It could be posted by a guy. It's the kind of thing I'd expect a guy to write. Because I don't think the majority of things written in this MyTake are true.
A lot of women don't hate men. They hate what men do. For example, men started acting like they were the strong ones in society and "the foundation of a home" so they could have the power, so they could act like the boss in a home, in society. If men want the power, it comes with the responsibility of being strong. Because to have the power, we have to be strong. The problem is; a lot of men have power but they're not strong enough to handle it so they often make wrong decisions, wrong choices, which causes pain to everyone, including women and children. Men are just like every other human but too many men don't act like it. They take power and think they're "entitled" somehow.
@Littlewife , " There's a lot of man hate out there " I agree , and that is an understatement !! As a single dad , I am so glad my 2 are older and do not need me to take them to activities , the amount of hostility from mothers , assuming I am a pervert / pedo / sex predator for the " crime " of being male , was all too common. That treatment influences men to be cold and distant to women.
You don't need to put too much thought into anything you don't want to.. But obviously in some twisted way you want to put that much thought into somethin you claim you don't..
There was no question asked in the first place.. Just this take, and puttin down misconceptions about dudes.. Which shouldn't be misconceptions in the first place.. But you decided to come here, and read the take, and make the comment.. So yeah.. Maybe you feel like you don't, but obviously somethin in you was curious enough to come and see what was bein said.
Because men often don't say what they mean and mean what they say. Men will often say what's in his best interest, what's to his advantage to say, not necessarily what he means. For example, a guy will often ask a girl out to dinner. He doesn't say he wants to have sex with her afterwards but that's often his intention (which is why he often takes her out to a restaurant and suggests wine before eating. Even the waiters, usually guys, are in on it. He knows that drinking wine on an empty stomach will go straight to her brain and she'll be more inclined to have sex with him later!) So the woman feels deceived. That's why we put so much thought into men and how they interact with others.
I don't believe you Guys only care about looks. You can be the dumbest person in the world, as long as you look like a model, smile and be obedient, they still tolerate you These are their values
Looks fade but too many guys don't stay with a woman if her looks fade. He'll move onto another woman who is younger and prettier. But you can be guaranteed he wouldn't like it if his wife/girlfriend left him after his looks started to fade. He wants true love from her but is he willing to give true love to her? Some do, but too many guys don't.
@bailey11 well-said. At last a guy that doesn't have a problem with admitting the truth.. See all the downvotes from guys? Guys only want to be the boss. They can do anything they like and don't like anyone questioning their behavior
and then they find themselves all alone, masturbating to someone they're chatting online with because women are finally getting smart enough to know they don't have to put up with a guys' crap. and good for them!
Guys need to start acting like decent human beings or they're gonna find themselves all alone. Just sayin'.
Lol I can't even get mad at you. You're fucking 22. Hardly any experience. The type of woman you described above bores the ever loving shit out me. Leave the pin up poster boards for the type of men not looking for substance. I'd rather have a woman who has it together and doesn't hold a shitty worldview on how they think the opposite gender is. That type of woman is an unrefined one to say the least.
All of your 10 misconceptions are absolutely 100% true to the core, sorry to break it to you. The men on here agreeing with you are understanding y our post backwards I believe
Unfortunately 50% of women laughs at men who shows feelings. 50% of women says dick size matter so don't say they don't only want sex. 50% of women over analyze everything men do asking questions like "what does he mean" "He called me cute. What does it mean?" "He looked at me. What does he mean?" <-- "That means you're a potato" as if you're so damn confusing if that is what you think so before you blame 50% of guys, why don't you start with your own gender next time?
@Aiko_E_Lara I had a girlfriend who ended the relationship because I showed emotion in front of her. We spoke about it like adults and she confessed to feeling disgusted by my emotions even thought she would always tell me to be more emotional.
@HitGirl_007 And what about you? Do you think most of what you said are true? Saying something because you can without any empirical data to back that up. I can do the same thing and?
@Aiko_E_Lara Do you know 50% of women? If not, how can you make that statement without losing credibility? What you described can apply to men just as much as women. Ultimately, it depends on the individual, not the gender.
@Aiko_E_Lara Pointing the finger at someone else doesn't take away from what we do. We're responsible for our own actions. If someone points out what we've done wrong and we respond by saying: "Oh, but but but what about the other guy?" that doesn't wash. Nobody I know buys that.
@Aiko_E_Lara I donât need to have data to back up âmy opinionâ âmy thoughtsâ âmy feelingsâ âmy experiencesâ
Did you read âmyâ
Itâs not about stats, data, technical information. People can base their opinion and feelings on their own personal experiences. The life they have lived and the things they have seen and done within that life.
That is what counts to me and my opinion and how I base how I feel on certain things. I can therefore share my feelings and my experiences with others who may not have shared those same ones.
It opens peoples minds, it keeps people aware and mindful of experiences different to their own that one day they may face too and then may be able to relate to in the future!!
And who even knows may help them at that time on the future!
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Wow , wish most Girls thought like you do
Most do, just not online
It could be posted by a guy. It's the kind of thing I'd expect a guy to write. Because I don't think the majority of things written in this MyTake are true.
Good take. There's a lot of man hate out there
A lot of women don't hate men. They hate what men do. For example, men started acting like they were the strong ones in society and "the foundation of a home" so they could have the power, so they could act like the boss in a home, in society. If men want the power, it comes with the responsibility of being strong. Because to have the power, we have to be strong. The problem is; a lot of men have power but they're not strong enough to handle it so they often make wrong decisions, wrong choices, which causes pain to everyone, including women and children.
Men are just like every other human but too many men don't act like it. They take power and think they're "entitled" somehow.
@bailey11 there's plenty of bad women out there.
@Littlewife , " There's a lot of man hate out there " I agree , and that is an understatement !! As a single dad , I am so glad my 2 are older and do not need me to take them to activities , the amount of hostility from mothers , assuming I am a pervert / pedo / sex predator for the " crime " of being male , was all too common. That treatment influences men to be cold and distant to women.
@FatherJack I agree with that.
There aren't bad men and bad women. There are people who do good and bad things.
Awesome and much needed piece! Thanks😊
Why do we need to put this much thought into men in the first place.. there are far better things in this world to focus on albeit more interesting
You don't need to put too much thought into anything you don't want to.. But obviously in some twisted way you want to put that much thought into somethin you claim you don't..
@JDavid25 im not the one that asked the question so no i dont
There was no question asked in the first place.. Just this take, and puttin down misconceptions about dudes.. Which shouldn't be misconceptions in the first place.. But you decided to come here, and read the take, and make the comment.. So yeah.. Maybe you feel like you don't, but obviously somethin in you was curious enough to come and see what was bein said.
Because men often don't say what they mean and mean what they say. Men will often say what's in his best interest, what's to his advantage to say, not necessarily what he means. For example, a guy will often ask a girl out to dinner. He doesn't say he wants to have sex with her afterwards but that's often his intention (which is why he often takes her out to a restaurant and suggests wine before eating. Even the waiters, usually guys, are in on it. He knows that drinking wine on an empty stomach will go straight to her brain and she'll be more inclined to have sex with him later!) So the woman feels deceived. That's why we put so much thought into men and how they interact with others.
A lot of these depend on the guy some of these are true and some aren't
I don't believe you
Guys only care about looks. You can be the dumbest person in the world, as long as you look like a model, smile and be obedient, they still tolerate you
These are their values
I don't think so...
Looks fade but too many guys don't stay with a woman if her looks fade. He'll move onto another woman who is younger and prettier. But you can be guaranteed he wouldn't like it if his wife/girlfriend left him after his looks started to fade. He wants true love from her but is he willing to give true love to her? Some do, but too many guys don't.
@bailey11 well-said. At last a guy that doesn't have a problem with admitting the truth..
See all the downvotes from guys? Guys only want to be the boss. They can do anything they like and don't like anyone questioning their behavior
and then they find themselves all alone, masturbating to someone they're chatting online with because women are finally getting smart enough to know they don't have to put up with a guys' crap. and good for them!
Guys need to start acting like decent human beings or they're gonna find themselves all alone. Just sayin'.
Lol I can't even get mad at you. You're fucking 22. Hardly any experience. The type of woman you described above bores the ever loving shit out me. Leave the pin up poster boards for the type of men not looking for substance. I'd rather have a woman who has it together and doesn't hold a shitty worldview on how they think the opposite gender is. That type of woman is an unrefined one to say the least.
@Dbwkdncnf who asked you or care about your ideal type of women?
All of your 10 misconceptions are absolutely 100% true to the core, sorry to break it to you. The men on here agreeing with you are understanding y our post backwards I believe
This is actually all pretty accurate
Agree, nice job you did there
Nice to see a women being able to recognize this.
That was an interesting read
Its about right, good mytake
Last but not least:
Guys can be bitchy too.
Agree with pretty much every title.
Great post!
Thank you! This is an ancient post đ€Ł
Not sure how I came across it but I enjoyed reading it. đ
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racist against men! this is why i im single forever ! work and war we can do without women
I loved this.
Thanks for sharing😇
Unfortunately this prob only applies to 50% of men
Unfortunately 50% of women laughs at men who shows feelings. 50% of women says dick size matter so don't say they don't only want sex. 50% of women over analyze everything men do asking questions like "what does he mean" "He called me cute. What does it mean?" "He looked at me. What does he mean?" <-- "That means you're a potato" as if you're so damn confusing if that is what you think so before you blame 50% of guys, why don't you start with your own gender next time?
*As if we're so damn confusing.
Wow just wow how about not being so cynical dude! Most of what you said is untrue if you choose a ârealâ girl!!
@Aiko_E_Lara I had a girlfriend who ended the relationship because I showed emotion in front of her. We spoke about it like adults and she confessed to feeling disgusted by my emotions even thought she would always tell me to be more emotional.
@Lloyd1985 That double standards right there. Girls lie as much.
@HitGirl_007 And what about you? Do you think most of what you said are true? Saying something because you can without any empirical data to back that up. I can do the same thing and?
@Aiko_E_Lara Do you know 50% of women? If not, how can you make that statement without losing credibility? What you described can apply to men just as much as women. Ultimately, it depends on the individual, not the gender.
@bailey11 Actually doing exactly what she did. Why don't you ask her if she knows 50% of men?
@Aiko_E_Lara Pointing the finger at someone else doesn't take away from what we do. We're responsible for our own actions.
If someone points out what we've done wrong and we respond by saying: "Oh, but but but what about the other guy?" that doesn't wash. Nobody I know buys that.
@Aiko_E_Lara I donât need to have data to back up âmy opinionâ âmy thoughtsâ âmy feelingsâ âmy experiencesâ
Did you read âmyâ
Itâs not about stats, data, technical information. People can base their opinion and feelings on their own personal experiences. The life they have lived and the things they have seen and done within that life.
That is what counts to me and my opinion and how I base how I feel on certain things. I can therefore share my feelings and my experiences with others who may not have shared those same ones.
It opens peoples minds, it keeps people aware and mindful of experiences different to their own that one day they may face too and then may be able to relate to in the future!!
And who even knows may help them at that time on the future!
Good Mytake. It was satisfactory to read.
I agree!