I've heard it all, and it's all so irrelevant to the point where it just passes through me at this point.
Can we talk about equal opportunity, and less about men and women's positions and outdated social behaviors, to the point of putting ourselves in an ingroup?
God this is amazing stuff! Well done! I literally experienced this chivalry stuff on a date 4 days ago. She was bitching because a guy walked her to her car. LIke really? Does she ever get a goodbye kiss?
Wow.. a gentlemen exists still and we laugh in his face. That's pretty sad. It's pretty foreign for us women though. My ex was a door opener and I was surprised. Lol. It's lost on us because we just have this "I can do it on my own" independent attitude. Independence is an illusion. No one is fully independent.
The woman I was on a date with said that opening the door and walking her to the car was a sexist act from a patriarchal society. She said the act portrayed women as weak and not able to care for themselves. I told her i do the same for everyone. she's insane.
It's seen as "archaic" because women have scared men off from having the simple courtesy of being polite. Then they wonder were are the chivalry is? I'm sorry she didn't appreciate your old school baked. Your mama taught you well:-)
Agreed. So many people focus on the stay at home mom and how it's like having 2.5 jobs which it totally is.. but no one talks about how gut wrenching it is for fathers to go to work everyday and miss out on everything. With my ex, I didn't introduce our son to any new foods or new activities unless he was home. Be a team!
interesting mytake. I agree with most of what youve written here.
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More like how men have let women down (generally speaking, of course)! Some men are shady b*tches, too. What's your point? Are you sure you're not a man? You're writing the way I'd expect a guy to write.
Point No.1 You've gone to extreme cases to make a point. 2 Both partners need to work today to keep a roof over their heads and food on the table. Childminders get the best bits of a child growing up. 3 Employees don't get paid what they're worth. They get as little as a company can get away with. Women do come second in the pay stakes. 4 Pure bullshit. 5 Women do listen, many wish their men would talk more. Feminism and what equal rights women have are all down to women, not men. Trying to give credit to men for the rights women have fought for is crazy, it's not the truth, it's unrealistic.
That's your opinion and I respect it. This article was based on several other males perspectives. Your inaccurate in the history of feminism. My professor actually told me of how male supporters of women's rights were killed and humiliated for supporting women's rights. I'm just saying that women bash men's rights when a group of men fought hard for our rights and said "yes let's make them equal." It's to shed a light mainly on radical feminism.
If family law and the court system are seen as biased and prejudiced against men, then it's the fault of the system, not women. I'm sure during the infancy of the women's rights movement there were men who supported it. I can understand the derision they suffered, but i never have heard of any being killed. You would want to post citations and links to back up such a statement. Get your professor to provide them.
A lot of girls here share your views, but the majority of women are still in a "women versus men" state of mind. I won't even mention those crazy hysterical feminazis bitches, they're on another level of bigotry.
@cykasenpai Are you talking about the media site called "Men going their own way"? I was just wondering what the comment was referring to. Me a chameleon or men? I guess I need more coffee this morning lol
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I've heard it all, and it's all so irrelevant to the point where it just passes through me at this point.
Can we talk about equal opportunity, and less about men and women's positions and outdated social behaviors, to the point of putting ourselves in an ingroup?
God this is amazing stuff! Well done! I literally experienced this chivalry stuff on a date 4 days ago. She was bitching because a guy walked her to her car. LIke really? Does she ever get a goodbye kiss?
Wow.. a gentlemen exists still and we laugh in his face. That's pretty sad. It's pretty foreign for us women though. My ex was a door opener and I was surprised. Lol. It's lost on us because we just have this "I can do it on my own" independent attitude. Independence is an illusion. No one is fully independent.
The woman I was on a date with said that opening the door and walking her to the car was a sexist act from a patriarchal society. She said the act portrayed women as weak and not able to care for themselves. I told her i do the same for everyone. she's insane.
It's seen as "archaic" because women have scared men off from having the simple courtesy of being polite. Then they wonder were are the chivalry is? I'm sorry she didn't appreciate your old school baked. Your mama taught you well:-)
Your mytake is 100% accurate from the beginning to the end. A++++ mytake.
I'm happy to hear that. Thank you.
You're very welcome and thank you for posting it!
I learned a lot from this, thanks for sharing. I'm a new woman.
Very good Take. Particularly when it comes to the familial matters, we should all remember that we're part of a team, and not competitors.
Agreed. So many people focus on the stay at home mom and how it's like having 2.5 jobs which it totally is.. but no one talks about how gut wrenching it is for fathers to go to work everyday and miss out on everything. With my ex, I didn't introduce our son to any new foods or new activities unless he was home. Be a team!
Accurate, refreshing and intelligent. Thank you for this MyTake.
Can we vote Lish89 for GAG President?
Totally agree
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Thanks ladies. But I just want women and men to BOTH get their shit together lol. Thanks for the compliment though. Made my day😁
You are so welcome!!!
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None of this really applies to me or my life.
Umm... good take?
interesting mytake. I agree with most of what youve written here.
More like how men have let women down (generally speaking, of course)!
Some men are shady b*tches, too. What's your point?
Are you sure you're not a man? You're writing the way I'd expect a guy to write.
Great Take by the Nicest lady of GAG!!!
a new way to look at things... right
A well written take, but i have to say i don't agree with the content at all.
What didn't you agree with? Your male so I'm curious:-)
Point No.1 You've gone to extreme cases to make a point.
2 Both partners need to work today to keep a roof over their heads and food on the table. Childminders get the best bits of a child growing up.
3 Employees don't get paid what they're worth. They get as little as a company can get away with. Women do come second in the pay stakes.
4 Pure bullshit.
5 Women do listen, many wish their men would talk more.
Feminism and what equal rights women have are all down to women, not men. Trying to give credit to men for the rights women have fought for is crazy, it's not the truth, it's unrealistic.
That's your opinion and I respect it. This article was based on several other males perspectives.
Your inaccurate in the history of feminism. My professor actually told me of how male supporters of women's rights were killed and humiliated for supporting women's rights. I'm just saying that women bash men's rights when a group of men fought hard for our rights and said "yes let's make them equal." It's to shed a light mainly on radical feminism.
This guy needs a court date in a family court to put him in touch with the reality.
@ThisAndThat
Haha I've witnessed seven of those court dates. They fucking trash dads man!
If family law and the court system are seen as biased and prejudiced against men, then it's the fault of the system, not women.
I'm sure during the infancy of the women's rights movement there were men who supported it. I can understand the derision they suffered, but i never have heard of any being killed. You would want to post citations and links to back up such a statement. Get your professor to provide them.
... a well known philosopher, psychology major, father and logician
so he broke up with you? 🤔
No I ended things with him. But my relationship status isn't really relevant to this take.
GOSPEL TRUTH!!! But prepare to be attacked by the women here.
I'm ready baby!!!😂
You won't be listened, at least by most of your fellow women.
I am hoping that's not true..
A lot of girls here share your views, but the majority of women are still in a "women versus men" state of mind.
I won't even mention those crazy hysterical feminazis bitches, they're on another level of bigotry.
Sad but true. You also have the "I understand" people who really just say that because it's what you want to hear.
What is the word I am looking for here...
oh yes,
Chameleon
Define? Lol. I'm missing something here lol
It is probably awkward MGTOW stuff. Man leave that behind on Youtube.
@cykasenpai
Are you talking about the media site called "Men going their own way"?
I was just wondering what the comment was referring to. Me a chameleon or men? I guess I need more coffee this morning lol
I also encourage women to read any one of Josette Sona's free ebooks. It definitely opened my eyes, especially concerning men.
I couldn't agree more. This is why activists should stop.
When they make a big deal about it , they always fail. They failed in the suffrage movement because they had marches.
Smart people don't play games that are designed against them.
Ohh I like that.