6 Things Guys Do That REALLY Piss Women Off!

[TheDocleo]

There are countless of things each gender does that annoys the crap out of the other gender. Here's my take on the top 6 things that piss women off and make them pull their hair out:

1- When they give conversation-killing answers

Example: You tell them, "this really amusing thing happened today, etc etc," and they say "Haha"

Guys "hahas" and "okays" are mild killers. If you're interested enough to initiate conversations with us please talk about something!

2- When they are insensitive in certain situations

Whether it's about you having a fight with your best friend/family or your dog dying they act insensitive and tell you the situation isn't serious enough for them to sympathize with you or let you vent.

3- When they care too much about their looks

Going on shopping sprees and fretting about their appearance too much? No, guys should act like guys; shopping sprees and hairsprays are women things, so please be more manly.

4- When they don't stand up for you in front of people.

This one doesn't need an explanation.

5- When they don't compliment you

WOMEN LOVE COMPLIMENTS! PLEASE COMPLIMENT US MORE!

6- When they fail to take CHARGE

Want to take us out? Take us out. DECIDE on a place and ask us to come. Want us to do something; well, ask us to do it. Be assertive!

[SleepingSnorlax]

1. Some guys are just like that, i give one word answers all the time and if you dont know me well enough to know that and not get offended you shouldn't be dating me in the first place

2. Girls create dumb drama all the time. Yes you get into a fight with your best friend i prob won't care too much but ill still enterain you and act like i do... woman fight
If your dog dies then no one is going to say "this isn't serious enough for me to sympathize with you" theyll say sorry and all the typical stuff but what are you excpecting? Them to send you monthly checks? Lol

3. Holly shit the sexist double standards are real... this actually made me scroll up and check you're age

4. I agree with you and ill say its the same for women

5. We shouldn't have to compliment you guys 24/7
Us going a day without complimenting you doesn't mean we stopped loving you... some women are way too needy 🤔

6. we take charge 6 months down the line we will here "we never gi where i want to go!" So we ask you guys even if we know you won't answer 99% of the time

I dont like this my take... but to each their own

[TheDocleo]

Haha I like your opinion but this is advice for you if you're trying to date her or already dating her ;)

[SleepingSnorlax]

No way man she's gotta love me for who i am just like i want to love her for who she is

[Unit1]

You nailed it :)

[TheDocleo]

That's certainly a nice way to go about it :)
I wrote this for people who want to make an effort to get a girl to date them:)

[Book_Lover17]

Women do a lot of these things, and I bet it frustrates men too. For instance number one and three. I think women actually say things like "yeah" or "okays" in conversation a lot more then men do. Just to end it, or because they don't have a good reply, or they know they're wrong. As for number three, how many women do you know that never stop worrying about how they look?

[Anonymous]

Wulp guess I dating the sexiest guy alive then. My girlfriend lol. Because she displays all these behaviors.

1. I stopped ever initiating with her because, if I have send a random text that I found amusing for the day (which is seriously very rare) she usually seems uniterested with her replys. The in left feeling like I bothered her for the day. Though I always respond with the upmost enthusiasm with anything she sends. And it's a lot, from t swift to dogs or make up.

2. Same applies here, anything an everything that's bothers her. From the annoying boss at work to, her mom or step dad being irritating. Friend being jerks or whatever. Most of this is reoccurring to, but every time I'm right there listening. Trying my best to sympathize and advise if she wants it. And if I can't I try to look up what to do, or get someone who can reach her in a way I can't if I'm lacking at the moment.

But with her. I could be dying and I'm sure snapchat would be more important. 😔.

3. This is just... I mean... I wanna lol good. But I still maintain my manliness. This again fits more of a girl or my gfs personality.

4. Well I do this. I'm pretty irrational when it comes to being protective over her. So no problems there mate. And I'll give my girlfriend, that. She will go on the defensive in public for me. (Sometimes overkill) but eh. I appreciate that a lot.

5. i use to. And still d occasionally l. But I rather tend to try not to no. As I feel like I'm doing something wrong when I compliment her. It turns more into a "why" sort of situation than a thank you. Or I don't know, because it's me, maybe the compliments have loss there value or power when I give them to her. So I feel like not saying anything.

6. This one right here is BS. Not really! But it's girl based. As in it depends on the girl. Because, I can choose a place all decisively and it will get "why here". Or I've already Ben there with "douche". I get asking makes me look less of man on the female eyes or asking makes me seem like I can't make a decision... but like wtf? Because it becomes a game of deciding where to go and getting a rejection to that place. Only to go someplace SHE had in mind all along.

Good take overall. Makes sense. But this definitely applies to girls to mate.

[Junlian]

No. 1 - though guys may give one reply answer. 7 of my female friends on fb including girlfriend (complicated) give short ended responses. They are not good at texting. I got tons of proof.

No. 2 - if deem the situation necessary to worry over then we will. Until then, why put ourselves in a spot where don't need to be. I could have gotten a raise from my job, my sister could had a wedding and helped a homeless man but then a girl slides in with a violin. No. Hell no. I'll solve it but won't ponder the same topic.

No 3. Instagram, Facebook, Twitter... Guys don't fish for attention tinder, kik, twitch. Need I say more. Girls think they look ugly and they don't. Girls think there fat and there not. Guys on this site talk about there penis size and looks out of cockiness or insecurity but nowhere to want the world opinion about the same topic.

No. 4 - women has this tendency to think that gentle man should sacrifice himself for a woman and do what it take to be a man in her eyes. The guy could have a fire arm, the girl could be in the wrong, who knows. I'd say or do something if the girl learn to shut her trap and walk away.

No. 5 - been there done it. They fakely smile, ask me why I compliment them, they say everyone says that, thinks people are creeps when they do get complimented, play hard to get, and more. It happen to me 30/250 that women can't really positively handle compliments ( in public I guess)

No. 6 - well being assertive is not easy. Though I wouldn't mind it but then you have cater to useless opinions about places you want to take them. And some people who's coming out of there shell without a doubt will make the wrong decisions.

I total this take is about males doing things that some women dislike so I can't argue but in my opinion this basically is for women.

[TheDocleo]

That was an excellent rebuttal 👌
But this was just an inside of a common woman's mind to let you guys know what pisses most of us off generally :)

[TheTruthHurtsImSorry]

All of these are stupid except 3.
1. what do you expect him to say? If you're talking about something boring or an event we weren't involved in there really is nothing to say.

2. You contradict yourself. In 3 you tell men to be more manly, then you cry about him not being sensitive. Get a grip and make up your mind.

4. If you do or say something stupid a man doesn't have to stand up for you. I won't defend something I don't agree with.

5. And when he compliments you too much you cry that he's too easy, soft, and/or he's just saying it/doesn't mean it.

6. This one is annoying as hell. When I ask a woman where she wants to go she'll say she doesn't care. Then when we get there she turns around and complains as if I didn't ask her where she didn't want to go beforehand. No one can read your minds. If a man took you to Chuck E. Cheeses you'd be thrown off. Or if he took you to McDonald's for dinner you'd feel like a cheap date. How about you women speak up and say what's on your mind and where you want to go or are thinking about going.

Women just like contradiction. I sewar.

[SinisterS]

1) We usually filter what we are going to tell you and what we won't maybe we are impressed with new feature they added to reaver called pixiedust or maybe we have problem making new wifi card work under linux and do pocket injection... now imagine if we do same thing you do and talk about this ignoring fact its not even slightest interesting to you. Some of things you are just hehe or ok cos what can we say about it...
2) Well some of us dont think death and fight is big problem when we are in same situation we dont make fuss... so what was on my best friends funeral with 15 was on few other friends funeral, had lots of fights with my best friends some even had nose broken and things like that so what just some argument is nothing its not like we are insensitive but we are not your female friends we work differently but if something is hurting you it does pain us to see you like that... But we are not really all that touchy feely...
4) Its hard to know when we should let you be strong and when we should protect or sometimes if we should be just one of thous idiots that protect girl that make problems on purpose...
5) Well compliments usually ether backfire or do us no good but compliments that mix in insult are great thing... After all you tend to find insult even in normal compliments for example your working out and we tell you you look better you hear it "you didn't look good before you started to work out".
6) You are man you should do this that... when we chose then its we are insensitive , despots, inconsiderate even if we actually take lots of time trying to think of what would be nice for you...
Twist it turn it its never good enough, twist it turn it all depends on your emotional state sometimes bad things are good or ok sometimes best things are bad and not good enough...

[genericname85]

1: so you want us to straight up tell you to shut up, cause you´re annoying or would you rather have those short conversation killers as a more "kind" hint towards our desinterest? :P

2: we are humans. we make mistakes.

3: what "guy" does that? xD

4: so much for the strong independend woman... take charge for yourself. you killed our chivalery with your "equality" and "sexual harrassment" bs and that´s what you get :P

5: if you give compliments all the time you will end up unbelievable or unauthentic. giving compliments very rarely makes them more special ;)

6: it´s not so easy, if your counterpart is always bitching and moaning like: "ugh i don´t wanna go there yet again" and "man i really am not in the mood for that place"xD

[ManOnFire]

- I think No.6 is really the only good thing you said in this.
- Never heard of No.1 so I don't really know what to think of it.
- No.2 isn't uncommon, no. Though for me I often experience women not - taking what I think or how I feel seriously, and I get sick of them wanting to tell me "it's a non-issue" just because it doesn't matter to them.
- No.3 is hard for me to take seriously, cuz we all know that's a lot more common with women.
- No.4 might be true, though it could be because guys hate drama and hate getting caught up in that stuff. We're not interested in a public display of disagreement.
- No.5 is weird. It seems to be that if a guy DOES compliment a woman she either takes it as a come-on or doesn't want to be told she looks good just because she doesn't think she's good looking.

[WillowTree]

Agree, though number 3 is situational. I had to work alongside a metro-sexual male before and I grew to strongly dislike him for his constant hangup on looks. Looks, looks, looks, diet, work out, protein shakes, looks, looks, looks, looks. Barf, gag, #turnoff

[TheDocleo]

It's such a turnoff but guys here are like "women do that too" 😂

[AleDeEurope]

Makes sense, though I'm guessing you're referring to when you're in a relationship, since complimenting, taking charge, or standing up for a girl who's just a friend doesn't seem right.

But yeah, I agree with all these, even though I sometimes do care too much about my looks. I don't go on shopping sprees, but I do like to look my best when I go out :P

[TheDocleo]

Haha yeah this is dating advice

[lumos]

You don't stand up for your friends? Wow.

[AleDeEurope]

@lumos I didn't mean it like that. I do stand up for my friends, but when you have a girlfriend you have to do it even if she's on the wrong, but if it's a friend, you don't really have an obligation to stand up for them if they're in the wrong (unless it's like a fight).
Defending a friend on an argument because they acted like an asshole isn't something I'm gonna do, cause you should take responsibility for your actions. But if it's a girlfriend, then I would stand up for her.

I don't know if you're getting what I'm trying to say.

[lumos]

Who said anything about standing up for them when they're in the wrong?

[AleDeEurope]

@lumos no one. I'm just saying that as a friend, you don't really have the obligation to stand up for them in every situation as you do for your girl.
You assumed I never stand up for my friends.

[lumos]

I assumed that you never stand up to your female friends, because you literally said that standing up for a female friend isn't right.

[AleDeEurope]

@lumos I know it does sound bad, after re-reading that I see the confusion, but I didn't mean it like that.

[Pacificblue62]

After reading this I've decided I need to be more angry at minute, insignificant things. If I see a lady walking down the street and she doesn't say hello to me I am entitled to be pissed off. If a woman doesn't answer my question properly or seems disinterested in my conversation I should to be ticked off. If it's obvious a woman spent all day getting ready and putting makeup on its natural for me to be annoyed. Or if a girl jokingly teases me along with a few other people I deserve to be angry. She should be supporting me not teasing me. Thanks this was quite inspirational.

[TheDocleo]

Lol this is dating advice

[Pacificblue62]

Lol in that case no girlfriend of mine should give one word answers, care too much about her looks, or fail to compliment me. Like I said very inspirational.

[TheDocleo]

If you're interested enough to pursue her and keep her these things are helpful but not golden rules sent by God 😂
To each his own :)

[Pacificblue62]

Hah well of course. Still wouldn't mind trying them out just for kicks

[feminismisnarcissism]

uh no @TheDocleo this is advice for puppydogs, simps, white knights... enjoy them cuz you won't get any real men :)

[TheDevilInside]

What annoys me most is when guys cannot be direct and leaves us girls guessing. You are not babies and we are not your mothers. If you have no interest, grow up a pair and fucking say "sorry, not interested" using real words like a real man! Ignoring or just sporadically replying is for pussies.

[TheDocleo]

Nailed it girllll

[Browneye57]

I hate tell you, but guys are different than girls. I know, the FI tells you we are all the same, but we're not.

I could rebut every point, but not going to bother. You still have a lot of learning to do about the differences.

One thing for sure, women talk and men do. Women utter some 20K-+ words a day and men less than 5K. That's a big difference right there.

And no, they're not going to keep complimenting you, your head is way too big already. MOST women way over-rate their SMV, their talent, their beauty, and what they bring to a relationship. Consider working on that instead.

[ParamountArmada]

#1 haha, some guys are shy and not good at socializing, were not like girls were we gotta gossip about everything, get used to it.
#2 girls always go for the jerk types plus what else are we supposed to do? besides comfort you of course.
#3 dont go for "pretty boys" then you won't have that problem.
#4 were not going to fight your fights you picked
#5 girls never care about being complimented and dont respond to it right. so why should a guy bother, we guys dont get compliments.
#6 the common thing girls think that guys have to do everything and it doesn't work like that. get over it.

[YourName123]

Take ti from an older experienced guy, this list is spot on

I am not very good at # 1 and # 2, but I know this and try to improve.

I am very good at 3-6 and I think younger men need to learn this. the 20-30 something men who have had feminist ideas thrown at them in youth have been trained specifically to be neutered, submissive balless wonders. It is going to be an uphill battle for you with this group.

[TheDocleo]

Guys don't understand the difference between being men and being boys just like girls don't understand that all the feminism thing that they have going on actually goes against them

[haiiro]

I'll do all these things if I find a woman that can put just as much effort into my selfish needs as well.

[YourName123]

@haiiro Yeah, that is a real problem. Schools and the media have really taught them the wrong things in the past 20 years or so. It is no wonder so many successful young men are not interested in marriage.

No fault of the young ladies, but the media has taught too many of them to have long list of demands and be unwilling to take part in any traditional female activities because then they are being "controlled". then if things don't go well it's never their fault, it's the system or sexism.

[SomeGuy37]

All are pretty obvious, I think, if you take the time to listen and try to understand how she feels, and don't just think what you would normally, as a guy!!
I you care about her, you need to understand how she feels, and even anticipate her responses to things like those she posted, when they happen.

[Anonymous]

i'm beginning to see these takes that seem to want men from older generations, you see women thought that feminism would come and men would remain the same... well look at that... men changed to be more feminine... so suck it up girls or f off. We are not changing... act like women and we will go back to acting like me.

I never ask women out, women are starting to ask me out... hahah... now we can have sex and dump them... how the tables have turned

[TheDocleo]

What's the whole point of feminism if you lose your femininity and don't let man be a man?

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly, feminism destroyed everything between the genders

[TheDocleo]

Feminism shouldn't be about switching roles that's wrong

[Opinion Owner]

I agree, we need more women like you :)

[Anonymous]

#4 doesn't always mean that we provoked anyone... It could also be standing up for us when we're not there. Don't be the boyfriend who lets someone else insult your girlfriend in your presence. And #5 is a bit tricky... We're not asking for daily praises, but if you notice a little more effort out of your girlfriend to look more beautiful/sexy for you, tell her! too many compliments can come off as fake and when you do randomly compliment us, it makes us feel like you're still attracted to us after so long. 😊 And of course, this is a 2 way street.

[Nuala]

I don't really mind 3... I mean if he's constantly talking about his looks that gets annoying, but just liking shopping and doing his hair I don't mind.

[TheDocleo]

Constantly fretting about his looks and clothes is what I mean precisely :p

[Dragonblood21]

"Want to take us out? Take us out. DECIDE on a place and ask us to come. Want us to do something; well, ask us to do it. Be assertive!"

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[Anonymous]

You know a guy version of this is coming very soon. Someone won't be able to help themselves

[TheDocleo]

HAHA let it come , we'll learn something
Because this is strictly for dating education purpose :p

[Opinion Owner]

I don't mind not being complimented. It shouldn't be expected. I don't mind one word answers.
What really annoys me is when you ask a guy something, and he answers, but instead of looking at you when he does, he addresses the guy friend you're with instead of you. That person didn't even say anything, but it's suddenly their conversation. There is a guy I know who does this all the time and it's really fucking rude.
He Ignore me if he wants, but then he don't have to answer in the first place.

[TheDocleo]

They often do this , they have issues talking to you in front of their friends when they're not "at that place " with you or when they like you too much
But it's annoying as hell

[Opinion Owner]

Ha! 😉
Oh really? See I learned something from you then! It works! Let the guy one commence! 😊

[Opinion Owner]

The guy I'm talking about isn't someone I'm dating. We just have mutual friends

[TheDocleo]

Then maybe he's just shy in public or he could be into you ;)

[Opinion Owner]

He's very shy. I think it's just with women though. He's absolutely fine around other guys.

He definitely isn't into me. I'm often next to him in the line in our Starbucks, and it's amazing how interested in his phone he suddenly becomes for that whole time.
Again , it's absolutely fine if he doesn't like me, but he always has to make it blindingly obvious.
There is shy and there's rude and it's all wearing a little thin now.
My self esteem doesn't do very well out of this guy ;)

[TheDocleo]

You know what they say about guys who go out of the way to ignore you , he could really be into you but just do whatever you like

[QuestionMan]

My issue is with 6.
How the hell am I supposed to know where to go or what to do?

[TheDocleo]

Going somewhere is just an example to prove my point
Think of a great place you heard about or have been to and take her there and of she likes a certain cuisine keep that in mind so it's a win win for both of you

[QuestionMan]

I'm a very indecisive person so something like that is difficult for me. Either I don't know a good place or don't know which one to go to.

[TheDocleo]

Taking a decision is sexy

[QuestionMan]

Why can't women take charge once in a while of where to go?
It would be a huge weight off my shoulders.

[TheDocleo]

Once in a whike they should you're right

[BuchitaBuchys]

You're smart enough to figure it out

[QuestionMan]

@BuchitaBuchys Thanks for the vote of confidence but I'm serious I have no clue.

[redeyemindtricks]

The ideal situation is one in which you simply incorporate the girl into *your* normal life. Don't you have any places where YOU want to go? Bring her along!

If having a girlfriend/wife means you suddenly have a completely new and different set of Places You Go and Things You Do... you are doing life wrong.

[QuestionMan]

@redeyemindtricks Sometimes but there's no guarantee that they'll be fun since I've never been there.

[nice-girl]

Completely agree with redeyemindtricks.