I'm going to be honest and say I don't agree with what's become of feminism. I'll respect opinions but as soon as you try and turn me into some kind of servant or want me to change or do things I ordinarily wouldn't- that's where I draw the line. I wouldn't say I'm manly... but I do get my surges of aggression and such. As far as the bedroom goes... I make it known what I'm good at and have no problem proving it. I'll never give in to this feminist crap, trust me.
The feminists I know are the sluttiest and dirtiest in bed. I am not sure you are talking about the right issues and where they come from. Men being pussies has nothing to do with feminism, it has to do with insecurities.
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Yeah, i was definitely brought up in the implicitly 'treat women better than yourself' and 'sex is mainly about focusing on her clit and you probably have an incidental orgasm on the way therefor sex was great for you too'.
We still have plenty of guys around who are selfish assholes.
What we are, and have been for decades, doing a bad job of, is teaching basically good, nice boys to be good, confident and capable -men-.
i am a feminist. i treat women as equals... treating a woman like a queen isn't treating them as equals...
and i am a manly man... whatever that means
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No, I treat women EQUALLY. And by that I mean THE SAME AS MEN. So I'm not constantly worrying about women any more than I am about men. Unless I'm attracted to her, but I like partners who fill the masculine role in the relationship; and that's not feminism's fault (and wouldn't be, considering), it's mine.
that´s right xD feminism should go where it belongs: to muslim/arabic/asian countries, where women are actually supressed and need to fight for equal rights.
@Goldenn-Rose how can you possibly assume that all the women in those countries are perfectly ok with being opressed, raped, having no rights, having their genitalia mutilated or even being straight up lynched for stuff that every women is free to do in our society? yes that doesn´t happen in every of those countries but i´m not talking about those where it doesn´t happen. you must be a real misogynist...
i´m not talking about the obligation to wear a burka or accepting polygamy here... that´s religious and totally ok if you´re into it.
A lot of the notions you're referring to are so vague.. "Oppressed" - how are they oppressed? "Having no rights" - which rights are you referring to? Women have rights in every country today, they just differ from country to country,
oppressed by being forced to have female circumcision. forced to be a virgin at marriage (while guys are not). the strong patriarchic structures we surpassed are still present in those countries.
No what is killing us are women kicking us when we are trying to flirt/ ask them out. Seriously a no would do just fine why do you women enjoy twisting the knife into us?
I think I wrote that pretty clearly that I did make it clear what my desires are, yet many men are reluctant to do so, because they consider it to be disrespectful. I think this is hilarious, because this means they are the ones deciding for me what is respectful and what is not.
well, as long as you tell them explicitly that is fine then. keep in mind that these men have to be careful of women that would scream harassment or some such, so it is not necessarily a good idea for them to just assume the woman wants rough sex.
I'm not saying they should do it to every woman, but I've already heard many women complain about this. Of course you need consent, but even with consent most men are afraid to by the feminazi's.
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I'm going to be honest and say I don't agree with what's become of feminism. I'll respect opinions but as soon as you try and turn me into some kind of servant or want me to change or do things I ordinarily wouldn't- that's where I draw the line. I wouldn't say I'm manly... but I do get my surges of aggression and such. As far as the bedroom goes... I make it known what I'm good at and have no problem proving it. I'll never give in to this feminist crap, trust me.
all get what they want... they do not always like it.
women are finding this the hard way
The feminists I know are the sluttiest and dirtiest in bed. I am not sure you are talking about the right issues and where they come from. Men being pussies has nothing to do with feminism, it has to do with insecurities.
Yeah, i was definitely brought up in the implicitly 'treat women better than yourself' and 'sex is mainly about focusing on her clit and you probably have an incidental orgasm on the way therefor sex was great for you too'.
We still have plenty of guys around who are selfish assholes.
What we are, and have been for decades, doing a bad job of, is teaching basically good, nice boys to be good, confident and capable -men-.
i am a feminist. i treat women as equals... treating a woman like a queen isn't treating them as equals...
and i am a manly man... whatever that means
No, I treat women EQUALLY. And by that I mean THE SAME AS MEN. So I'm not constantly worrying about women any more than I am about men. Unless I'm attracted to her, but I like partners who fill the masculine role in the relationship; and that's not feminism's fault (and wouldn't be, considering), it's mine.
that´s right xD feminism should go where it belongs: to muslim/arabic/asian countries, where women are actually supressed and need to fight for equal rights.
What if they don't want equal rights? Why do you, as a Western man, feel the need to decide in their place?
@Goldenn-Rose Exactly!
@Goldenn-Rose how can you possibly assume that all the women in those countries are perfectly ok with being opressed, raped, having no rights, having their genitalia mutilated or even being straight up lynched for stuff that every women is free to do in our society? yes that doesn´t happen in every of those countries but i´m not talking about those where it doesn´t happen. you must be a real misogynist...
i´m not talking about the obligation to wear a burka or accepting polygamy here... that´s religious and totally ok if you´re into it.
A lot of the notions you're referring to are so vague..
"Oppressed" - how are they oppressed?
"Having no rights" - which rights are you referring to? Women have rights in every country today, they just differ from country to country,
i´m speaking about the classic right to vote, to drive a car or to choose their partner freely instead of being given away for money.
oppressed by being forced to have female circumcision. forced to be a virgin at marriage (while guys are not). the strong patriarchic structures we surpassed are still present in those countries.
First off, your'e not Dutch with turkish origins. You're just a Turk.
No what is killing us are women kicking us when we are trying to flirt/ ask them out. Seriously a no would do just fine why do you women enjoy twisting the knife into us?
have you tried vocalising your desire about how you want to be treated?
I agree though about feminism. this is yet another reason why it's better to be equalitarian.
I think I wrote that pretty clearly that I did make it clear what my desires are, yet many men are reluctant to do so, because they consider it to be disrespectful. I think this is hilarious, because this means they are the ones deciding for me what is respectful and what is not.
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well, as long as you tell them explicitly that is fine then. keep in mind that these men have to be careful of women that would scream harassment or some such, so it is not necessarily a good idea for them to just assume the woman wants rough sex.
I'm not saying they should do it to every woman, but I've already heard many women complain about this. Of course you need consent, but even with consent most men are afraid to by the feminazi's.
Yes, yes, yes, YES !
Everything I have been saying for years !
Chances are feminism has nothing to do with this. All men are different and treat women differently. Ever hear of "chivalry?"
Chivalry is considered old-fashioned and was around long before feminism became popular.
Feminism is not killing manly men. They just pretend to be less manly to get what they want. Under the surface we're still what we are.
Than how come they don't show it even when you ask them?
How does one show manliness on the spot do you mean? Break a log in two? Crush a stone with our bare fists?
Thats impressive for a girl to think this way dear...
If you can't find a man you'd like, don't blame men or feminism for it.
Hou just can't find a man you get along with.
Yeah no, men are 'afraid' to be 'manly' due to insecurities. It's hard to be confident and assertive when you get shut down all the time.
Loveeee this solo much, finally someone who understands
Wow gag promotes any mytake these days
It's called freedom of speech, which feminists hate.
@Careless_Whisper what does my post have to do with feminism. I never said I was a feminist
yawn
@Careless_Whisper if you tired then why did you reply?
yawn!!!
@Careless_Whisper pathetic
Now you are just spamming
Grow up
I'm done with you
yawn!!! :)
Feminism is killing nobody. Men are just spineless.
Funny, since that didn't seem to be a problem 100 years ago. So who made them spineless?
It was a problem 100 years ago. The only difference is, that's when women were the property of men.
@MasterofPlebs Buddy, God made you male for a reason and that reason is to fight with us! Now shut and put on your big boy pants, you baby!
up*****
@Stanley23 God didn't create me, my parents did. I have no intention to fight for any reason. There's no good reason to fight.
Dude that was the best comeback ever!
"killing mainly men"?
Huh?
Where are the corpses?