Why "boys will be boys" just isn't going to cut it for MEN (Page 2)

[Hannah591]

Good take and I agree. Often if a guy does something bad or cheats on a girl, people just say it's in their nature as a male but as adults, we know right from wrong and they shouldn't be able to get away with poor behaviour because they're males and women certainly shouldn't be supporting it.

[Anonymous]

Agreed, so feminists should stop with "rape culture" "no boys allowed" "all men care about is sex (like this post)" and "men have no emotions/empathy" (Also this post).

Just because you have a picture of a cute cat and only imply hatred for men DOES NOT mean it is ok.

[CommieDearest]

What a genuinely sensitive opinion lol

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed unlike the poster lol

[Roycaryn]

There is a difference between looking at a girl because you find her attractive (even sexually) and staring her down like a piece of meat that you're about to make off with like Helen of Troy. In any respect, I guarantee that it's mostly just the men who don't know the difference between the two who are making excuses.

[genuinlysensitive]

Yes, unfortunately many people making the accusations can't tell the two different kinds of men apart and paint us all with the same brush. Their idea of "equality." I guess...

[BelleGirl21]

I think you're blowing it way out of proportion. I rarely have guys stare at me to the point where it becomes uncomfortable. It's usually just a quick glance here or there and I'm guilty of the same.
If a guy was really bothering me I'd be woman enough to shut him down.

[singlebee]

Hey you look beautiful... on your new pic...😊

[BelleGirl21]

Thank you @singlebee 💙!

[singlebee]

Welcome ! 😊💙

[COCOCHANEL]

i like it too

[BelleGirl21]

Thank you @COCOCHANEL 💖

[Scrambled]

Men, maturity, who gives a shit. Control? that's what makes nice guys go home with daddy long legs in their pants and a high phone bill for downloaded porn. Why do you think men do this? Because somewhere it worked. a hot boy who does this gets action, soft boy does this and is a creep. Yes when it gets to rape and overtly violating some bodies boundaries, then there is a problem. But in terms of aggressive attraction... men who are animals win over the man who isn't.

[shessoheavy]

patriarchy is not just a problem for women, it is a problem for men. The only winners are men who adhere to the standard of masculinity and are successful doing so.

[Scrambled]

On the money man. I live by the mantra "in the game, your fellow man is your worst enemy"

[Dandeus]

Sorry, but you don't have the right not to be looked at. It's one thing if the guy is making unwelcome comments or is being a pest, but simply being found attractive is a subconscious biological reaction. Even guys who try not to look really can't help it. Half the time we aren't aware that we're looking. We might be lost in thought and our heads turn because of something we catch in our peripheral vision.

[Longblackveil]

what BS, women dont stare? Staring is no way relatable to smashing a cats head in. Women do just as much, but you can't see that past your female superiority complex

more made up feminist problems like rape culture etc, this is the same thing with the same goal

[NateInAk]

You do realize that when a guy looks at you, no matter how creepily, it doesn't mean he's planning to drag you behind a dumpster and rape you right

Don't get me wrong, it creeps me out when people stare at me too (mostly because I know it's NOT for anything good) but I don't tell them off for looking at me.
"AVERT THY GAZE FILTHY MALE PEASANTS, MINE VISAGE IS TOO MAGNIFICENT AND MINE FEELINGS TOO DELICATE TO BE LOOKED UPON!"

[PT1911]

I'm seriously trying to figure out how I should feel.

Your headline is great, but what you're ranting about... eh not so much.

People look at other people all the time, and I would assume you'_re talking about in an everyday setting, not one of going out and showing the goods so to speak

People stare at you, give them them the "DA fuq you want?" Always gets them to back down

[CommieDearest]

After reading many comments I feel like I should have specified that I mean like ridiculous ogling and what not. I don't expect anyone to walk out in public with their head down lol

[PT1911]

Fair enough lol.

I'll admit I do it to haha, but its ways her face I notice first. I always think "damn she's gorgeous"

Also Illuminati confirmed

[meatballs21]

Are you aggrieved that only men you deem unworthy are doing this to you, as opposed to hot eligible hunks that you find irresistable?

[bubble_tea]

They just don't want to grow up.

Who also stares at all interesting things or people? 6 year olds who weren't taught by their parents or teachers yet to not stare.

[Eiffelgirl21]

sorry but, staring is allowed in my country. and if you don't want to be stared at, then ya don't try to draw attention to yourself. you will never come across as logical to anyone who is intelligent.

[Mark01]

Boys WILL just be boys. I know it's wrong to say but it really is just pure instinct for us. If I see you and you're hot, my dick's gonna move. That's just how it works. I don't control it. Although I do agree 100% that groping, rape, saying stupid come-ons and whatnot is not and there's no excuse for that.

[rthomas43]

I respectfully disagree.

People are free to look at whatever they'd like.

Touching and/or inappropriate comments however is a whole nother story.

[gray_sailor]

I'm right there with you. Totally agree.

[CommieDearest]

That's all good but I just want to take the opportunity to clarify... I think a lot of people read this and assumed no one should look at anyone ever. I'm talking about shameless freaky long lasting staring. Furthermore... it's the excuse that bothers me more than the act. I'd rather people say "I don't care if I make other uncomfortable that's their problem" instead of lying and saying "I literally cannot stop making other uncomfortable it's not my fault"

[Jaydog666]

So she is saying u can look but dont stare, and if your unattractive your looks are creepy fuck me.

[Kshppatel]

Not gonna lie, I glance at girls who I find attractive but I don't go full on staredown mode.

[John_Doesnt]

I apologize that my biological instincts irritate you. If you would like me to stop breathing too I will gladly do what it takes to please the feminists. But of course all of your biological instincts that annoy men are perfectly acceptable because girls will be girls right?

[KHaskins]

Relevant:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=d-N9daqANcw

[Kimberly45]

Isn't she a men's rights activist

[CasaNorba]

damn sis, i dont think you could of said it any better!

i really do believe its time for these little boys to grow up and stop letting their balls do their brain's job.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I agree wholeheartedly. It's such a cop out. "You can't blame me for being a man" is a childish statement, and it tells you a lot about the boy who says it.

[Prof_Don]

Well said! My fellow males need to learn to control themselves and stop making excuses.