A guy asked me for bikini pics before the first date? What should I think?

[Angelina703]

I met a guy last week and I gave him my number. He's texted me once a day and we have plans to meet up tomorrow. Last night he asked me to send him some bikini pics. I said no, that I don't do that kind of thing so early. He was quiet and didn't respond for a while. Eventually I texted him back saying "hello?" And he said he was not mad at all and we continued texting a bit. When we met last week, he commented that I was in great shape. This has been bothering me. What are your thoughts and should I cxl the date?

[Theguyoverthere]

It means he wants to hook up with you and that's all it is going to be. Even if he were to "date" you it'd just be a cover up for him wanting to have sex. Way too early to even be mentioning that stuff.

Oh and him "not being mad" is a cover up. He was hoping for pics and was probably annoyed for a bit when you said no.

So yea cancel it unless you wanna hook up with him. He's gonna keep tailoring the conversations to your body constantly.

[Angelina703]

Thank you, just what I needed to hear. I'm canceling:)

[Theguyoverthere]

No problem. This is the number 1 issue girls have had with online dating. The guys only want to hook up.

[bDizzie]

I definitely think he asked for risque pictures a little too soon. He hasn't gotten to that comfort level with you yet. Should you cancel? It's up to you. I'd say as long as you are meeting in public to give him one more chance.

[xPoison]

The thing is now a days guys have seen plenty of girls in bikini at the beach, and now we have all these VS models on TV and magazine posing in bikini. Plus if he has FB, you see several girls posing their pics in bikini when they're at the beach with friebds

To him he wanted to know what exactly he was dating and if it was to guys likings. but knowing that he is looking to date you, I it was inappropriate. I'd. be second guessing him.

[MaskofInsanity]

I think that was shallow and inappropriate. Personally, I'd be turned off and would cancel the date. But maybe that's preemptive and you should give him a shot? It's your call really.

[floridaguy1989]

Agreed.

[StrawberryCream]

He is propably just looking for a girl to bang.

Dont go out with him

[HarryStyles]

Either he has a slightly weird sense of humor or he's a bit of a pervert! He's not a male gynecologist per chance is he? If so... it's probably the later!

[Ihav2fart]

He is pervving. Can't blame a guy for asking right?

[Elixir1989]

Should you be mad that you're in great shape? Probably -_-

[Anonymous]

Bikini's are "proper" attire, remember? Nothing wrong with bikini's. Therefore, if a guy wants bikini photos why not?

[TheWeedGuy]

Don't go out with him.

[happy_camp3r]

He wants some

[CursedChico]

Stop seeing.

[YaBoiJacob]

ewww