What are some signs that a guy is becoming seriously interested in you?

[GA701]

If a guy buys you a gift, starts calling you more often (calling when he is in Europe on business to say hello), starts asking for your advice and travels an hour to see you and drops $250 on a hotel room and dinner (I live with my Mom so I don't have my own place), would you say he is starting to head in a more "serious" direction? What are some other definitive signs?

[FunTastyLady]

I would say that the actions you have enumerated say just that...not only does he thinks of you (call you) but what you think matters to him (he asks for your opinion)...the gifts...

As for the hotel room...why don't you visit him at his place...I know he lives an hour away...but you could try spending a week-end with him at his place and get a better feel of his life...his place...his neighbourhood...etc

All of this looks pretty good though...
Good luck!

[GA701]

I am usually the one traveling into NYC as he has his own place but it's nice to mix things up a bit. I agree that his actions speak volumes but you know how guys are - just when you think it's in the bag...lol

[twelveangrymen]

I don't think so. Gifts are nice but they usually come with a price. He called you does not mean anything he probably wanted somebody to talk to while he was traveling. a rich guy could pay 250 for a hotel for mistress and still be married. it's no big deal when you have money. when he introduces you to his family and his closest friends to me that is a sign that he is seriously interested in you. also if he wants to make plans with you

[GA701]

Well this is a 50 year old guy were talking about who does not have a lot of money. I agree that introducing family and friends is the ultimate but these other factors are indicators that he is "on the path". Trust me, you are still young - guys don't do certain things unless they are really interested.

[twelveangrymen]

I have been offered gifts, countries, money, and even marriage by men before i evem turnef 20. I could just smell the desperation from a mile away but thats just me. And i have rejected them all

[twelveangrymen]

*even turned 20

[GA701]

I understand but this is a very different situation. thanks for your input though

[BrunetteNYC]

I think that his actions are showing you all the right things right now, but lost of men come on strong early on.

[GA701]

It's actually been 8 months

[Anonymous]

Sounds definitive enough to me. He likes you alright.