE FUCK WE WANT and get over it.
1. Women being able to have full freedom to be sexual human beings and free from social prejudices, thankfully, that's changing gradually. But yes, men can benefit from that. 2. Men can definitely be the "nurturing type" and in relationships are expected to take care of kids. When my sister or I were sick or scared at night it was always our Dad who would get up and take care of us. And women are not always nurturing. My brother wanted kids much more than my sister-in-law and is currently much more engaged and present with my nephews than she is. 3. Guys are responsible for any children they have, if they don't step up to it they are terrible people. Men also have to think about and consider contraception 4. Not all men are built the same. I've had some female friends that could definitely beat up or at least hold their own with some of my male friends if they went at it. 5. Yeah I'm genuinely envious of that. It would be really convenient and nice, especially when camping. Squatting up against a tree is not a fun experience. 6. My guy friends were the most dramatic friend group I've ever been in, and even more so than my all girl friend group in middle school. This one guy started to see one of my girl friends while still in a relationship, causing drama. My (girl) friend had rejected his advances until he was either single or told him he had to stop. He broke up with his high school sweetheart and then she started to talk to one of our other guy friends WHO THEN PURSUED her causing drama. The four guys then started to intentionally piss off one of our other guy friends and drove him away. In my experience too, any tense conversations I've ever had with guys started because they turn the conversation sexual and awkward.
Seriously though, these are such huge generalizations and both genders are capable of being dramatic, nurture, child-rearing, physically strong, and sexually promiscuous.
This is my other account and some bitch just reported for being antagonistic and offensive. Anyways, yeah women can sexually promiscuous but guys are ACTUALLY REPELLING AWAY from them because they're untrustworthy. We want a girl who is loyal and stable and not a filthy skank who opens her legs to any guy she please. I think i just vomited in my mouth.
I'm back! Yeah, don't you see that girls are crying on here because their bfs are leaving them for being sexually promiscuous. I would leave too if my girl is like that, it's just disgusting. For the second part, we don't even know how to raise a kid, that's why girls comes into place. Third, well the society accepts freedom after child birth in men but not in women, why? Because like I said, they're the child bearing gender by nature. Anyways, I have to get to class, I'll explain the rest to you later.
@mcmuffin34 Just because a girl has casual sex doesn't mean she couldn't be in a monogamous relationship. The two aren't correlated, that's a false and untrue misinterpretation. It also doesn't mean her legs are open all the time, but she SHOULD have the choice of being with any guy she wants. If girls are cheating WHILE being in a relationship, then yeah, they deserve to be left by their S/O. But if the boyfriend is leaving because she has slept with other guys in her lifetime then he's got unreasonable expectations and they probably aren't compatible. Explain your definition of promiscuity. I mean it's a subjective term, but I don't give the term much weight. Instead, I place more value on individual freedom for both men and women sexually. It is not the business of either s/o to know and judge unless their partner freely gives up the information. In which case, that's an individual's choice on whether or not they should accept it. What I find troubling is your very vocal and outward 1/2
@mcmuffin34 (2/2) disdain for women who have any casual sex at all. And I just don't think it's your place to say anything on it unless it endangers you or someone close to you, or happens within your own relationship. No new parent knows how to raise children, male or female. We aren't programed to know exactly what to do, some stuff comes naturally, but it's mostly a learning experience. I know this from my older half-siblings, cousins, and parents. My dad had been married prior and he and my mom had me, he taught her how to parent and knew what to expect from a newborn, which my mom didn't know. Again, it's a learning experience for both parents and the parents need some type of plan for how they want to raise their kid. Being able to parent a child comes down to personal traits and abilities, that either men or women can have. My cousin had been a lawyer but is now a stay at home dad because he has it in him to spend hours each day with his daughter while his wife would (cont'd)
@mcmuffin34 (cont'd) prefer to work. She doesn't have it in her to be a full-time parent, and he does. It doesn't have to do with gender but personal traits, goals, and values. So I disagree with you that that's why women come in to place. Women as a gender have other value than just pushing out the kiddos. I'm a bit confused by what you meant with your third point. I don't think society entirely accepts men disappearing after childbirth. Legally, there are ways they are bound and morally society does not condone it. But yes, the absent deadbeat dad does exist for far too many people and children. It's not acceptable or a great aspect of being a guy.
@chasokilledthedinos ok your first question, I define promiscuity as the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual pleasure. What I was saying about my third point is that always the mother gets custody when it comes to children but it doesn't always mean deadbeat dad. The mother Just has to raise to the kid until he's wise enough to stay with the mother or live with the father. Father can pay child support while under the custody of the mother but custody wise, the mother always takes the children.
Do you notice that they're is only one like on this post but the rest of the posts have 2-5 likes. It's because girls like to watch/read about guys getting hurt, humiliated, abused, disgraced, reviled, ridiculed, etc! I mean, it's my fault that white guys treated girls like dog crap generations ago. Why are they doing stuff that I haven't done in the first place?
This is so dumb I don't even know where to start, fortunately I'm pretty sure it's a troll post. In any case I'm bored so:
"We can be sexually promiscuous"
No. Legal repercussions if you have a child, rape accusations, and potential for STD's
"We don't have to worry about taking care of kids."
Courts and thus child support would beg to differ.
"We have much more freedom than women."
Lol in the western world no. Citation needed.
"We have muscles, we're predominant"
Women have muscles too. Also "predominant"? Predominant with respect to what? Predominant is a comparison modifier, in that it is used in relation to another entity. That's like saying, "I am more better." ? Lacks context.
"We can pee wherever we like without any embarrassment."
Laws against public urination. So no.
"Want non-dramatic and tension free convos, be friends with a guy, we're better than girls in the conversation area."
These are some weird unsubstantiated generalizations... not to mention guys aren't known to be competitive and aggressive? I'm a bit confused.
1) Bullshit, girls will still look at you disgusted if you're a promiscuous man xD
2) If you don't have to worry about kids, then don't have them. Women that don't want kids don't care either. If you want to be a father, you have to worry just like a mother, the only plus is no pregnancy.
3) No babies = freedom? Again, bullshit. If you've always wanted kids, you won't see them as a burden.
4) -_- so those body building women don't have muscle? Anyone can have muscles if they want, though yeah, men have an advantage, but still women can be muscular too.
5) I agree on this one xD
6) I'm a dram-free guy, and still prefer female friends... xD
From all the things you could have chosen, you chose these ones... -_-
Dude, I don't care, I am not the one that's looking for a relationship. Girls want relationships, I can sleep with how many girls I like. l don't have a marriage clock like all girls which means I can sleep with girls till I am 50. I don't care what you say man, I am unstable and a fuckboy and I sure damn proud of it. 😊
You absolutely have to take care of kids if you have them and there is no 'nurturing gender'. Human beings simply have the facility to nurture though many choose not to.
I live in the united states. men have no rights acknowledged under law that women lack.
Anyone who works out has muscles. Most guys sit in front of computers all day.
you can not pee anywhere, its illegal.
Guys are extremely melodramatic... Thats why Women had to fight for so long Even now, Women have been recognized as full human beings for over a century and guys are still whining about it.
We don't have to worry about menstral cycles and cramps because we don't have ovaries! We don't have to worry about hurting the baby because we don't have a uterus. We don't have mammary glands and we won't be used for staring! We don't have to wear pads when we get old!
This is such a pro gender stereotype post. Of course what you say it true, but something you have is good because someone else doesn´t have it is not right.
Anyway, all those statements can be answered:
1. If you are not promiscous, you are a looser. 2. If you actually like taking care of them, and you do, you will be seen as weak or too emotional. 3. Totally not true, your baby, your responsability. 4. Not all men do, so again, if a man doesn´t comply this, he is a looser. 5. Only low class non educated men do that without embarrassment. 6. If you want to be dramatic, you are weak, non heterosexual or too stupid.
anyone that would write #2 needs to never ever have children. sorry, but a real man takes care of his kids. Women do that hardest part for 9 months. The man should take care of the rest after that.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
+1 y
I like being large and strong. I like being low maintenance. I like men's clothes. I like being cool under fire. I like enjoying conflict. I like not having to worry about my looks. Then of course there are all the things which I like better than the alternative of being a girl, such as menstrual cramps and pregnancy.
I'm not offended. I wasn't answering with gender wars in mind so much as just trying to give a guy's POV that was maybe a bit more considered than the OP's. I mean I don't particularly get a lot out of being able to piss outdoors more easily.
1. Yeah but we will wear those insults as a badge of honour. You girls take too damn seriously when It comes to being insulted. "Slut this", "slut that", lyou're a slut" and the next thing you'll know is you'll start going bezerk.
3. Well it's true
4. We can be successful too with brains, look at Indian men. But strength wise, you girls will never make full potential.
@mcmuffin34 That's kind of sad if you wear those as a badge. Just know if dudes reject dating a chick for sleeping with a certain amount of dudes. Chicks will do the same back to men that do it as well.
That's a lie because dudes have their own personal problems to worry about.
Women can gain muscle too and at the same rate as males. It's just that men start off with more base stat when it comes to muscles.
This is my third account by the way because thots keep on trying to report me which is very irrelevant. You girls have bisexual acceptance now let us take sexual promiscuity to ourselves you filthy Thot.
1. So can they.. Its nothing ti brag about 2. you're going to be an awful father with that attitude. 3. Depends on where you live but same shit in the US
1. Umm I can brag about my sexually promiscuous girl (if I had a stable relationship) to my boys and my other girls "I am dating a Thot" . surely she won't get liked by my guy and my girl friends. 2. Ahh who cares you only live once. 3. It's the same shit to anywhere in the Western Hemisphere.
I would love to be a guy for a day, just so I could see what it was like.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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1. I probably won't be, though. 2. I probably will, though. 3. See above. 4. Not all of us (case in point: me) 5. I'd be so horribly embarrassed, I could never do something like that. 6. I've been called a "Drama King".
So, I... Eh... A lot of the things you've mentioned here don't/won't really apply to me personally. Or all of them, really.
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