Do men like it when women make effort to say hi to them?

[Anonymous]

or is it desperate looking or a giveaway she fancies him?

[xPoison]

I don't see how saying hi is desperate. When I said hi to a crush of mines, he was super happy and winked at me haha. Saying hi is just out of respect and ofc you do it because the way you feel in regards to that guy you like ;)

[EyeSeaYew]

If making an effort to say Hi involves knocking down old people and kicking small children out of the way, you're trying too hard.

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[Elixir1989]

https://www. youtube. com/watch? v=3VdCJVoxPfE

Username reminded me of that

[Elixir1989]

Make sure to take the spaces out

[EyeSeaYew]

@Elixir1989 Lol

[wowzer]

Actually, there were girls through my uni that said hi to me all the time with big smiles on their faces and I had no clue they liked me till I was told later. I just thought they were friendly lol.

[Balcazaurus]

I know I like it someone greets me.

Especially women.

[Asker]

do u think she likes u? what if she stops doing it

[Balcazaurus]

I'm gonna tell you the same thing I told my sister and a female friend of mine.

"We, as Men, are idiots. Any amount of attention you (women) give us, makes us feel like winners."

But there are exceptions. I work retail. I get dozens of greetings every day. It's just the polite thing to do.

Or it depends on a person's mood. For example, I was in a bad mood one day and a female co-worker greeted me and asked me if I was watching the World Cup. I was gruff and said, "Not really." I felt bad after that.

Oh! If I think she likes me, she'll greet me every time I see her and she'll remain conversing with me, but just a casual, "Hello", will not "lead-me-on".

Not unless of course you think there's some dude you think is into you, and your not into him, and so stopped greeting him, and now he seems kind of... irritable.

[Asker]

thanks! yea he seems happy when i greet him and also he starts conversations so does it mean he's into me... i feel like the convos dont last long though

[Balcazaurus]

I'm in a similar situation myself.

Half of me is being skeptical to not hurt myself. The other half is hopeful. As of right now, I'm pursuing her because I'm flat out interested.

Well, it's like Einstien once said, and I'm paraphrasing: "When a man sits next to a pretty girl for an hour, it feels like a minute. When you sit on red-hot cinder, a minute feels like an hour. It's relative."

I guess what I'm learning from this girl is to not be greedy. Patience and balance, but even waiting for too long is a fault.

[Asker]

what would u say is too long being patient cause im sick of waiting

[Balcazaurus]

If he hasn't made a move, then I guess, if you really had interest, show your cards because it's better to know and learn as opposed to be left wondering what would have been.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I don't see it as desperate, I admire the fact that she actually came up to say hi to me. she did something she wanted to do:)

[Theguywhomadeurday]

No I don't find it desperate , rather confident any sexy.😃

[GoldCobra]

Are you looking for reassurance? Yes, we like that.

[Macklin91]

I like it. Men have feelings to

[Asker]

should i keep saying hi?

[Macklin91]

To me? Sure... but seriously yeah it wouldn't hurt maybe start a little conversation along with the hi next time.

[AnimeDreama]

hmmm Macklin and BertMacklin...

-_^

[Asker]

he actually starts convos, so is it a good sign he's interested?

[Macklin91]

Ooo noooo! You've figured it out!

[Macklin91]

It's at least a good sign. Keep talking and stay engaged, smile and laugh at his jokes if any.

[Anonymous]

It's only desp. if you make it seem desp. basically you decide if you think it is or not...

[Forca]

Yes, it's always nice.