First I want to say that this is just a view on this. It's not intended to cause riots, and after I post it I am not debating with anybody who comments or replies. It's just something to consider. Also, I realize this post might be deleted, and I'm cool with that, but it's not for anybody specific, and it's more or less just to help the guys out by telling them what they're missing.
I'll start by saying that we women love confidence, and all of us have completely different standards. Some are gold-diggers, but not all. Some are very picky about his looks, but not all. Some prefer an intellectual guy, but not all. You get the idea.
This is why so many of you guys on here DO have reason to vent the way you do. We like confidence, and you don't have it.
The guys on here are so unconfident in themselves it's pitiful. If someone posts about feminism (no, I'm not a feminist), the guys on here go crazy. If a girl posts about the kind of man she likes, all the other guys go insane and call her racist, gold-digger, or whatever it is that excludes them. If she says they don't meet standards, God help them because it's gonna be WW3. It doesn't matter what is posted, basically the guys on here in general go insane if they are excluded from meeting any kind of standards. Just so you know, everybody of both genders has completely different standards.
Whatever happened to being content with yourself, loving yourself for who you are, and not being offended by every little thing that isn't in your favor?
Do you think I have the same issue? Nope. For example, I prefer white men and ethnically I am Hispanic. Not all white men like Hispanic women. (Actually, I think most prefer their own.) But you'll never see me on here fussing at a white man saying he has bad taste or venting at him or any of that. That would show insecurity on my part, especially since there are plenty who do like us. This is just an example (and I used it because I am commonly asked about this on here). The same issue can be applied to other examples that have to do with preference.
So I'm really just throwing it out there that I think one reason a lot of the guys on here have reason to vent so much about not being desired is that you lack so much self-esteem and you're so insecure. Obviously I'm not talking about every individual, but I think most do have this problem. And this is only one single issue; it's not the only one that could be posted about issues on here. Plenty can be posted about both genders.