Why does my boyfriend blame for a bathing suit accident that happened in front of his friends?

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My boyfriend and I went tubing down a river near our house with a bunch of friends. I wasn't expecting to do anything crazy just from floating down the river so I wore a strapless tube top Bikini that day. About halfway down the river we came across a rope swing so we pulled up on the beach ate some lunch and played on the rope swing. I had already swung off the rope swing twice and had no problems with my bikini top. Tube top bikinis are not the idea bikini for big boob girls to be swinging on a rope swing from their arms but like I said I had not planned for this. I decided to jump one more time off the swing and what a mistake that was. I climbed up to the top of the embankment grabbed the swing and jumped, when the rope took tension it jolted my body and the plastic clip on the back of my bikini top broke and off came the top. Embarrassed and in shock I forget to let go of the rope and almost hit the tree on the way back up. Finally I let go and drop in the water. All of our friends are waiting on me to jump off the swing again before we floated down the river some more so they were all standing there watching and waiting on me so all of them got to see. When I came back out of the water they were all cheering and clapping while I'm trying to cover up my boobs with my hands and then they saw my boobs again when I had to take my hands off of them to climb back up out of the water.

We finally found my bikini top and was able to tie it back on. Everyone but my boyfriend thought it was funny including me even though I was a little embarrassed. The rest of the day he was kind of giving me the third degree and I could tell he was upset by it, when I tried to talk to him he did nothing but tell me it was my fault and I should've worn a different bikini. I explained to him I couldn't help that it happened but he doesn't seem to understand and is still upset by this even today.

Is he being senseless or am I really at fault here?
Why does my boyfriend blame for a bathing suit accident that happened in front of his friends?
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