Please, dont give up on life. I have felt suicidical thoughts as well (they laster very short), but they went away whenever i did something i enjoyed to do.
So a tip for you and other people: maybe get a new hobby, or do things you enjoy to do.
Also, you can never read the future, who knows who you might encounter tomorrow? Maybe you'll find your best friend next week? Maybe you will find tour futures wife/husband nest month?
Dont give up! You never know what crosses your path!
I told myself a long time ago that if I ever felt like commiting suicide that I would have a place far away to go to and do something completley different. For me, I would leave everthing here because if I was to commit suicide, I would have left everything anyway. I would head to Arizona and just kick around, meet people, explore, camp in the desert... Do whatever I wanted, there is freedom in that mindset.
I understand your feelings, I had them too, long ago. Now I'm happy and I'm so since I met my wife in 1967. We were both 19-20 then.
If I had committed suicide when I felt like you, I'd never have lived all those years of real happiness.
By the way, my wife too has had moments, months she felt down. When she was 14, I wasn't there to help her out. Her friends and her mom did. When she was 25, i was there.
My message in this: it's not because you feel this way now, these months that you'll feel that way for the rest of your life... UNLESS you terminate it yourself; the you'll die being unhappy without all the happiness you got coming for the next 40 or 60 years (or longer). THat would be a bad deal thus, the worst.
@prettykangaroos I think it's more the people in this weird little community that changed. the site only made minor (somewhat annoying) aesthetic changes.
The best advice I can give you is to travel. Fell in love with ttravelling 4 years ago and I travel alone. Maybe you ll like it too you ll meet a lot of people good and bad but the experience is priceless... Just try it out... there are a lot of gud things to live for bro and dying is never an option
it doesn't fix the issue though. travelling and meeting new people is great but we all need a few lasting good relationships, not ton of "single serving friendships."
Ima if i can't find @thechica. She's the only one that can save meh from this dark lonely place we called Hell. Ur the Angel that God probably send from heaven down to earth to save meh and look after meh. I'll continue fighting til the day I finally met ma Angel 🙏👼
@thechica u like what song? I think u send meh the wrong link to the song ;P But have u heard of this one? Im hoping that u did! - https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=L5bLvVjJ4MA
@thechica ur correct ma Chica. Ur ma only hope that God has given meh. Im waiting til the day ma Angel lift meh up and show meh the path towards a bright future 😇 that is why im saying that I'll continue on fighting til the day I met ma ma Luvly Angel aka thechica 🙈😛
@thechica I have a realy funny voice tbh lol! But im glad u like it ma Chica. Means ma voice is 10 times HAWTER so tankyu :") The song told meh to intiate a text or call on u so don't blame meh ;P
I'm glad I'm not the only one. I had written in my diary about plans to kill myself. But I have another option, that being not letting bipolar take me. I have to survive for those in my life, ultimately for my younger brother.
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we definitely all have our own crosses to bare. Just hang in there
I suffer from GAD, I get that low at times. My anxiety prevents me from having a normal life, focusing in school and succeeding in my own business. I have faith in God but I am in therapy and practice meditation. It is good to have a dream, find something you are passionate about to give a purpose.
@bubble_tea I ain't shaming athiests. Did I turn and say "don't believe in God become athiest!" no I didn't. I'm completely fine with him believing in God if it's keeping him alive is all I'm going to say from this point.
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Please, dont give up on life. I have felt suicidical thoughts as well (they laster very short), but they went away whenever i did something i enjoyed to do.
So a tip for you and other people: maybe get a new hobby, or do things you enjoy to do.
Also, you can never read the future, who knows who you might encounter tomorrow? Maybe you'll find your best friend next week? Maybe you will find tour futures wife/husband nest month?
Dont give up! You never know what crosses your path!
I told myself a long time ago that if I ever felt like commiting suicide that I would have a place far away to go to and do something completley different. For me, I would leave everthing here because if I was to commit suicide, I would have left everything anyway. I would head to Arizona and just kick around, meet people, explore, camp in the desert... Do whatever I wanted, there is freedom in that mindset.
I understand your feelings, I had them too, long ago.
Now I'm happy and I'm so since I met my wife in 1967. We were both 19-20 then.
If I had committed suicide when I felt like you, I'd never have lived all those years of real happiness.
By the way, my wife too has had moments, months she felt down. When she was 14, I wasn't there to help her out. Her friends and her mom did.
When she was 25, i was there.
My message in this: it's not because you feel this way now, these months that you'll feel that way for the rest of your life... UNLESS you terminate it yourself; the you'll die being unhappy without all the happiness you got coming for the next 40 or 60 years (or longer). THat would be a bad deal thus, the worst.
I use G@G to raise my spirits everyday. It takes away my loneliness.
same here. although, it usn't helping as much anymore.
@thewanderingme I agree! I haven't been logging on as much. And when I do, I'm not as active. I feel like it's changed
@prettykangaroos I think it's more the people in this weird little community that changed. the site only made minor (somewhat annoying) aesthetic changes.
@thewanderingme yeah, the people aren't as tight knit anymore.
The best advice I can give you is to travel. Fell in love with ttravelling 4 years ago and I travel alone. Maybe you ll like it too you ll meet a lot of people good and bad but the experience is priceless... Just try it out... there are a lot of gud things to live for bro and dying is never an option
it doesn't fix the issue though. travelling and meeting new people is great but we all need a few lasting good relationships, not ton of "single serving friendships."
I thought that it ll at least help him recover from depression... And maybe that's what he needs right now
it'll merely take his mind of it for a while. as soon as the trip is over and he goes back to his regular life, it will come back. possibly worse.
Fine.
"The truth is that the internet really is that last life line for a lot of people going through rough times."
I would argue that a lot of these rough times were caused by the internet, either directly or indirectly.
A wise man once said, "Whether or not to commit suicide is the essential and only legitimate philosophical question"
I'm only alive today because I failed to kill myself before
Ima if i can't find @thechica. She's the only one that can save meh from this dark lonely place we called Hell. Ur the Angel that God probably send from heaven down to earth to save meh and look after meh. I'll continue fighting til the day I finally met ma Angel 🙏👼
Key!! I told you like 100 times. Don't think or try to kill yourself.
Yes, you might be going through some hard times.. But don't you let go
Life is beautiful
We are the lucky ones
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1IBRVupGqvM
We all got to die! That's the truth
But don't even try to kill yourself
Only God knows when its are time to go
@Thechica Gracias! Xie xie. Until the day ma Chica fulfilled her purpose on earth will i be the happiest man alive on planet earth 😇
@thechica https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nRqSTFprfoQ
Gracias :O you are learning Spanish? Lol or that's the only word you know huh?
I like this song
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The lyrics are so beautiful
God is good
Ooooooppp wrong link!!
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IOfoXDymFZA
@thechica u like what song? I think u send meh the wrong link to the song ;P
But have u heard of this one? Im hoping that u did! - https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=L5bLvVjJ4MA
@thechica ur correct ma Chica. Ur ma only hope that God has given meh. Im waiting til the day ma Angel lift meh up and show meh the path towards a bright future 😇 that is why im saying that I'll continue on fighting til the day I met ma ma Luvly Angel aka thechica 🙈😛
That song I shared!! Oh and yeah I have lesion to that song :)
I also like this song
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3TfcmZog6h4
@thechica ma Chica, I think I finally found..
m.youtube.com/watch
Key! Here's the song but with lyrics
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O5SZzbHUi9A great sonng!!!
>=[ I thought you did not like Enrique Iglesias!!!
@thechica yas tankyu ma Chica. I LUV 💏
I like everything u like cuz it reminds meh of u :3
Lol !! That's great, I guess 😳
Anyways Zion T ft crush new song!!!
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3f_ZzckRxDQ check it out!! :)
@thechica does that song reflect u ma Chica?
That song reflects you :P lol jk
But honestly, not really liking that song.
But its nice because Zion t voice.
I do like this song of Zion t
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_yCin5BrZ4Y this is the song I 1st heard from him!!! And his album oh wow!!! All his songs! I likeee 👍
@thechica lol.. his voice is funny. If u think his voice is attractive, than I can say that mines 10x more attracitve 😆
@thechica hahaha should I call u or text u... im not SHURE myself 😳
Lol pshhhh you wish you can have a great voice like his
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=f7LPCOIPluc
And nooo!!
@thechica I have a realy funny voice tbh lol! But im glad u like it ma Chica. Means ma voice is 10 times HAWTER so tankyu :")
The song told meh to intiate a text or call on u so don't blame meh ;P
I'm glad I'm not the only one. I had written in my diary about plans to kill myself. But I have another option, that being not letting bipolar take me. I have to survive for those in my life, ultimately for my younger brother.
we definitely all have our own crosses to bare. Just hang in there
I suffer from GAD, I get that low at times. My anxiety prevents me from having a normal life, focusing in school and succeeding in my own business. I have faith in God but I am in therapy and practice meditation. It is good to have a dream, find something you are passionate about to give a purpose.
i'm sorry you feel like this im only 14 so maybe you won't want to talk to me but i care. if you want to talk let me know. hope you feel better:)
I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself.
I hahave wanted to many many times but this was to ling and I didn't read
I can relate to a lot of what you say except for the belief in god part.
great take 👏
thanks bandit
Thanks for sharing... And not lashing out... Whoever you are...
I understand exactly how you feel, seeing as I feel the same. Feel free to message me (:
Thanks for sharing this. I think a lot more guys hold feelings in than will admit. I think this is a great take on a serious issue.
thanks. Hope it helped you see things from a different perspective
It did for sure, I feel it can help lots of people to read this take.
I've heard before that thoughts like that can be related to vitamin deficiencies or even allergies... you might want to research that!
Good article, I've never thought of committing suicide but if I ever did this would come in handy to remind of not doing so
I stopped reading after 'my belief in God'.
I knew it was going to be biblical BS for the rest of it.
you make other atheists feel ashamed to be associated with you.
That's fine for you to think that, but why bother saying it?
that's unfortunate, because i only mentioned God once... right where you stopped. Take care
@bubble_tea I ain't shaming athiests. Did I turn and say "don't believe in God become athiest!" no I didn't. I'm completely fine with him believing in God if it's keeping him alive is all I'm going to say from this point.