Crush has dilated eyes or, am I just going crazy? lol?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy who knows i like him, and he said he wasn't interested apparently, but recently we've been making a lot of eye contact and smiling at each other, but recently i notice that when he looks at me, his light brown eyes turn dark?, almost like black, supppppper creepy, i dont get it?

[still_waiting]

The eye color doesn't change. The black circle in the eye gets bigger. That's what dilation is.

Keep in mind that some people have big pupils. I have huge pupils all the time so people assume I'm high or something. So, that could be it.
Another thing to consider is that you could be looking too hard for a sign and seeing something that isn't there.

But if it is happening, it is a sign of attraction. So, you've got that. But that doesn't necessarily mean he likes you.

[Asker]

i know it doesn't mean anything and but his pupils aren't big, and when i say it changes color i mean his eyes are light brown, but his pupils get supppper big, his eyes get black cause it gets so big

[still_waiting]

Oh okay. Well, hmm if you're noticing that then yeah that's a pretty good sign

[Asker]

i was just confused as to why it would happen if he doesn;t like me, i know my dilated like crazy around him, but that's cause i like him.. hahah

[still_waiting]

He might like to. Or at least find you attractive.

[still_waiting]

*you

[Asker]

yeah its possible lol...

[fueledbyramen]

Have u thought about the possibility that he's rolling or tripping? That seems like the most logical explanation to me :P

[Asker]

hahahahahahah say whatttt? :P

[fueledbyramen]

Has he tried explaining to you how 'everything is interconnected' ... ya know, 'theres no seperation between self and other' or 'everything in our world is sacred' type stuff? lol Or maybe just gotten like super touchy feely with you for no reason and wanted to dance? That's the kinda shit that ends up happening when my eyes are super dilated haha :P

[Asker]

whatttt?, omgosh no hahahahahaha, no no when we talk he talks to me in this sweet voice, and then eyes change instantly from light brown to darkkkk,

[fueledbyramen]

pay no attention to me lol. You both sound adorable :), I'm sure he's just into you... (altho the reptilian shape shifter theory is intriguing? :P)

[Asker]

hahhahahahaah thankss :P, fingers crossed that he is actually into me :)), & im hoping that he isn't a reptilian, just saying :/ LOL hahahahahahhaah

[SuperNurse42]

He likes what he sees.

Pupils dilate to bring in as much light as they can. If he is attracted to you, the eyes will do this to see as much of you as possible.

[Asker]

so weird he doesn;t even like me tho ahahahah

[SuperNurse42]

Apparently his eyes say otherwise.

[SuperNurse42]

Unless he's on some serious meds or something..

[Asker]

hahahahaha no no he isn't on meds :P

[one_true_alpha]

Usually when I guy or girl has dilated eyes when talking to someone that's usually a sign that he likes you. He is inflamed with desire :P

[FrekiWolfdregil]

Pupils can dilate from attraction, mine did when I dated this girl.. she could see it and always made her smile :D
Natural high baby!

[ihatethiswebsite]

People's eyes dilate if they are with somebody they like

[Asker]

I know mine are always dilated when im around him, its not hard to notice at all hahahah, he'll come talk to me, and his eyes are light brown and then they change instantly whiten a few minutes while we talk, but he doesn't like me tho? lol

[ihatethiswebsite]

How do you know he doesn't?

[Asker]

i told him i like him and his response was " yeah i knew you liked me, i just didn't say anything about it" then he keep telling me it was okay, and it didn't bother him that i like him..

[ihatethiswebsite]

That doesn't sound like a no to me. Maybe he's just not comfortable flat out saying he likes you

[Asker]

maybe not? but he could of told me he did, but didn't, so im assuming he doesn't, i just don't want to get my hopes up lol

[ihatethiswebsite]

Some people are uncomfortable letting the other person know they like them even though they do. You should just ask if he's interested in you

[Asker]

that's possible? i mean why else would his get so dilated? cause i know mine get suppppper dilated around him lollll

[ihatethiswebsite]

You should just ask him that since he knows that you like him and that he never gave you a direct response if he likes you that you would like to hear an answer

[Asker]

yeahh, i should ask him lol, at least i'd know for sure how he feels...

[ihatethiswebsite]

At least then you wouldn't have to constantly wonder which I'm sure is annoying lol

[Asker]

omgosh so annoying lol, esp when i work with him 5 days a week hahahaahahah

[ihatethiswebsite]

Lol. Hopefully he likes you

[Asker]

yeah hopefully, eh? loll

[Anonymous]

He might just be high and noticing a lot more about you. Being high gives people the ability to concentrate more. An example is like staring at a tree. When you're high you could stare at a tree for hours and notice more thing about that tree that you wouldn't notice if you weren't high.

[Asker]

whattt?, okay now you've lost me hahahahahahahahaha

[abundantlyrich]

He's a reptilian... Shape shifting...

[abundantlyrich]

My best bet is he is on some form of meds

[Asker]

oh maybe, eh?

[Asker]

he's not on any meds ahahahaahaha,

[GoldCobra]

maybe he was tripping on acid

[Asker]

no way hahahahahahah